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I spend a lot of time reading about sex, but writing my bi-weekly column Sex Stories We Love for Kinkly (shared with the amazing Bobbie Morgan) has given me an entirely new perspective on what sex news is. I mean, I collect sex news every week to share, but when it comes down to picking just a handful of items to discuss in the column, I have a really hard time! Sex news is everywhere. Sex in everywhere. Sex opinion and education and discussion is everywhere. And that is awesome! This week on Sex Stories We Love, I get into the …

Dressed to Thrill: Bringing Cosplay Into the Bedroom—My latest on Kinkly!

November 26, 2014

I’m so happy this article has come out on Kinkly! Cosplay is such a fun topic to research, and bridges my interests in nerdy culture that I explore on another project, Flock of Nerds, and sex and sexuality. Check it out! Dressed to Thrill: Bringing Cosplay Into the Bedroom Don’t forget to catch The Night is Dark and Full of Tassels: GAME OF THRONES BURLESQUE III this Saturday, November 29!

erotica / Sex Writing

Wrapped in an Angel’s Sexy Wings—Cover Him with Darkness

November 26, 2014

How far would you go for the romance of a lifetime? Would you risk your family relationships? Would you risk your eternal soul? Janine Ashbless wraps these themes in Cover Him with Darkness—a thrilling erotic tale where good and evil battle for true love. I chatted with Janine about her latest trip into fantasy erotica, a genre she expands with romantic adventures of swords ‘n’ sandals, contemporary paranormal, fairytale stories based on mythology and folklore. What is the overwhelming allure of angels in our mythology? I think that in the westernized romantic mythology, angels take the same role as the gods …

Racial Inclusivity and Secrets of the Sex Masters

November 23, 2014

I’ve been pretty quiet here on Sex in Words lately (more on that soon) because I’ve been very busy with lots of exciting, rewarding (and some disappointing) projects. One of the good ones was having my writing appear in Secrets of the Sex Masters, an excellent new book by Carl Frankel. I was fortunate enough to be pen the chapter on anal sex —a true honour for me. The book is an excellent resource and I do recommend you pick it up! At the same time, an issue with the book has come to light, one that I am ashamed to …

Sex News! I love it! October 26, 2014

October 26, 2014

What Did We Get Stuck In Our Rectums Last Year? I don’t like being raped Welcome to Oculus XXX: In-Your-Face 3D is the Future of Porn Male Escorts: Why Women Shouldn’t Be Afraid to Give Them A Go Digital Swingers Oral Sex Redefined: The Art of Sexspeak. Why I visit prostitutes Is sex only for rich people? What I learned from teaching a sex-writing class Beforeplay: Normalizing the Way We Talk About Sex Women Who Have Rough Sex: Why It Can Be Liberating 4 Weirdest Things We Learned About Sex This Week Asexuality, Explained in One Simple Comic Open Relationships …

Secrets of the Sex Masters! Available Now!

October 21, 2014October 23, 2014

I am delighted to let everyone know that you can now learn all of the Secrets of the Sex Masters! This remarkable collection of sex tips, instruction, anecdotes and fun is now available on Amazon! I was lucky enough to contribute the chapter on anal sex (yay!) and I have to praise editor Carl Frankel on the fantastic job he’s done in collecting this tremendous bank of knowledge. Check out this line-up of Sex Master contributors: Carl Frankel, Megan Andelloux, Jaeleen Bennis, Charlie Glickman, Ernest Greene, Nina Hartley, Carlyle Jansen, Joseph Kramer, Reid Mihalko, Eve Minax, Caroline Muir, Charles Muir, Tallulah Sulis, Patricia …

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Sexy Tickles from The Pigeonhole’s Erotica Feathers!

October 16, 2014

An exciting new digital publishing venture has launched this fall! The Pigeonhole showcases many different genres with mutli-week stories that are delivered directly to subscribers’ devices. What piqued my interest (beyond loving stories!) is their October 17 launch of Sex Staves! That’s right, erotica comes to The Pigeonhole in the form of an anthology of smutty work from new and established writers—a new story every week for 10 straight weeks. I caught up with Anna Hughes, their erotica series campaign manager to poke my beak into the sexiness we can expect. Was including erotica always in the plans for The …

Elust #63

October 16, 2014October 16, 2014

Photo courtesy of A to sub Bee Welcome to Elust #63 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #64? Start with the rules, come back November1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ I am Sexy at Every Size Censored? Never By My Hand #DarkErotica #BDSM Hovering ~ Featured …

erotica / Sex Writing

Men on the Make: Shane Allison Confesses

October 7, 2014October 7, 2014

Do you tell your sexy secrets? Do you want people to know what you get up to? Would you ever write a story about them? After interviewing fantastic writer/editor Shane Allison on Sex City this past summer, I knew I’d like to learn more about his projects, and shortly thereafter Men on the Make (Cleis Press) showed up on my doorstep. This amazing collection of “true gay sex confessions” is both telling and titillating so I knew I had to continue this conversation with Shane. What was the first sexy/dirty/smutty thing you ever committed to paper? I wrote poems for a …

The Hook-up: A Good Woman’s Dirty Mind

October 1, 2014

Introducing A Good Woman’s Dirty Mind I’m going to be completely honest here: I fucked up. A Good Woman’s Dirty Mind is one of my sex blogging inspirations and I can’t believe it took me this long to feature her and her work in The Hook-up. Foolishly, I thought I already had. Well, I learned, and now you will as well. She’s taught me so very much. How did you get into sex blogging? By accident, really. I only started my blog as a placeholder for my erotica. I really didn’t have plans for it. Then I got the itch …