True Fans Can’t Be Bought

Rarely will I ever call myself a purest. I mean, if you’ve been a reader of follower of my writing and work (thank you!) for any length of time, you will have probably noted that I am pretty damn liberal when it comes to sex and media. I firmly believe that we cannot move forward with a free and healthy sexual culture without out media also featuring sex in both believable and fantastic ways. We need to see our every day as well as out somedaymaybefantasy days come to life on our screens. It will be the balance of realism …

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Make Your First Time in a Sex Shop a Great Experience!

We just might be entering the golden age of sex. People are starting to talk about it more, the idea of sex education is taking root as a need and we’re moving past the idea that sex is purely for procreation and toward a better understanding of the vast and amazing pleasures of sex. Each of these is a grand advance from the darker days when sex was still taboo, or in some respects, illegal. We’ve come a long way, baby! But we’re not done yet, not by a long shot. There are many other aspects of sex, social, health, …

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Sex Stories We Love: Enthusiastic Consent, Safer Sex and Swapping Sexual Bucket Lists

It is time to rewrite how we approach the beginning and continuance of sexual relationships. The recent deluge of subtle and extreme differences in how we, as a society, approach sex and relationships has been painful and ugly. And absolutely necessary. Fortunately, this week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly features some great writers and thinkers – and a lot more to think about. It is going to take a lot to get through this, so let’s (consensually) hold each other tight. Check out stories on A Great Date?, Be Enthusiastic About Consent, Give Love To Gloves and Dams, Blowing …

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Muse Monday: Caught It All

Welcome back to a special edition of Muse Mondays. It has been a while. It was a nice and refreshing change to write some erotica. Funnily, this story is more story and less smut than I am used to. But I still think it is pretty hot. Thanks for the inspiration Ninja Photo! Caught It All None of us want to be here. None of us want this event to happen. Our two friends are making the biggest mistake of their lives and we’re here to, supposedly, celebrate their engagement and impending marriage. Such a mistake. q “Put your game …

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Virtual Reality Porn Is Here! (Here’s What You Need to Know About It)

Remember when virtual reality was just some kind of fantasy? It seemed so far off and unreal. Oh, it is real. Virtual reality is here to stay and it is getting better all the time. And the best part—virtual reality porn! As is often the case with new technological advances, adult entertainment is leading the way to improve and refine it. Check out my latest on Kinkly: Virtual Reality Porn Is Here! (Here’s What You Need to Know About It)

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Sex Stories We Love: Kink on the Move, Slut, Yeah!, Ready for Robots? & More!

I like to think of the various stages we move through in our sex lives as a game of Twister. Sometimes folks are able to make transitions easily and without much discomfort. Other movements can be fraught with twists and turns that leave you tied in a knot! And the the thing is, we’re all different and all experience these challenges differently. This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly is all about the different things we learn about sex during different times in our lives. But remember, if there’s one aspect of this that rings true—always wear your sexiest …

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You Can Help Sequence the Porn Genome!

Porn is one of those things that many people think about, watch and wonder about. We fantasize about it, we wonder what it is like to create it and some of us even perform in it. So why has there been so little research into the nitty gritty of our sexy fun viewings? There are some aspects of porn that are considered, but what about the basics. The words we use for porn. What we search for. What we desire. Enter the people of Proctor and Lever (don’t worry, they use lots of lube). They are seizing the opportunity to …

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Buck Off: The First Mass-produced Sex Toy for Trans Men

It was my pleasure to learn about the world’s first mass-produced sex toy for trans men from the man who made this little dream machine come true—Buck Angel! And because he is the man behind this revolutionary sex product, it makes perfect sense for it to be called the Buck Off! Learn more about this exciting development is sex tech in my latest on Future of Sex— Buck Off: The First Mass-produced Sex Toy for Trans Men

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