True Fans Can’t Be Bought

Rarely will I ever call myself a purest. I mean, if you’ve been a reader of follower of my writing and work (thank you!) for any length of time, you will have probably noted that I am pretty damn liberal when it comes to sex and media. I firmly believe that we cannot move forward with a free and healthy sexual culture without out media also featuring sex in both believable and fantastic ways. We need to see our every day as well as out somedaymaybefantasy days come to life on our screens. It will be the balance of realism …

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Make Your First Time in a Sex Shop a Great Experience!

We just might be entering the golden age of sex. People are starting to talk about it more, the idea of sex education is taking root as a need and we’re moving past the idea that sex is purely for procreation and toward a better understanding of the vast and amazing pleasures of sex. Each of these is a grand advance from the darker days when sex was still taboo, or in some respects, illegal. We’ve come a long way, baby! But we’re not done yet, not by a long shot. There are many other aspects of sex, social, health, …

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Sex Stories We Love: All That Is Red, Sex Writers Regaled, & the In and Out Is All About

Change, change, change. Fortunately, we’re always making change. The sex community is a great conduit to bringing change to the greater world at large. This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly is all about the change the sex community is spreadin’ around. Check out stories on Protection From The Storm, All That is Red, Maybe It Is Just About Getting Home Faster?, Pictures Can Spell A Thousand Orgasms, Sex Writers Regaled, The In and Out is All About.

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Sex Stories We Love: Enthusiastic Consent, Safer Sex and Swapping Sexual Bucket Lists

It is time to rewrite how we approach the beginning and continuance of sexual relationships. The recent deluge of subtle and extreme differences in how we, as a society, approach sex and relationships has been painful and ugly. And absolutely necessary. Fortunately, this week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly features some great writers and thinkers – and a lot more to think about. It is going to take a lot to get through this, so let’s (consensually) hold each other tight. Check out stories on A Great Date?, Be Enthusiastic About Consent, Give Love To Gloves and Dams, Blowing …

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Muse Monday: Caught It All

Welcome back to a special edition of Muse Mondays. It has been a while. It was a nice and refreshing change to write some erotica. Funnily, this story is more story and less smut than I am used to. But I still think it is pretty hot. Thanks for the inspiration Ninja Photo! Caught It All None of us want to be here. None of us want this event to happen. Our two friends are making the biggest mistake of their lives and we’re here to, supposedly, celebrate their engagement and impending marriage. Such a mistake. q “Put your game …

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Sex Stories We Love: We’re All Here, Naked Ain’t Sex, & Do It Right This Time

It might just be me, but I feel that if you aren’t asking questions about sex—before, during and after—then you’re just not doing it right. This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly considers some important concerns swirling in our sex world. Check out stories on We’re All Here, Naked Ain’t Sex, The Guide to Happy Hosting, Listening to Your Elders, Do It Right the First Time and Nothing Else Matters.

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Sex Stories We Love: Domo Arigato Mr. Roboto, The Depths of Porn, Toe-tally Hot

There are so many different ways to have sex. Baskin Robbins might have all those flavours of ice cream, but if you think about all of the options we have to get our sexytimes on, you know that there ain’t no cone big enough to hold them all. Unless that’s what you’re into… Let’s talk about all of our sexual possibilities and how some are misunderstood, in this week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly. Check out stories on Domo Arigato, Mr. Roboto?, Let’s Rehab Sex Parties, Reimagining Orgasm, The Depths of Porn, Toe-tally Hot, and Fear is Okay.

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Sex Stories We Love: Gotta Get It Right, the Low Down on Low Drive, & Egads! Women Fantasize!

Have you ever played the telephone game? One person share some info then the next person gets 90% of it right. Then they share it and only get 90% right. So on it goes until only a tiny fraction of the original story is correct. This happens all too often with sex-related information. This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly will hopefully clear up a few of the misconceptions that are floating around out there. Check out stories on Gotta Get It Right, Education Up, Numbers Down, The Lowdown on Low Drive, Egads! Women Fantasize!, Don’t Eat All The …

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Sex Stories We Love: Seek Out the Best From Sex Educators, Friend in Need Is a Friend in (Dirty) Deeds, & Questioning Doctor’s Advice

Asking for help can be very hard. We’ve got pride, we fear shame. Sometimes we just don’t know who to ask or how to ask. It is a complicated thing! But this week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly will hopefully provide some ideas and thoughts on how to ask for what you need sexually. Check out stories on Seek Out The Best From Sex Educators, The Gift That Keeps On Giving, Siri-ously, Not Much Assistance, A Friend In Need Is a Friend in (Dirty) Deeds), Questioning Doctor’s Advice, and Don’t Ask, Yell.

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Sex Stories We Love: Artistic Expression, Sex Work Ads Under Attack, & Cheating Cheaters

Wouldn’t it be nice if sex were an easy topic? No controversies, no situations of pain and difficulty? This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly explores some currently trending topics that illustrate just how challenged many people are by topics relating to sex. It can be hard stuff to swallow, but let’s keep a sense of hope that we’re working hard to change the world. Check out stories on Artistic Expression, Sex Work Ads Under Attack, St. FX Support, Cheating Cheaters, Not Hugging Matt Damon, and Beautiful Bodies.

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Sex Stories We Love: Boo-ty Call, First Date Fun, & Ho Ho OH OH

Our sexual desires come in all different shapes, sizes and flavours. Some are are known, some are from another realm. This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly is an exploration of the different types of sex were having, talking about and curious to know more of. Check out stories on Boo-ty Call?, Now You’ve Laid Me Down To Sleep, Twin Speaks?, First Date Fun, Experience Speaks, and HO HO OH OH!

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Sex Stories We Love: Pics and Pecs, All You Have to Do Is Dream, & Good Therapist Relationships

Oh, interpretation. We really are subjective creatures, aren’t we! There is always lots of wiggle room in interpretation—particularly when it comes to sex. This week’s Sex Stories We Love in Kinkly looks are different ways we can look at meanings to find truths…or otherwise. Check out stories on Repetitive Drivel, Pics and Pecs, All You Have To Do Is Dream, Massaging Conversations, Good Therapist Relationships and Combining the Two?

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5 Sex Tech Gifts Your Man Will Love This Holiday Season—My latest on Future of Sex

I have to say, I’ve had a lot of fun explore sex tech this past year. Recent innovations and advancements in products and software have greatly advanced the different kinds of pleasure men can enjoy with the sexytime devices. If you’re thinking of gifting your special fella with and new and exciting toy to play with, check out these 5 Sex Tech Gifts Your Man Will Love This Holiday Season on Future of Sex.

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Sex Stories We Love: When Mother of Dragons Speaks, Gender Fluid Fabulous, & Write Sexy Right? Wrong!

Sex and celebrity are definitely strange bedfellows. Sometimes they get along, sometimes they are bitter enemies. This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly explores this odd relationship. Check out stories on When Mother of Dragons Speaks, Celebrity Pressure, Righting Wrongs, eh?, Gender Fluid Fabulous!, Listen, TED Talks, and Write Sexy Right? Wrong!

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Sex Stories We Love: Good Yea Mates, Contractually Yours & Sexytime Snacks

Sometimes there are so many different types of sex news floating around, it is impossible to narrow these selections down to one category. So we get a potpourri edition of Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly! Check out stories on Moving Forward by Looking Back, One Thing is False, Good Yea, Mates!, Contractually Yours, Don’t Believe the Hype and Sexytime Snacks?.

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Nexus Excite Anal Beads—My Latest Review on Cara Sutra!

Always happy to be back providing a sexy product review for Cara Sutra’s amazing Pleasure Panel. Don’t know it? You should! It is one of the best collections of sex toy and product reviews on the planet! This month I tried something I knew I’d like: Nexus Excite Anal Beads. Why did I know I’d like them? They’re anal beads! Why did I like them? Why should you try them? Check out my review and see if it piques your interest in some bum fun.

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Sex Stories We Love: Better Life Through Sex Work, Solidifying BFF, & Now That’s Hard!

Friends, there is so much nasty news coming out relating to sex. Pretty much every day. Every hour even! Now, this stuff has to come out and it will hopefully lead to change.  Fingers crossed. But it doesn’t mean we’re not still going through some hard times. Instead of letting all of the nasty get us down, let’s look to some good happenings and people for inspiration. So this week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly is meant to put a smile on all of your sexy faces! Check out stories on Major Victory, Better Life Through Sex Work, Solidifying …

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The Cowgirl: Kiiroo and COTR Saddle Up for Release of Interactive Riding-Style Sex Machine

Kiiroo is really coming on strong in the sex toy market. They’re making significant partnerships and advancing sex tech with strong products. Their latest coupling will have consumers and cam performers shouting “yeeeehaw!” The Cowgirl will feel good for those using it and Kiiroo has developed their own tipping system in a race to establish the best audience-controlled devices. Check out this preview of The Cowgirl: Kiiroo and COTR Saddle Up for Release of Interactive Riding-Style Sex Machine—my latest on Future of Sex.

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