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Do you remember your first sex toy? Do you remember how you acquired it? How was the experience—both buying and later playing? We asked folks from the sex community to share the stories of their first sex toy. Their memories are both cautionary tales and inspiring. We can learn so much from their experiences that will hopefully inform your sex toy purchases. Check out My First Sex Toy: Reflections from the Sex Community on Kinkly!

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From Pet Play to Fancy Feet: Selling Specialty Sex Online

October 15, 2018October 14, 2018

One of the most significant impacts the evolution of the Internet has allowed is the availability of sex entertainment and products. It used to be very challenging, and sometimes quite uncomfortable, for people to purchase the sex toys they desire. But as we become more connected, people with non-traditional sexual desires can more readily find the items that get them going and have them delivered right to their homes. Many thanks to Sophia LaPlug from BuyTailPlugs, Justin from MedFetUk and Shawn from Foot-Fetish-Toys for helping me explore the wider world of kink products for my latest on Kinkly: From Pet Play …

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Self-Love on TV: 8 TV Scenes That Lent a Little More Acceptance to Self Love

July 5, 2018July 4, 2018

What is the sound of a television studio audience reacting to a masturbation scene? One hand clapping! Just as it has done with nudity and other sexual situations, the medium of television is slowing catching on to depicting masturbation. More shows are including this common sex act in their storylines…sometimes for laughs and sometimes to advance dramatic storylines. Check out some of the shows that are paving the way for better understanding and representation of masturbation: Self-Love on TV: 8 TV Scenes That Lent a Little More Acceptance to Self Love on Kinkly!

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Finding the Pulse of Penis Pleasure—My Latest on Future of Sex!

December 19, 2016

The world of sex toys is expanding—and improving—by the day! Innovation and advances are bringing new types of stimulation that are knocking our socks off. And sometimes, these products have the added body benefits. If you or someone you love has a penis, you have got to check out Hot Octopuss’ Pulse III. It is a revelation. Read all about it in Finding the Pulse of Penis Pleasure on Future of Sex!

Listening In: The Sounds of Sex—My First Guest Post for Cara Sutra!

August 25, 2015

I’ve long been intrigued by the sounds of sex—beyond the delicious moans and groans. What turns us on between the ears can often be overlooked. And getting to explore this as a guest post on the inimitable Cara Sutra’s site is a tremendous pleasure. Much appreciate to Girly Juice and Christopher Zeischegg for sharing their thoughts! Check out Listening In: The Sounds of Sex

My latest Not Having Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly!

March 31, 2015

This right. This time around I look into stories about not having sex, including dry spells, the importance of sleep, no blow jobs, celebrity porn to avoid, life without porn and disappearing strip clubs. Check it out!

Sex News! I love it! March 22, 2015

March 22, 2015

What I learned from a male sex surrogate “That Would Be a Great Sex Toy!”: How New Age Crystal Dildos Changed One Sex Shop Worker’s Life 12 Gay Sex Positions Heterosexuals Should Try Here’s What We’re All Thinking About Sex, From the 20-Something Sex Educators Who Know Opening the Door to the Deliciously Disabled: The Importance of Having Accessibility in Sexual Spaces ‘Cum For Bigfoot’: The Rise, Fall, and Future of Monster Erotica What do Asexuals Think About our Sex-Obsessed World? I’m married. I’m a woman. I’m addicted to porn. Sex Work Can Be Empowering, But The Sex Industry Isn’t …

My Latest Sex Stories We Love! Library Lawbreaking, Plant Sex & Sexy Spine Curves & more!

March 17, 2015

It has been a couple weeks of pretty out there stories to choose from for my latest Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly.We’ve got a woman doing cam shows in public libraries, lube regulation, butts and spine curves, outlawing queer conversion, plant sex, and the question of naming abuse on Fetlife. Check it out and enjoy!

Best Sex Writing of the Year—Coming Soon!

January 28, 2015

Coming Soon BestSexWritingoftheYear.com @BestSexWriters Facebook Available for Pre-order now

My latest Sex Stories We Love! Frotteurism, How Not to Clean Your Sex Toy, Safe Literature & More!

January 20, 2015January 21, 2015

Writing about sex—particularly sex in the news—just feels so damn right. It really is what I wish I could do all time! Fortunately, I’ve got my little slice of the pie over at Kinkly—and here it is! My latest Sex Stories We Love dips into frotteurism, dlido cleaning gone wrong, condoms in erotica, strip club commandments, the sexiness of creativity and bipolar disorder in relationships. Read Here!