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My latest Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly!
Writing for Kinkly has been one of my favourite things this year—especially the Sex Stories We Love columns. That said, I am delighted that this is my last piece of official work due this calendar year and I am enjoying the break. But I’ve already got some stories stockpiled for SSWL, the blog and other works, coming soon in 2015! Check out my latest Sex Stories We Love featuring LEGO! Dornan! Fetish Photos! Furries! Infidelity! Language Transition Petition!
My latest Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly! Read MoreMy Latest Sex Stories We Love: Banned in the UK, Bad Ass Parenting, and Male Birth Control
I spend a lot of time reading about sex, but writing my bi-weekly column Sex Stories We Love for Kinkly (shared with the amazing Bobbie Morgan) has given me an entirely new perspective on what sex news is. I mean, I collect sex news every week to share, but when it comes down to picking just a handful of items to discuss in the column, I have a really hard time! Sex news is everywhere. Sex in everywhere. Sex opinion and education and discussion is everywhere. And that is awesome! This week on Sex Stories We Love, I get into the …
My Latest Sex Stories We Love: Banned in the UK, Bad Ass Parenting, and Male Birth Control Read MoreMy Latest Sex Stories We Love: Let’s Talk Labels—on Kinkly
Labels, when it comes to sex and sexuality, might be the ultimate Catch-22. We don’t really like them, but we kinda find them necessary. This week in Sex Stories We Love, I discuss posts about asexuality, bottoming and sex addiction as well as the vag vs clit debate, sexspeak and a campus nudie mag!
My Latest Sex Stories We Love: Let’s Talk Labels—on Kinkly Read MoreSex News! I love it! October 26, 2014
What Did We Get Stuck In Our Rectums Last Year? I don’t like being raped Welcome to Oculus XXX: In-Your-Face 3D is the Future of Porn Male Escorts: Why Women Shouldn’t Be Afraid to Give Them A Go Digital Swingers Oral Sex Redefined: The Art of Sexspeak. Why I visit prostitutes Is sex only for rich people? What I learned from teaching a sex-writing class Beforeplay: Normalizing the Way We Talk About Sex Women Who Have Rough Sex: Why It Can Be Liberating 4 Weirdest Things We Learned About Sex This Week Asexuality, Explained in One Simple Comic Open Relationships …
Sex News! I love it! October 26, 2014 Read MoreThe Scientific Interest in Sex
Does your body shape indicate what type of sex (and sex parts) you have? I just came across this older piece by one of my favourite sex writer Kate Hakala. One part of me is always a bit a surprised that some of these things are actually being observed and studied. But the other part of me looks at findings and correlations and thinks, “damn good thing people are studying this!” We are still learning so much about sex and sexuality. I remain shocked that these took such a backseat in terms of study for so long. Of course, we …
The Scientific Interest in Sex Read MoreImportant: Sex and Depression Survey
The Redhead Bedhead is conducting a survey on Sex and Depression. This is important work and I encourage anyone who has been or is being affected by depression to participate.
Important: Sex and Depression Survey Read MoreBan Fraternities Because of Sexual (and other) Violence
Being someone who is not at all into “joining” or “belonging,” the idea of fraternities just doesn’t do anything for me. Now, after reading this piece about the alarming rates of sexual assault and other notable transgressions, I am all for doing away with this stupid tradition. I recently ranted to my special lady friend about the emphasis placed on frosh week at universities and colleges—why don’t people just go to school to learn? Same with frats. Go to class, go to the library, go out with friends. Don’t rely on some group of people to somehow prop you up. …
Ban Fraternities Because of Sexual (and other) Violence Read MoreIs Spanking Inherently Sexual?
WOW! This excellent piece by Jillian Keenan on the sexual nature of spanking has blown my mind. I found it and bookmarked it to read this morning and now my day is going to be filled with this incredible debate: Is there a difference between spanking of a sexual manner and the act parents do to children? My spanking background: I was not spanked as a child (I don’t think) and I did not ever spank my children (just not my belief system). I do include spanking in my sexual play, both giving and receiving. In that play, it is …
Is Spanking Inherently Sexual? Read MoreMasturbation Creating Stronger Relationship?
This post makes some interesting points about how women who masturbate can have stronger relationships. It is cool to note that masturbation is now seen as an empowering act whereas it was, for so long, derided and thought of as shameful. Gotta love how those tables have turned!
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