Apr 28

Two Best Sex Writing of the Year Events in NYC—This Week!

I am heading down to New York City for two Best Sex Writing of the Year events this week! On Wednesday and Thursday, please join Stoya, David Henry Sterry, Lux Alptraum and myself in launching, reading from and discussing the book and pretty much all kinds of sex talk.

NYC Launch of Best Sex Writing of the Year

Wednesday, April 29 at 7:00pm
Bureau of General Services-Queer Division
208 West 13th St Room 210, New York, New York

Join Cleis Press in launching Best Sex Writing of the Year—a thought-provoking collection that traverses the spectrum of the contemporary sexual landscape.

Editor Jon Pressick and contributors David Henry Sterry, Stoya, and Lux Alptraum will read from their contributions as well as conduct an informal question and answer session exploring the intersections between sex and writing and how those can then be informed and affected by society and our personal selves.

Always thought provoking, these passionate yet incisive essays boldly confront the controversies surrounding our most deeply held assumptions about sexuality.

Best Sex Writing of the Year Salon

Wednesday, April 29 at 7:00pm
Bluestockings Bookstore, Café, & Activist Center
172 Allen St, New York, New York

Jon Pressick and tri-state area contributors Stoya, David Henry Sterry, and Lux Alptram will read from their essays in Best Sex Writing of the Year and there will be an informal question and answer session.

Best Sex Writing of the Year skillfully traverses the spectrum of the contemporary sexual landscape. Always thought provoking, these passionate yet incisive essays boldly confront the controversies surrounding our most deeply held assumptions about sexuality.

From an argument for celibacy to documentation of the most outlandish sexual fetishes, Best Sex Writing of the Year presents the true face of contemporary sexuality, one that is edgy, honest, and always changing.

Apr 06

Feminist Porn Awards 2015 – April 15–17

Wednesday April 15th Erika Lust and XConfessions
The Royal Cinema 608 College st
7pm  $12adv/ $15 door/ $115 premium*
Selected short films by Erika Lust followed by a Q&A where you get to ask her your questions! 
Wheelchair accessible event space. The bathroom unfortunately is not wheelchair accessible.
Thursday April 16th Public. Provocative. P*rn
Bloor Hot Docs Cinema 506 Bloor St W
9:30pm   7pm  $15adv/ $20 door/ $115 premium*
Steamy clips from this year’s best nominees! Enjoy a selection of carefully curated porn in a way you don’t normally get to, on the big screen! Followed by a lively panel discussion with some of this year’s directors, producers, and stars!
Wheelchair accessible event space including a bathroom.
Friday April 17th Feminist Porn Awards Gala
Capitol Event Theatre 2492 Yonge St
7pm VIP and Premium Ticketholder Cocktail Party
8:30 pm General Admission
$30adv/ $40 door/ $115 premium*
Join us for a night for smart smut, amazing sexy performances, gorgeous and talented filmmakers, performers, directors and a room full of folks who really enjoy well made feminist films!  18+
Wheelchair accessible event space including a bathroom.
ASL interpretation provided.
*Premium ticketholders gain admittance and reserved seating to all FPA events including cocktail party and a gift bag that includes items courtesy of LELO, Pjur Lubricants, Wicked Sensuals, Oasis Aqualounge, Everything to Do with Sex Show, Maia Toys, Tenga, Peggy Barnett. Good Releasing,  and more! 
Sliding scale tickets available in advance at Good For Her.
Please note all events are 18+ and government issued ID will be required for admittance.
Any attendees who require an attendant can gain access for their PSW free of charge by emailing us for a free ticket or by speaking with a staff person at the event.
MANY THANKS TO OUR SPONSORS: LELO, Fuze Silicone, Njoy, Fucking Sculptures, Aslan Leather, Grooby and more!
Mar 06

Sex City Goes to Catalyst Con East Saturday March 28!


I am very happy to announce that I will be broadcasting a very special edition of Sex City from Catalyst Con East!

We will be hitting the road, travelling down to Washington, DC for a weekend of sex education and fun as part of this annual, awesome event.

You can tune in to a special airing of Sex City on SATURDAY MARCH 28 at 5PM on CIUT 89.5FM (on air and streaming) to catch my conversations with three of the most fascinating people in the world of sex:

Check out this exciting, special, sexy presentation of Sex City Saturday March 28, 5pm!

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Dec 30

Oasis Aqualounge’s Annual Naked Polar Bear Dip!

Celebrate 2015 Oasis Aqualounge style with our annual Naked Polar Bear Dip on Thursday January 1st!  Women and couples are welcome to meet us at Oasis at 12:00pm,  as we gather together and head down to Cherry Beach for a refreshing nude dip to ring in the New Year.

Transportation will be  provided and any women /couples who participate in the event will receive free admission back at the club for the remainder of the day. Receive a complimentary hot beverage upon your return and enjoy warming up in the hot tub and/or outdoor heated swimming pool.

Anyone may join us at Cherry Beach to either witness or participate in the Naked Polar Bear Dip-women and couples are welcome back at the club.

Oasis Aqualounge will be open from 11:00am-3:00am on New Year’s Day and will be featuring toasty drink specials. Women-$20, couples-$80.

Dec 23

My latest Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly!

Writing for Kinkly has been one of my favourite things this year—especially the Sex Stories We Love columns. That said, I am delighted that this is my last piece of official work due this calendar year and I am enjoying the break. But I’ve already got some stories stockpiled for SSWL, the blog and other works, coming soon in 2015!

Check out my latest Sex Stories We Love featuring LEGO! Dornan! Fetish Photos! Furries! Infidelity! Language Transition Petition!

Dec 14

Sex News! I love it! December 14, 2014

Chlorine Gas Leak In Chicago Disrupts ‘Furries’ Convention

12 Awkward Sex Moments Everyone Has But Is Too Afraid To Admit

3 reasons the war on porn is really a war on women

Show this graphic to anyone who says rape isn’t a real issue in America

Can the dialogue around sexual assault lead to broader change?

Choosing the Right Vibrator

The College Rape Overcorrection

10 Things You Didn’t Know About Vaginas

The Smartest Sex Tip You’ve Never Heard Of Before Might Revolutionize Your Next One-Night Stand

This Just In: The Weird Thing That’s Killing Your Libido

What Men Raised on Porn Really Need to Know About Pleasing a Woman

Was 2014 the Year Science Discovered The Female Orgasm?

I Am A Porn Star Asking the Porn Industry To Stop Using The Term “Shemale”

Which Countries Last the Longest Watching Porn (Damn, China!)

Pipedream – Not a Company to Support

What’s Wrong With A Little Fur In The Bedroom? Nothing. Especially When You Understand The Rest.

What I Learned By Looking At Erotic Pictures Of Fat Women

Face-sitting protest outside parliament against new porn rules

11 Awful Sex Scenes From Fiction This Year

4 Things You Should Know About Fake Rape Accusations


Women Are Turned on By…What? 7 Weirdest Things Science Has Taught Us About Sex

Why It Took Me Until My 50s To Feel OK About Masturbation


Margaret Cho, ‘Chelsea Lately’s’ Heather McDonald Late-Night Series ‘All About Sex’ Greenlit by TLC

5 Surprising Things About Sex that Women May Be Scared to Tell Men

78-year-old Iowa legislator is prosecuted for having sex with his wife, who was suffering from Alzheimer’s


Dec 10

Discussing CONSENT—A Special Sex City

It was an honour to host last night’s Sex City show all about Consent. Many thanks to my special guest co-host Lisa Bucher for putting this show together with me and doing a great job. Many thanks to all of the guests, each of whom we could have easily dedicated an entire hour to. Raymond Motee gave us just a glimpse, but very key information on the status of consent in the legal realm. Matt Scott and shadow-girl introduced us to Ontario Kink and how Jian Ghomeshi’s calculated inclusion of BDSM in his initial, defensive statement affected the kink community and how they and others are working to educate on matters of consent. And Heather Elizabeth and JP Robichaud provided the building blocks for us to bring consent into our lives, in clear, compassionate ways.


Nov 26

Dressed to Thrill: Bringing Cosplay Into the Bedroom—My latest on Kinkly!

I’m so happy this article has come out on Kinkly! Cosplay is such a fun topic to research, and bridges my interests in nerdy culture that I explore on another project, Flock of Nerds, and sex and sexuality.

Check it out!

Dressed to Thrill: Bringing Cosplay Into the Bedroom

Don’t forget to catch The Night is Dark and Full of Tassels: GAME OF THRONES BURLESQUE III this Saturday, November 29!

Nov 07

Sex in Words at Expozine in Montreal!


I will be tabling again this year at Expozine in Montreal! For the first time, I’m going to be there for both days to enjoy all of the DIY awesomeness. This is one of my favourite events of the year! I’ll be selling my sexy and silly pins, copies of Carl Frankl’s Secrets of the Sex Masters and a brand new Choose Your Own Sex Adventure! Hint: It’s got a December 31 theme.

November 15–16, 2014
5035 St. Dominique

Also, I will be giving away a limited number of FREE consent-themed pins.