Sep 29

Morpheous’ Bondage Extravaganza at Nuit Blanche

Toronto- Morpheous’ Bondage Extravaganza


Morpheous’ Bondage Extravaganza is the world’s largest, single night rope bondage exhibit (now in its 8th year). MBE brings hundreds of performers together from all over the world for one sleepless night of rope bondage.

This year’s theme is “A Formal Affair”

Date: October 4th, 2014
Time: 7pm – 7am EST
Location: The Great Hall (1087 Queen St West, Toronto)
Cost: FREE!

Who Can Attend:
18+ Event. Open to the general public & kink community

Can’t make the event in person?
Watch the LIVE broadcast FREE online at (Including live feed from Orlando, Florida & footage from San Francisco)

This year MBE will also be taking place in:
*SEPT 27th— San Francisco (Event Page:
*OCT 4th— Orlando (Event Page:

Please Join us Online

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Sep 28

Re-Framing Porn Screening Night: Radical Representation in Film

Re-Framing Porn Screening Night: Radical Representation in Film

Date: Friday October 17, 2014

Time: 8:00 pm to 10:30 pm

The Sexual Education Centre at the University of Toronto (S.E.C) welcomes The Feminist Porn Awards and Good for Her‘s specially curated night of hot films that tantalize, tease and inspire you to make your own porn!

Sexy Movie Night!

Tired of porn that gives lip-service to diversity?

Come to a screening that exclusively showcases the sexiness of radical representation in film. All clips include people of colour, people with disabilities, indigenous and/or trans folk.

The University of Toronto Sexual Education Centre welcomes the Feminist Porn Awards and Good For Her’s specially curated night of hot films that tantalize, tease and inspire you to make your own porn!

Re-Framing Porn Screening:

Friday Oct. 17  @8pm OISE Auditorium 252 Bloor St W

$12 adv, $15 door (sliding scale available)

UofT Students free with ID

Re-Framing Porn is also a fundraiser for a weekend workshop Nov 1-2 on making your own sexy porn- using accessible technologies such as an iphone!

All welcome, including allies.

Space and washrooms are wheelchair accessible.

Sep 23

Xtasy Tradeshow Winners, Spectator Fri., Adam & Eve Sat. & daytime Sun. fun

XStasy Magazine’s Art of Seduction Expo Winners!

Congratulations to our winners Lori & Jessica, who both won an Oasis Couples Weekend Pass! We would like to thank everyone that visited the Oasis booth at the Kitchener show and we hope to see you using your 50% off entry coupon at the club soon.

Falling in Love with Fall 
Events This Week at Oasis

Plan Your Visit
Events for Couples & Women Only:
Thursday September 25-Double Your Pleasure
Friday September 26-Spectator Sex
Saturday September 27-Adam & Eve Garden of Temptation
Sunday September 28-Staycation Sunday(Daytime)(Evening-Sapphic Aquatica-exclusive for women & trans people only)

Events for Everyone:
Tuesday September 23-Paul Venomous Photo Shoot & Amateur Porn Night
Wednesday September 24-Hot Springs Featuring The Right Approach
Monday September 29-Sass After Class Featuring Strip Spelling Bee & Sybian Night (19-35 years only please)

Weekend Highlights

Friday September 26
Spectator Sex

Spectator sex returns, the last Friday of every month! Watch volunteer couples perform for your viewing pleasure. Festivities begin around 10:00 pm, hosted by the ever enchanting Ella Vation.

Are you an exhibitionist? Talk to us about performing in front of a appreciative audience, please Couples and women only please. Club open 11:00 am-3:00 am.

Saturday September 27
Adam & Eve Garden of Temptation

Visit the garden of lust on Saturday September 27th as we celebrate the passion of Adam and Eve.This seductive event will feature a costume contest-best Adam and Eve costume will win a prize!  Check out a  Spectator Sex act later in the night by a couple who will bring this story of temptation to life!

No Garden of Eden is complete without a snake and Montreal fetish performer! Natasha Nebula, known as the snake charming cosmic harlot will be featuring a live snake act for this special occasion!
*We want to make guests aware that this act will be held on the main floor of the club and that the performer is a experienced professional.*

Oasis Aqualounge will be open from 11:00 am-3:00 am with evening festivities starting at 9:00 pm. Women and couples welcome. $20 women, $80 couples.

Arabian Nights
Oasis Blog

Wow, what an incredible evening, we’re still basking in the after glow of this fabulous affair! Oasis Aqualounge was transformed into an Indian inspired palace, fit for a Sultan.  Sari-like fabrics adorned nearly every inch of the main floor and twinkling candles added to the exotic atmosphere. Oasis guests really went all out for the occasion…

Rub a Dub Dub

Interested in exhibiting your hot tub company at The Everything To Do With Sex Show with Oasis Aqualounge?

Oasis Aqualounge will be exhibiting at  The Everything To Do With Sex Show, which is from October 24th-26th at the Direct Energy. It is a great opportunity to showcase the club and promote other partnerships that are aligned with the venue.

We are looking for a supplier that deals with hot tubs to join us at the show! We had a hot tub last year as part of our booth display and people loved it! We welcome people to sit in the hot tub and it makes a great conversation starter. It is also great advertising for your company as well. People often inquire if the hot tub is for sale which gives us a chance to promote the company that provided us with the hot tub

There are many opportunities for cross promotion before and during the trade show. We would gladly promote your business in our newsletter, on our website and during the pre-show media event on Thursday October 23rd. While at the show, you are welcome to send a representative to speak to interested guests. You may also provide us with business cards and brochures about the hot tubs which we would display with our material. In addition, this is a great opportunity to participate in the show without having to purchase a booth space!

Please contact if you are interested and/or have any questions.

Weekly Favourites & More

Wednesday September 24
Hot Springs Featuring The Right Approach

Join us for the hottest hump day in the city! Hang out poolside, meet new friends, mix, mingle & explore.
Weekly features always include:

-The hottest DJ’s spinning your favourite tunes. Tonight on the decks is DJ Ella Vation.
-Massage available in the evenings for only  a $1/minute (suggested time: 20 minutes).
-DM (Dungeon Monitor) available 7:00 pm  to 1:00 am in the dungeon.

The Right Approach to Attracting Women and Bathhouse Etiquette is a monthly workshop that will occur on the fourth Wednesday of every month during Hot Springs at Oasis Aqualounge. Join us in the dungeon at 10:00pm for sexy icebreakers and entertaining skits on the right approach to meeting women at Oasis Aqualounge and policies of the club.

Hosted by Miss F and the friendly and alluring staff at Oasis Aqualounge, The Right Approach hopes to provide some guidance in terms of meeting new people, negotiating sexual activity and the chance to interact with others in a friendly, non-judgmental environment. We are excited to provide some tools that could help in the exploration of the lifestyle and instruct newcomers on the best way to conduct themselves in this sexually charged atmosphere.

Oasis Aqualounge will be open from 11:00 am-3:00 am for Hot Springs. Single men and couples $50, single women are always free. The Right Approach workshop will be begin at 10:00 pm and is free to attend with admission into the club.

Thursday September 25
Double Your Pleasure
Kick start your weekend at Oasis Aqualounge. Couples; double your fun this Thursday and bring along a second lady for free. Enjoy our spa facilities or mix and mingle upstairs in our various play rooms. The perfect night to let loose and enjoy the company of others.

Club open 11:00 am-3:00 am. Couples $80, second lady free.  Solo ladies attending club $20.

Sunday September 28
Staycation Sunday & Sapphic Aquatica

The perfect destination getaway right in the heart of the city! Indulge in paradise without having to pack a suitcase. Oasis offers  a beautiful outdoor pool in a private court yard where you can swim, sip a cocktail and soak up some rays. The indoor hot tub, sauna and upper floor themed play rooms are available for even more indulgence. Couples and women only please.

Club open 11:00 am-8:00 pm for Staycation Sunday. Couples $50, ladies $20.


Sapphic Aquatica is back  as a bi-monthly feature at Oasis Aqualounge, starting Sunday September 28th. Women and trans people welcome, sorry no cis men. *cis refers to someone whose biological sex matches their gender.*

Enjoy a clothing optional, queer friendly, female-centered, and sex/body positive environment. Hosted by Miss F.

The September edition will feature a favorite DJ of Sapphic Aquatica. DJ NIX spins the sexiest hip hop/R&B/ and house to keep you winding, grinding, and dripping with sweat!

Get tied down in the best way with a rope bondage workshop in the Oasis dungeon, facilitated by skilled kinkster ‘The Librarian’ She will instruct on knots, ties and wrapping the body with sexy rope.

Be charmed by drag king sensations Billy Black, this dapper star will have you swooning as they croon. Also, retuning to S.A. for a repeat perform Toronto’s hottest drag duo: Ruff Ryders-Jasai and Chocolate.

Enjoy complimentary hand/feet/neck massages as an icebreaker and relax in such spa facilities as the hot tub and outdoor heated pool.

Oasis Aqualounge will be open from 11:00 am-8:00 pm for Staycation Sundays. Sapphic Aquatica starts at 8:00 pm. $20 for women and trans people.

Frisky Start to Your Work Week
Monday September 29
Sass After Class Featuring Sybian Night

Sass After Class is an event for students to come and enjoy Oasis Aqualounge at a more wallet friendly rate. Come out and relax by the pool, spin on the poles, or swing in the dungeon.

Tonight’s Special Features:
Sybian Toronto Returns!
Starting at 8:00 pm, the Sybian will be featured in the dungeon. Guests may use this glorious machine with assistance from the operator.  He is skilled at the controls and adheres to strict guidelines of hygiene and cleanliness. This feature will be free of charge to those who are interested in experiencing the Sybian.

Oasis Aqualounge will be open from 11:00 am-3:00 am. Women $5, men 35 and under with student ID $20, men 35 and under without ID $50.
Ages 19-35 years.


Upcoming Highlights -Save the Date!

2015 Oasis Calendar Launch & Live Auction
Sunday October 5

Oasis Aqualounge is launching our highly anticipated  2015 calendars on Sunday October 5th. Join us at this fun and festive event which will include a live auction with Oasis staff! Purchase a calendar for only $15 and support PWA. 

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Sep 23

Celebrate Bisexuality Day!

September 23 is Celebrate Bisexuality Day!

I haven’t kept up with the community as much as in years past, but I always felt comfortable and at home in my bi community.

For some background on Celebrate Bisexuality Day, check out this wiki. For some silly fun, check out #bisexualfacts on Twitter. And if you like to follow celebrity bi folk, check them out here.

ANNNND…if you’re inclined, check out some articles I wrote for, back when I was Feature Articles Editor.

Unstoppable and Always Learning: Robyn Ochs

Pass the Popcorn and the Pleasure: Bisexual Pornographic Films

Bisexual Families

Hell Yes, You Do Exist! Biphobia in the World’s Interview with Angie Bowie

Brokeback Mountain: The Sorta Gay Cowboy Movie

We Know You’re Out there Somewhere!: A Handy Guide to Dating in the Bi World

A Tribute To Our Friend, Dr. Fritz Klein

Like Herding Cats? – Bisexual Activism in Canada


Sep 23

CatalystCon East Call for Speakers

CatalystCon East Call for Speakers

Submission deadline is November 4, 2014

Who can speak at CatalystCon?

We urge anyone who has something to share that will spark conversations in sexuality to submit a proposal. Whether you are an individual, therapist, sexuality educator, media specialist, or activist, you have a voice to be heard.

Please feel free to submit more than one session proposal.


Speakers should prepare for sessions that run an hour and ten minutes, including at least 20 minutes of open discussion.  Panel submissions should consist of no more than four speakers (including a moderator, if applicable) and all speakers for panel sessions must be confirmed prior to submission.

Speaker submissions should be sent in plain text in the body of your email (no pdfs or word docs) and should include all of the following information:

Speaker Information

  • Name
  • Company name (if applicable)
  • Email
  • URL (if applicable)
  • Twitter/Facebook URLs (if applicable)
  • Bio (200 word max)
  • Photo (300-500px wide and may be included as an attachment)
  • Have you spoken/presented at a conference before?  If so please list. (maximum of three)

Session Information

  • Title of Session
  • Session description (250 word max)
  • AV requirements

Panel Information

All panelists must be confirmed. Panel submissions should consist of no more than four speakers (including a moderator, if applicable).

Please provide names, bios and links for each panelist:

  • Name
  • Email
  • URL (if applicable)
  • Twitter/Facebook URLs (if applicable)
  • Bio (200 word max)
  • Photo (300-500px wide)

Submissions must be received by no later than November 4th.  

Email all submissions to:

Speakers do not receive financial compensation. Each speaker will receive one complimentary registration to CatalystCon East, however speakers are responsible for their own travel/lodging.

Proposals that do not follow the above format will not be considered.

Sep 22

2015 Oasis Aqualounge Calendar + Live Auction: Fundraiser for PWA

2015 Oasis Aqualounge Calendar + Live Auction: Fundraiser for PWA-Toronto People With AIDS Foundation
Sunday, October 5
8:00pm – 3:00am

Oasis Aqualounge
231 Mutual St, Toronto

Oasis Aqualounge is launching the highly anticipated 2015 calendars on Sunday October 5th. Join us at this fun and festive event which will include a live auction with Oasis staff!
Purchase a calendar for only $15 and support PWA-Toronto People with AIDS. This organization helps to provide programming and services to those living with HIV/AIDS.

Enjoy special discounts on this hot item, exclusively at this launch event! Buy 2 calendars at once for only $25 and card holding Oasis Aqualounge members may purchase one for only $10. Stock up for the holidays and stuff a stocking with this unique gift.

There will also be a live/silent auction featuring the amazing employees of Oasis. Place your bid throughout the evening and win a rendezvous with a sexy staff member. Live bids will start at 9:00pm and will go throughout the night, every 30 minutes. A silent auction table will also be provided where bids can be made at your discretion. Please note: There will be no monetary exchange for sexual services during the live auction/silent auction at this event. This is a charitable activity and all participants have consented to prearranged conditions.

Games and prizes will also be available throughout the night. Enjoy the facilities, play rooms and a clothing optional environment while supporting a great cause and a cool project! Single men, couples and women are all welcome to attend.

Oasis Aqualounge will be open from Staycation Sunday from 11:00am-8:00pm exclusively for women and couples. Everyone is welcome after 8:00pm-3:00am.