My latest Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly!

Writing for Kinkly has been one of my favourite things this year—especially the Sex Stories We Love columns. That said, I am delighted that this is my last piece of official work due this calendar year and I am enjoying the break. But I’ve already got some stories stockpiled for SSWL, the blog and other works, coming soon in 2015! Check out my latest Sex Stories We Love featuring LEGO! Dornan! Fetish Photos! Furries! Infidelity! Language Transition Petition!

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Sex News! I love it! December 14, 2014

Chlorine Gas Leak In Chicago Disrupts ‘Furries’ Convention 12 Awkward Sex Moments Everyone Has But Is Too Afraid To Admit 3 reasons the war on porn is really a war on women Show this graphic to anyone who says rape isn’t a real issue in America Can the dialogue around sexual assault lead to broader change? Choosing the Right Vibrator The College Rape Overcorrection 10 Things You Didn’t Know About Vaginas The Smartest Sex Tip You’ve Never Heard Of Before Might Revolutionize Your Next One-Night Stand This Just In: The Weird Thing That’s Killing Your Libido What Men Raised on …

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Discussing CONSENT—A Special Sex City

It was an honour to host last night’s Sex City show all about Consent. Many thanks to my special guest co-host Lisa Bucher for putting this show together with me and doing a great job. Many thanks to all of the guests, each of whom we could have easily dedicated an entire hour to. Raymond Motee gave us just a glimpse, but very key information on the status of consent in the legal realm. Matt Scott and shadow-girl introduced us to Ontario Kink and how Jian Ghomeshi’s calculated inclusion of BDSM in his initial, defensive statement affected the kink community …

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Remembering the Women—Victims of the Montreal Massacre

Remembering the victims of the École Polytechnique massacre. Geneviève Bergeron (born 1968), civil engineering student Hélène Colgan (born 1966), mechanical engineering student Nathalie Croteau (born 1966), mechanical engineering student Barbara Daigneault (born 1967), mechanical engineering student Anne-Marie Edward (born 1968), chemical engineering student Maud Haviernick (born 1960), materials engineering student Maryse Laganière (born 1964), budget clerk in the École Polytechnique’s finance department Maryse Leclair (born 1966), materials engineering student Anne-Marie Lemay (born 1967), mechanical engineering student Sonia Pelletier (born 1961), mechanical engineering student Michèle Richard (born 1968), materials engineering student Annie St-Arneault (born 1966), mechanical engineering student Annie Turcotte (born …

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Sex City—December 9—CONSENT

The Jian Ghomeshi scandal has rocked the media and sexual landscape, bringing to the fore an all-important word and concept that has been pushed to the background for too long: consent. On TUESDAY DECEMBER 9 at 11PM, a special edition of Sex City will be all about consent and what it means from a legal, kink and personal perspective. I will be joined by special guest co-host Lisa Bucher for this discussion, and we’re bringing experts and educators together for the conversation Raymond Motee is Sex City’s frequent legal analyst who will outline the legal implications of sexual consent. Matt Scott …

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Words Mean Everything: More on Secrets of the Sex Masters and Inclusivity

The discussion surrounding Secrets of the Sex Masters has taken a turn for the worse. This is extremely disheartening. This statement, coming from Carl, is problematic. [Statement has been updated by Carl.] It has caused the discussion to backslide when it looked like we were moving forward. Do I believe that Carl and Sheri are racist? No. Do I believe they actively follow tenets of white supremacy? No. Do I believe there is a systemic underlying and insidious thread of racism and white supremacy embedded in history, sociology and philosophy that can influence—in subtle and overt ways—the way people think—regardless …

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Dressed to Thrill: Bringing Cosplay Into the Bedroom—My latest on Kinkly!

I’m so happy this article has come out on Kinkly! Cosplay is such a fun topic to research, and bridges my interests in nerdy culture that I explore on another project, Flock of Nerds, and sex and sexuality. Check it out! Dressed to Thrill: Bringing Cosplay Into the Bedroom Don’t forget to catch The Night is Dark and Full of Tassels: GAME OF THRONES BURLESQUE III this Saturday, November 29!

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