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Introducing @BRAD_Respawn Brad and I bonded over shared interests in sex toys and djing. Okay, I’m just an old school button pusher when it comes to spinning, but Brad is an up and coming dynamo (check out the links below) who also happens to write awesome reviews of sex toys for men. What got you into blogging?Actually my girlfriend Erika Szabo, who is the editor at xoxoamore.com got me into it. They needed male content for the blog and I have always been rather open about my sexuality, so it was a no brainer. Plus it was a great excuse …

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Introducing MsKitty in Toronto MsKitty once scared the crap out of me with a dildo. She was part of an interview I was doing for Sex City and the group of them gifted me with a specially-made, one-of-a-kind dildo that was in the shape of a bumpy cucumber. When a sexy lady gives you a gift like that, you know you’re going to be friends.  You’ve been involved in various sex communities for some time…when did you start blogging about it?Yes, I started in one of the communities about 15 years ago in the “lifestyle” community but active in the last …

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Introducing Hipsters Are Boring I actually started to type that I met Kaitlyn Kochany when I moderated that panel on sex bloggers at Playground. But then I had a “hold on, shut your mouth” moment and remembered that this fantastic writer behind Hipsters Are Boring and a frequent contributor to xoxoamore wrote about the Toronto Erotica Writers and Readers Meetup. It was delightful meeting her then and getting reacquainted when we did that panel. And since then, I’ve had more time to peruse her writing on both sites and it is most enjoyable.  How did you get into blogging?Ten years …

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Introducing Adventures in Harlotry How could I not be intrigued with a title like that?  What hooked me on this blog is the emotional depth and level of detail provided. Not just the sexy parts, but the relationship aspects as well.  What lead you to blogging?I’m a writer by nature and a journalist by training. When I decided to start dating again last year after almost ten years of celibacy, I found myself seeking out sexual adventures instead of traditional “dating” I realized I was going through something emotionally and I decided to start the blog to record what was …

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Introducing Hunting for Sex: Cautionary Tales from the Quest I’m not going to lie, I get an immediate sweet spot for anyone who seeks me out about my blog or events. And that sweet spot turns into a raging hard-on when I read their stuff and it is awesome. This is how I met Jason Armstrong and how I came to devour his blog Hunting for Sex: Cautionary Tales from the Quest. This is some of the best sex writing I’ve ever seen. Unabashed and thoughtful. Raunchy, funny and insightful. How did you get into blogging?  Throughout my twenties, I’d …

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Introducing Nikki Haze Nikki is a pure powerhouse of social media, combining her blogging with superpower Twitter skills to sert herself up as a writer to watch. She’s got her erotica works up on Amazon, she’s taking control of her writing as a professional endeavour (on top of being a psychotherapist) and she’s one of the most enthusiastic and exciting people I’ve met through this blog.Your blog is fairly new. What made you start it up?I had this moment a few months ago where I was really struggling with whether to commit to my writing professionally or get my PhD, …

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Introducing xoxoamore.  And more specifically, we’re chatting with the site’s managing blogger, Erika Szabo. She and a couple of xoxoamore’s bloggers (who we’ll be talking to in the future), participated in the sex blogging panel at Playground. I was instantly intrigued that by the idea of a sex blog put out by a mainstream sexuality store…and whether it would be any different than the indie sex blogs. And it is, but in great ways. xoxoamore is a fantastic site of articles, advice and a wonderful video series.   How did you get into blogging? Hmm… Oddly enough, my job as …

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While it may not seem it, I haven’t really used Twitter for all that long. I probably use it too much now, but that’s not the point. Introducing theblackleatherbelt. If I weren’t abusing Twitter so much these days, I’d have never come across Lily Lloyd‘s theblackleatherbelt and her fantastic #SexReader Best of 2012. This list gave me so much good reading and many great connections of bloggers to feature right here! So it seems only natural to chat with her here.  How did you get into blogging and start theblackleatherbelt?I was one of those girls who had the diary with …

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Introducing Stories of a Black Call Girl I met Shelly Ann Black, through a Skye Blue, at the Playground Conference last fall. She spoke on one of the panels I couldn’t make it to, and I was sorry to miss it. When I found out she also is an active blogger, I was intrigued. Upon reading her work, I hooked.  Not only does Shelly Ann write about her sex work, she also writes about her Bipolar II. As am also Bipolar II, it is nice to find a blog that combines two of my interests.  Why did you start your …

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Welcome to the first in my new series of Sex Blogger profiles—The Hook-up. People write about sex in many different ways, and I hope to bring many of them to your attention—and potential—adoration.  Introducing La Dame en Rose.  I was drawn to this blog by both the stunning visuals and the charged writing. Because browsers can now instantly translate pages (I’m Canadian, but sadly, I did not keep up with French studies), I am fortunate enough to be able to read these works. And I am glad for it!  Why did you start your blog? I started my blog after …

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