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Introducing Kink & Poly Sometimes we forget that writers aren’t always writing for us. Some, like Jade of Kink & Poly, are writing to explore their own worlds, their own thoughts and their own truths. We are lucky that Jade let’s us share that exploration. How did you get into sex blogging?I’ve always journaled, first on paper and then, with the advent of LiveJournal (and later WordPress.com and then with my own domain, KinkandPoly.com), online. I had always been deeply introspective, and writing was my way of making sense of myself and my world. In the early days I wrote …

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Introducing TJ the Mad Hatter Organization is something I strive for but only sometimes achieve. So I look at TJ’s Take and truly admire her excellent storage of all of those sex toys she reviews! I am also very impressed by those reviews of course! They are fun and humourous, but also entirely genuine. How did you get into sex blogging?Talking about sex has always been one of my favorite things to do. I mean really talking about sex. Not just “When did you first have sex?” and “What’s your number of sex partners?” To be honest, those kinds of questions irk …

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Introducing Fuckblogging The couple that blogs together…does a whole lot of sexy stuff together!Venice and Ryan share details and experiences. They share curiosity, excitement and confusion. They are learning and exploring, and invite you along on their journey.  How did you get into sex blogging? Ryan: I suggested that Venice blog about her thoughts because she was changing so much and she tended to communicate better when she wrote things out.Venice: I really started to sex blog for Ryan to read, I just shared it with the world. Like mature people, we spent countless hours talking, pinpointing our weak points, …

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Introducing Kink, etc. When I started putting a significant effort into this blog, I knew I was looking for something. When I started approaching other sex bloggers, I was hoping for some community. Lori and Hubby of Kink, etc. are the type of community I was looking for. They are warm, welcoming, friendly and always sharing great advice and reviews from their own sexual journey. Their site offers so much, let’s get to know them more. How did you get into blogging?About two years ago we stumbled upon Eden Fantasys and after a while of hanging out in the forums …

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Introducing Rebel’s Notes Marie Rebelle is our first Hook-up from outside North America. Her twitter kept popping up in my feed, a frequent recommendation from others. I was instantly hooked by her autobiographical and explicit words and images. She paints, she draws, she writes, she discusses her D/s relationship with her Husband. She’s a strong-willed woman, a wife, a mother and a daughter.  You’ll see, she’s captivating. How did you get into blogging?My first blog was a vanilla one and I blogged mainly about family stuff, but that did not give me the satisfaction I was looking for. I barely …

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Introducing Sex Ed with Ashley Manta Los Angeles is where people go to become stars. But sometimes, the people who head there are already stars. And that town is lucky to have just received sex ed superstar Ashley Manta. How did you get into blogging?I’ve always loved to write. From the time I was in primary school, I kept a diary. Once the internet happened, I started writing online. I have had the same livejournal since I was 16! After I first told my story about being a sexual assault survivor in 2005, it occurred to me that sharing stories …

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Introducing Lady Laid Bare Sometimes I have a hard time saying no to people. Sometimes that backfires on me. When Lady Laid Bare, aka Jillian Boyd, asked if she could be featured in The Hook-up, I said yes. I’m glad I didn’t say no. How did you get into blogging?I was quite a sexual late-bloomer, and at the time I was going through changes I didn’t understand. I’d started watching porn, I’d started dipping toes into reading erotica… and I couldn’t help feeling really alone. I didn’t really have anyone to talk about these things with. One day, I found …

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Introducing Charlie Nox Charlie Nox is a dating coach helping people achieve their dating desires, a cancer survivor who is working on a book to help people who want to pursue dating while also having cancer, and a noted writer whose work helps people learn about relationships and sex—despite sometimes being controversial. She can admire any one of those attributes. Or you can admire them all. After reading her words, I think you’ll vote all. How did you get into sexblogging? I’ve always liked talking about sex, dating, and relationships. When I was 13 I concocted a “kissing contest” and …

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Introducing Claire Litton Sexologist Claire Litton had hoped to meet one day, in a park. We managed to miss each other, but I don’t want you to miss out on the fantastic work she is doing. How did you get into sexblogging?I don’t know that I’d call myself a sexblogger, exactly; I blog about sex but I also talk about sex, write about sex, give people advice about sex, and generally focus my whole life on sex. So it’s more like my life revolves around sex and the blogging is just another way I can blather about it. When did …

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Introducing SangsaraB SangsaraB is very open about herself—past and present—on her blog Sexuality Sanctuary. I am humbled that she opened up even more about her unrestrained ambition to improve sexuality for all, her boundless spirit and her desire to promote community.  How did you get into sex blogging? I was laid off from my job in adult retail and knew that I loved introducing people to toys too much to lose contact with the industry. Your reviews are great! Do you prefer do written or video reviews? Video by far. I have a background in theatre and have dabbled in film …

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