Sex News! I Love It! / Sex Research / Sex Writing

Sex News! I love it! October 26, 2014

What Did We Get Stuck In Our Rectums Last Year? I don’t like being raped Welcome to Oculus XXX: In-Your-Face 3D is the Future of Porn Male Escorts: Why Women Shouldn’t Be Afraid to Give Them A Go Digital Swingers Oral Sex Redefined: The Art of Sexspeak. Why I visit prostitutes Is sex only for rich people? What I learned from teaching a sex-writing class Beforeplay: Normalizing the Way We Talk About Sex Women Who Have Rough Sex: Why It Can Be Liberating 4 Weirdest Things We Learned About Sex This Week Asexuality, Explained in One Simple Comic Open Relationships …

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Call for Submissions / Sex Entertainment / Sex Events

Call for Submissions: Feminist Porn Awards

Now the longest running celebration of erotica focused on women and marginalized people, The Good For Her Feminist Porn Awards have been celebrating feminist smut for nine sexy years. Nominations for the 10th Annual Feminist Porn Awards open Thursday October 23rd 2014. Contact jennifer@goodforher.com to submit your work! **You can find more information on the 2014 Ninth Annual Good For Her Feminist Porn Awards HERE** But wait, what is feminism doing getting into bed with porn? At Good For Her, we are feminists and we sell and rent porn. In 2006 we decided that it’s not enough to criticize adult films …

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Sex City / Sex Community

Personal, Special Offers to Help Sex City

**Please forward widely** Hi Everyone, This week, the Sex City crew participated in our station’s semi-annual fundraising campaign The New Sound of Your City. Unfortunately, we fell short of our goals and now I need your help. I want Sex City to continue and I want to continue bringing you so many amazing guests from the sex community. To do so, I need more pledges to the station ASAP. So, I am offering things to you. That’s right, I’ll scratch your back if you scratch mine! If you go and make a donation to CIUT through this link (be sure to …

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Sex Community / Sex Events

Everything to do with Sex Show weekend, Animal prints Saturday, Andy Warhol Sunday

Everything to do with Sex Events this week at the Oasis Plan Your Visit Events for couples & women Thursday October 23 -Double your Pleasure (Daytime) Friday October 24 -Red Hot ‘n Spicy ETDWSS Party Saturday October 25 -Leopard Print & Lace ETDWSS Party Sunday October 26 -Staycation Sunday (Daytime) Events for everyone Wednesday October 22 –Hot Springs Featuring ETDWSS Trivia Game Thursday October 23 –ETDWSS Media Event (Evening) Sunday October 26 –Hot Kiss Andy Warhol Meets Halloween Monday October 27 –Sass After Class Featuring Game On & Rope Bondage Workshop (35 years & younger only please) Highlights This weekend Oasis …

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Sex Community / Sex Education / Sex Writing

Secrets of the Sex Masters! Available Now!

I am delighted to let everyone know that you can now learn all of the Secrets of the Sex Masters! This remarkable collection of sex tips, instruction, anecdotes and fun is now available on Amazon! I was lucky enough to contribute the chapter on anal sex (yay!) and I have to praise editor Carl Frankel on the fantastic job he’s done in collecting this tremendous bank of knowledge. Check out this line-up of Sex Master contributors: Carl Frankel, Megan Andelloux, Jaeleen Bennis, Charlie Glickman, Ernest Greene, Nina Hartley, Carlyle Jansen, Joseph Kramer, Reid Mihalko, Eve Minax, Caroline Muir, Charles Muir, Tallulah Sulis, Patricia …

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Choose Your Own Sex Adventure / Sex Community / Sex Events

*TODAY*—Sex in Words at Canzine 2014 with free Consent Pins!

I will be tabling again this year at Broken Pencil’s Canzine! This is one of my favourite events of all time! I’ll be selling my sexy and silly pins, copies of Carl Frankl’s Secrets of the Sex Masters and a brand new Choose Your Own Sex Adventure! Hint: It’s got a December 31 theme. Canzine Toronto Saturday November 1, 2014 1pm-7pm 918 Bathurst Toronto Also, I will be giving away a limited number of FREE consent-themed pins.

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Call for Submissions / erotica

Call For Submissions: SeX Files

Call For Submissions SeX Files, the new erotica imprint of Comet Press, is seeking manuscripts in all genres and cross genres from 7,500-80,000 words. We are looking for stories that push the boundaries of erotica and we don’t have any content restrictions (except for kiddie porn, of course). Titles over 50,000 words will be published in trade paperback and ebook. 7,500 to 50,000 length works will primarily be published in ebook format. However, we will consider future print editions for longer works (around 30,000-50,000 words) with outstanding sales. Our contracts are for four years and we offer 40% net royalties. …

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Sex Health

Just What’s Up Your Butt (When You Go to the ER)?

An always popular post. Here’s the annual round-up of what people put in, and then lost in, their butts this past year. It also includes other orifices, but the ass ones are what always get the guffaws. Part of me wants to scold people, say that sex products are a click away and sometimes even deliverable within the hour (if you can’t make it to a sex shop). Another part of me knows some people *just can’t* purchase such items. To look down my nose or feel empathy for is a tricky balancing act.

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Sex Community / Sex News / Sex News! I Love It!

Sex News! I love it! October 19, 2014

My Husband Coming Out As Bisexual Changed My Life Rape is Rape A Fascinating History of the ‘C Word’ Christian Right-Wingers Love Porn: New Studies Suggest the Bible Belt Has A Kinky Side The Strange World of Safe-for-Work Porn Can Men Fake Their Genital Responses In Sex Studies? Yes, But Their Eyes Reveal The Truth Shmuley Boteach’s unhelpful sex message Op-ed: Why the Task Force Still Owes Bisexuals an Apology 27 Sex Facts You Need in Your Life Male Sexuality And How Shame Hurts Everyone The voice of erotic ASMR wants to give porn some love How to kick-start your …

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Call for Submissions / erotica

Call For Submissions: Underwater

Call For Submissions Underwater (Subject to change) Editors: Anthony S. Buoni and Alisha Costanzo Publisher: Transmundane Press Submissions Due: 15 May 2015 Release Date: Spring 2016 Payment & Rights: Payment will be discussed upon acceptance. We ask for first print and electronic rights for six (6) months after publication date, then you are free to resell it. UNDERWATER is seeking stories about life underwater. This could mean mermaids, sirens, deep-sea crews, the sunk city of Atlantis, talking seahorses, malevolent water spirits…if it could live underwater, we want to read about it. We are looking for fiction that has a speculative …

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erotica / Sex Community / Sex Writing

Sexy Tickles from The Pigeonhole’s Erotica Feathers!

An exciting new digital publishing venture has launched this fall! The Pigeonhole showcases many different genres with mutli-week stories that are delivered directly to subscribers’ devices. What piqued my interest (beyond loving stories!) is their October 17 launch of Sex Staves! That’s right, erotica comes to The Pigeonhole in the form of an anthology of smutty work from new and established writers—a new story every week for 10 straight weeks. I caught up with Anna Hughes, their erotica series campaign manager to poke my beak into the sexiness we can expect. Was including erotica always in the plans for The …

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