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Movember is upon us and I hope people with prostates, and those who care about them, are considering both getting checked out and trying some prostate pleasure! I had the honour of teaching a couple workshops on prostate pleasure during past Movember campaigns—both teaching and learning during them. Check out Movember: Sexual Health Education With Prostate Pleasure Workshops

Sex Health / Sex Writing

A Rose By Any Other Name: Sensual Scents—My Latest Sex Senses Article on Cara Sutra!

October 28, 2015

This month we’ve moved on to the third in my series on sex and our five senses: smell. Check out A Rose By Any Other Name: Sensual Scents Smell is a divisive sense—especially when it comes to sex. Some people have very strong reactions to different scents and can be either immediately turned on or completely turned off at the faintest whiff. And what we do find scentually appealing greatly varies among different people. Also check out the two previous additions to this series: Reach Out: The Sexuality of Touch Listening In: The Sounds of Sex

Sex Health / Sex Stuff

Food Vs. Sex: Which Would You Choose?—My latest on Kinkly!

September 17, 2015September 17, 2015

Considering I am not a foodie in the least, I’ve spent a lot of time asking people about whether they would prefer food or sex. I’ve always been surprised by the answers! Food Vs. Sex: Which Would You Choose? Many thanks to Dr. Trina Read for her help on this one!

Listening In: The Sounds of Sex—My First Guest Post for Cara Sutra!

August 25, 2015

I’ve long been intrigued by the sounds of sex—beyond the delicious moans and groans. What turns us on between the ears can often be overlooked. And getting to explore this as a guest post on the inimitable Cara Sutra’s site is a tremendous pleasure. Much appreciate to Girly Juice and Christopher Zeischegg for sharing their thoughts! Check out Listening In: The Sounds of Sex

My latest Not Having Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly!

March 31, 2015

This right. This time around I look into stories about not having sex, including dry spells, the importance of sleep, no blow jobs, celebrity porn to avoid, life without porn and disappearing strip clubs. Check it out!

Sex News! I love it! March 22, 2015

March 22, 2015

What I learned from a male sex surrogate “That Would Be a Great Sex Toy!”: How New Age Crystal Dildos Changed One Sex Shop Worker’s Life 12 Gay Sex Positions Heterosexuals Should Try Here’s What We’re All Thinking About Sex, From the 20-Something Sex Educators Who Know Opening the Door to the Deliciously Disabled: The Importance of Having Accessibility in Sexual Spaces ‘Cum For Bigfoot’: The Rise, Fall, and Future of Monster Erotica What do Asexuals Think About our Sex-Obsessed World? I’m married. I’m a woman. I’m addicted to porn. Sex Work Can Be Empowering, But The Sex Industry Isn’t …

My Latest Sex Stories We Love! Library Lawbreaking, Plant Sex & Sexy Spine Curves & more!

March 17, 2015

It has been a couple weeks of pretty out there stories to choose from for my latest Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly.We’ve got a woman doing cam shows in public libraries, lube regulation, butts and spine curves, outlawing queer conversion, plant sex, and the question of naming abuse on Fetlife. Check it out and enjoy!

My latest Sex Stories We Love! Frotteurism, How Not to Clean Your Sex Toy, Safe Literature & More!

January 20, 2015January 21, 2015

Writing about sex—particularly sex in the news—just feels so damn right. It really is what I wish I could do all time! Fortunately, I’ve got my little slice of the pie over at Kinkly—and here it is! My latest Sex Stories We Love dips into frotteurism, dlido cleaning gone wrong, condoms in erotica, strip club commandments, the sexiness of creativity and bipolar disorder in relationships. Read Here!

Sex Education / Sex Health

Just Getting Warmed Up: The Ultimate Guide to Sex After 50

January 13, 2015

It wasn’t that long ago that we—society—generally thought that older people just weren’t having sex. We thought that sex drive and libido shrivelled up and that thoughts of retirement in Florida were paramount in the lives of our seniors. Turns out this notion is completely wrong and that older people are definitely still interested in maintaining and exploring their sexual selves, and the inimitable Joan Price has is here. With her standout book The Ultimate Guide to Sex after Fifty (Cleis Press), she has collected excellent advice and tips for anyone who is older and frisky for fun. Check out an …

My latest Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly!

December 23, 2014

Writing for Kinkly has been one of my favourite things this year—especially the Sex Stories We Love columns. That said, I am delighted that this is my last piece of official work due this calendar year and I am enjoying the break. But I’ve already got some stories stockpiled for SSWL, the blog and other works, coming soon in 2015! Check out my latest Sex Stories We Love featuring LEGO! Dornan! Fetish Photos! Furries! Infidelity! Language Transition Petition!