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It is time to rewrite how we approach the beginning and continuance of sexual relationships. The recent deluge of subtle and extreme differences in how we, as a society, approach sex and relationships has been painful and ugly. And absolutely necessary. Fortunately, this week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly features some great writers and thinkers – and a lot more to think about. It is going to take a lot to get through this, so let’s (consensually) hold each other tight. Check out stories on A Great Date?, Be Enthusiastic About Consent, Give Love To Gloves and Dams, Blowing …

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I am excited to be working on a gender-fluid sex toy survey for an upcoming article on Future of Sex! We hope to create a Top 10 recommended toys and we would greatly appreciate your input. Please fill out and share our survey so that we can get a wide a sampling as possible. Thanks! Take the Gender-fluid Sex Toy Survey

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Remember when virtual reality was just some kind of fantasy? It seemed so far off and unreal. Oh, it is real. Virtual reality is here to stay and it is getting better all the time. And the best part—virtual reality porn! As is often the case with new technological advances, adult entertainment is leading the way to improve and refine it. Check out my latest on Kinkly: Virtual Reality Porn Is Here! (Here’s What You Need to Know About It)

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I like to think of the various stages we move through in our sex lives as a game of Twister. Sometimes folks are able to make transitions easily and without much discomfort. Other movements can be fraught with twists and turns that leave you tied in a knot! And the the thing is, we’re all different and all experience these challenges differently. This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly is all about the different things we learn about sex during different times in our lives. But remember, if there’s one aspect of this that rings true—always wear your sexiest …

Sex Stories We Love: Kink on the Move, Slut, Yeah!, Ready for Robots? & More! Read More

Porn is one of those things that many people think about, watch and wonder about. We fantasize about it, we wonder what it is like to create it and some of us even perform in it. So why has there been so little research into the nitty gritty of our sexy fun viewings? There are some aspects of porn that are considered, but what about the basics. The words we use for porn. What we search for. What we desire. Enter the people of Proctor and Lever (don’t worry, they use lots of lube). They are seizing the opportunity to …

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I have conflicting feelings about crowdfunding. A positive light has been Indiegogo’s acceptance of adult product creators. But is that support a little shallow…when they’re not featured on the surface? Check out my latest on Future of Sex: Indiegogo’s After Dark Collection Shines (Some) Light on Adult Products

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This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly we remember that the road to positive change in the world of sex isn’t necessarily coated with lube. There might be some friction along the way. Check out stories on Redefining Relations?, Who Are You In Bed With?, Good Head(line), Adding Up To Anal, Future of Sex Ed and Rest in Power.

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