The Seven Deadly Sex Sins: LUST—New Series on Cara Sutra!

I am delighted to be starting the new year with a brand new series of articles on Cara Sutra exploring the Seven Deadly Sins—of Sex! Each month I’ll apply some sexual context to each of the traditional Seven Sins, with each post concluding with a related question for further discussion. The first instalment is LUST: Between a Crotch and a Hard Place

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Sex Stories We Love—Jan 27, 2016! Calling Out Rape Culture, Pumping…Weights, Pucker Up! & More!

It is time to put many of our muscles to good use with this week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly! This week I get into Calling Out Rape Culture, Pumping…Weights?, Turning the Page, For the Pleasure, Not the Performance, Pucker Up! and Sex Position Showdown. Check out this week’s Sex Stories We Love!

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My Next Sex City—February 2—Rebecca Rosenblat! N. Maxwell Lander! Kate Sinclaire!

On Sex City, I am joined by some amazing folks who are leading the way in sex, relationships, photography and porn! On TUESDAY FEBRUARY 2, I will welcome some awesome folks to the Sex City studios at 11PM ET on 89.5FM in the Toronto area and CIUT.FM streaming live! Rebecca Rosenblat is one of Canada’s most well-known sex and relationship experts, hosting Sex @ 10 with Rebecca and appearing on many other shows N. Maxwell Lander is known for exploring the dark sides of sexuality in his photography and the release of his first book Carnal Anomaly is highly anticipated Kate …

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Sex News! I love it! January 24, 2016

Evidence Mounts: More Porn, LESS Sexual Assault Why doctors need to pay more attention to their kinky patients Confessions of Workplace Masturbators Penthouse to shutter print magazine, go all digital A Long-Lost Artist of the 1950s Sexual Underground Alternatives to Mainstream Porn Can Be Really Hot The Machines Are Alright: NYU Bioethicist Defends Therapeutic Use of Sex Robots An Exhibition About Erotic Desire Suffers from Being Overly Sexy 9 “Embarrassing” Sex Moments That Are Actually Totally Normal Why Do So Many Women Watch Gay Male Porn? A Ridiculous Number Of People Are Having Sex At The Gym First, Best, Worst, …

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Sex Stories We Love—This week! The Bowie Situation, Drying up Lube Myths, & Break-ups 101

The world was shocked at the passing of David Bowie, and his death particularly rocked the sex community as it did open wider discussions about events earlier in his life. At the same time, there were many other stories getting out and lots of great sex writing to inspire this week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly. This week I feature stories on The Bowie Situation, Drying Up Lube Myths, Breakups 101, Positive Movements for DSM, Virtually Hot and In the Gutter?. Check out the latest edition of Sex Stories We Love!

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Sex News! I love it! January 17, 2016

Orgasmic design: how vibrators have become ambitious tech products Researchers Just Made An ‘Astonishing’ Finding About Americans’ Sexuality 8 Unusual Places To Have Sex In Toronto OkCupid Adds a Feature for the Polyamorous One Mom’s Message About Sex Hits Home For Every Parent Ever Top 50 Kinky Ideas for a Sexy Relationship Johns Hopkins Plans 60 Penis Transplants for Injured Veterans This Vibrator Syncs With The Erotica You’re Reading The Top Porn Searches Of 2015 Reveal How Seriously Twisted We All Are How to Get Laid at the Gym These Dads Giving Honest Sex Advice to Their Kids Are Changing …

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This week’s Sex Stories We Love: Big Time Fantasy, Beyond Foreplay, Talk Dirty to Me & More!

I love weeks like this, when our sex stories meander down a wonderfully varied path. This week I was lucky to write on the following awesome tales. Learn about The 43-Year-Old Virgin, Dirty Dewey Decimals, Dancing Around Homophobia, Talk Dirty to Me, Beyond Foreplay, Big-Time Fantasy. Check out this week’s Sex Stories We Love! 

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First Sex City of 2016! Jordan B. Wright! Soma Stanford! Oasis!

It felt good to ring in the new year with such a great group of guests on my first Sex City of 2016. It was lovely to welcome back Fatima from Oasis Aqualounge to hear about their upcoming 3rd year anniversary edition of Sapphic Aquatica. After meeting at Glad Day Bookshop last month, it was great to talk with Soma Stanford more about her writing of her lesbian erotic novel Jade Wallace. And more about the politics and meaning of Jordan B. Wright‘s awesome songs was a great set up for the launch of his CD,  Everything Blue, at the end of …

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Sex News! I love it! January 10, 2016

5 Crazy Ideas About Female Sexual Desire in History Here’s The Exact Time Of Day To Have The Most Mind-Blowing Sex 21 People Confess The Problems With Having Too Much Sex Melbourne’s RMIT University runs design course on how to make sex toys A look back at 2015’s top sex science, TV, film, tech, news, and more A Man with a Bionic Penis Is About to Lose His Virginity to an Award-Winning Dominatrix Here’s What Happens When These Lesbians Touch A Penis For The First Time There’s Now a Dating Website Where White People Can Meet White People Rape Is …

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Sex Stories We Love: Heavy Petting, Sex in Stressful Times, & That’s General Organa to You

Happy New Year Sex Stories We Love readers! I think we’re going to be in for quite a year in the world of sex. I really think big things are going to happen as we, as a community, continue to challenge society’s expectations around sex. Instead, we’re going to expect better! To close out 2015, this week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly features Heavy Petting, Neither Innocent Nor Guilty, Sex in Stressful Times, In a DVD Player Not So Far Away, That’s General Organa, to You and Positioned for Plenty. Check out this week’s Sex Stories We Love!

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My Next Sex City! January 5! with Fatima from Oasis, Soma Stanford & Jordan B. Wright!

It is time to start the new year off right on Sex City with some amazing guests to talk about music, sexy parties and erotica! On TUESDAY JANUARY 5, I will welcome some awesome folks to the Sex City studios at 11PM ET on 89.5FM in the Toronto area and CIUT.FM streaming live! Soma Stanford is a Canadian doctor and writer who recently released Jade Wallace, a lesbian erotica novel of wild exploration and heart-breaking loss. Fatima Mechtab from Oasis Aqualounge will tell us about their upcoming 3rd anniversary of their wildly successful Sapphic Aquatica. Jordan B. Wright is a trans indie rocker who will …

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Sex News! I love it! January 3, 2016

This Man Gets Paid to Help Women Enjoy Sex The Two Things Men Love More Than Sex, But are Afraid to Reveal ‘A twist in a straight line’: inside India’s kinky networks WHY CHEATING DOESN’T HAVE TO EQUAL THE DEATH OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP How Artists Portrayed Prostitution in 19th-Century Paris 6 Sex Positions to Try if You Can’t Orgasm From Penetration Alone What It REALLY Means To Have Herpes Fernande Grudet, who presided over exclusive Paris brothel, dies at 92 Video: The Science of Boobs Boner Pills and Sex Stimulants Are Still the Wild West of Herbal Supplements Carrie Fisher: …

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Sight To Behold: The Look Of Sex—My Latest Sex Senses Article on Cara Sutra!

I specifically waited until end of this series to write on sight and sex. So much of our sexuality is infused with references to and a desire to see. The visual of sex has become the de facto sense of sex, with the other four moreso working on the periphery (touch is obviously up there though). Check out Sight To Behold: The Look Of Sex to see if you agree. Also check out the four previous parts this series: Lick Your Lips: The Taste of Sex A Rose By Any Other Name: Sensual Scents Reach Out: The Sexuality of Touch Listening In: The …

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Sex Stories We Love: Realities of BDSM Porn, Want to Go to a Sex Party?, Future of Sex & More!

It is just about time to close the book on 2015, folks. It has been quite the year in sex, hasn’t it? Some good stuff, some bad stuff. And as always, some truly curious stuff. I resisted the urge to do a Best of edition of Sex Stories We Love…because there are always great new stories to read! This week, we get into The Realities of BDSM Porn, Candid Jessica Drake, First Time to Forget, Who Says Blue is Just for Boys, So, You Want to Go to a Sex Party? and the Future of Sex. Check out this week’s …

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Sex News! I love it! December 27, 2015

Which Time Do You Have The Best Sex With Someone? Hint: It’s Not The First Time 10 Times Women Spoke the Truth About Female Orgasms in 2015 The 13 Most Thrilling Penis Moments of 2015 [NSFW] Porn Star Summer Brielle Shares Your Pervy Instagram DMs with the World People Are Having Sex On Hoverboards The Combination Orgasm Saved My Life How Does Sexual Satisfaction Change Over Time in Relationships? Same-Sex Couples Could Have Babies With Genes From Both Parents Thanks To Scientific Breakthrough Police shut down photo exhibition of naked natural women because they’re ‘indecent’ ACTUAL DOCTORS EXPLAIN THE SCIENCE …

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This week’s Sex Stories We Love: Rape Justice Falls Flat, Blow…Out the Candle, Gettin’ It Good in Bed & More!

Lots of stories about how we communicate about and for sex in this week’s Sex Stories We Love. Sex menus, sharing bad news, seeking therapy, a goodbye to a great blog and more! Check out Rape Justice Falls Flat, Blow Out…the Candle, Gettin’ It Good in Bed, Dine In or Take Out, “Talk to Me…Like Lovers Do…” and Not Goodbye, but Farewell in this week’s Sex Stories We Love.

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Sex News! I love it! December 20, 2015

5 Ways To Earn Money In The Adult Industry Without Having Sex Sex Work Classifieds Site Backpage Wins Small Victory in Appeals Court The 16 Most Awkward Sex Confessions Of 2015 BDSM PORNOGRAPHY & BOUNDARIES Sex, love and robots: is this the end of intimacy? Life as a sex worker for people with disabilities A Brief History of Vagina Worship 10 Sex Issues Couples Complain About In Marital Counseling The Game: Living Hell in hotel chains Against the Odds: New Research Shows How Trans Sex Workers Overcome Pervasive Discrimination and Violence surreal scenes of las vegas strip club culture This …

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New Review on Cara Sutra—Young Nylon Beauties!

I’ve been very lucky this year to have my work appear on a number of new sites. Among those, getting back to reviewing as a part of Cara Sutra’s Pleasure Panel has been really fun. And for my last review of the year I got to review a BOOK! Yay! And not just any book, but a photography book featuring a specific type of sexy subject dear to my own heart. Check out my review of Young Nylon Beauties by Mark Novak (and then stick around for lots of other great content on Cara Sutra!)

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This week’s Sex Stories We Love: What’s in a Name, Finding Furries, Funny Sex Tweets & More!

This week’s Sex Stories We Love is all about the different ways we tell and share stories about sex. Could be blog, could be humour, could be song! Check out stories on What’s in a Name, Finding Furries, Remembering Holly Woodlawn, This Isn’t About Breasts, Accepting Sex Toys and Fucking Funny! Check out this Sex Stories We Love!

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Sex News! I love it! December 13, 2015

How I Learned There’s More Than One Way To Have Gay Sex Please Stop Using PrEP to Abandon Condoms AN INSTRUCTIONAL GUIDE TO KINKS, FETISHES, AND THE WORLD OF BDSM How The Porn Industry Can Lift Its Game On Consent British Women’s Breasts Have Grown 4 Sizes In The Past Century Netflix originals are sex-positive TV at its best Warhol Superstar and Transgender Pioneer Holly Woodlawn Has Died Ex Porn Actress Bree Olson Takes To Periscope To Slam James Deen What you should know about this ‘new’ STD What you want to know about a porn set (and are too …

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