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Love him or hate him, The Hedgehog is entrenched in the world of pornography and our attitudes towards sex on film.I saw a live interview with him here in Toronto a number of years ago, while he was promoting his book. One of the most fun book events I’ve ever been to.Here’s wishing him a speedy recovery.

Here’s a topic that few people really discuss: period sex. As someone who has sex with women, I’ve never had a problem with period sex. I mean, it just happens. If we’re hot and heavy and both into it, why not go for it?I really don’t understand the hesitation. Yes, it could get messy. Yes, it is different fluid. But it is still a part of that lady you’re happy to get with during the rest of the month. Am I thinking too simply?The article offers some great tips if you’re not keen on getting with someone while she’s with …

2nd Annual How Lyrical Is Your Romance? Contest Lyrical Press is searching for the next great romance. Entries must be complete works, any heat level welcome, open to published and unpublished authors. Prizes: The entry with highest average score will receive a $100 Advance and publishing contract with Lyrical Press, Inc. Highest-average scoring entry from each category will receive a 25-page edit and a revision letter from an acquiring editor. Categories are as follows:Contemporary RomanceRomantic SuspenseHistorical RomanceParanormal Romance Deadline to enter:Entries accepted from Feb. 1-10, 2013 First round First 50 pages of manuscript will be judged based on the following …

Daily Sex Discussion #82 If you were to use a movie title to describe your sex life, what movie title would you choose? Reply with your response to #dailysexdiscussion

I have a great appreciation for work that helps people with common concerns and worries. And surely, for many women (and possibly some men?) wondering what an orgasm feels like must be troublesome. Why this is more concerning to women is that men can certainly see the end result of an orgasm, but trust me, jusy because a guy has unleashed the money shot, doesn’t mean he’s really gotten off.Women, on the other hand, don’t even have that cue. Add to this the general repression of sexual pleasure in women coupled with a historical lack of literature on female pleasure …

Daily Sex Discussion #81 If you had to choose, would you prefer a one night stand to be older or younger than you? Reply with your response to #dailysexdiscussion

Call For Submissions I Do Unless I Don’tPublisher: Loose Id Deadline: February 15, 2013Payment: 40% of gross sales Concept: Weddings and June go together. But does the couple?In this submissions call there has to be a wedding prominently involved in the story and some doubt whether the couple who is planning to marry will actually get married or if they will get married the way they planned. Whether they do or don’t is up to you but there must be a romance, lots of erotic heat and a HEA or HFN. Someone is going to end up with the right …

The Met Another Frog team have penned another winner!Sexual shyness is real detriment to your happiness in the bedroom. And even the most sophisticated slut has suffered from this at some point.Check out Dr. Yvonne Fulbright’s tips to overcoming sexual shyness and hop on that Astroglide offer!

YES! THIS! YES!Well, mostly yes.It still does surprise me that people misunderstand pornography. The Love Birds definitely get it right here. It is an aid. It is a pleasure. It is something that people watch for sexual fun. We need to start accepting this and not fearing it!I really enjoyed this video, except for when the Doctors Bird tried to put a definition to pornography. They offer many variations on what porn is, breaking it down to watching anything that titillates.I don’t know about this. Here’s the Oxford definition of pornography: Definition of pornographynoun[mass noun]printed or visual material containing the …

Call for SubmissionsForTheGirls.com is currently seeking written contributions from skilled writers.FLASH FICTIONWe are looking for high quality super-short (flash) fiction to feature twice a month or more. Ideally we want succinct, erotic pieces that successfully get an idea across in a small number of words. Cleverness is encouraged, as is out-and-out dirty hotness. The piece should, of course, be aimed at a female audience.Flash fiction stories should be a minimum of 300 and a maximum of 500 words in length.BEDHEAD GRAFFITI – GUEST COLUMNISTSFor The Girls is introducing a new column: Bedhead Graffiti. This column will appear monthly and feature …

Daily Sex Discussion #80Do you blog about your sex thoughts and/or sex life?Reply with your response to #dailysexdiscussion

Now this is a very interesting take on Erectile Dysfunction that I hadn’t heard before. And I’m really trying to wrap my head around it. Surely we all know that doubt, confusion and self-questioning are strong factors throughout out lives. But in the article, Dr. Danielle Harel, Ph.D. and Celeste Hirschman  are suggesting that men are holding back from their desires, for a variety of reasons, including fear of rejection and societal teachings that women don’t want sex as much as they do. This causes stress and then a resulting inability to get it up.I really am finding this fascinating. …

The Effects of 50 Shades of Grey on the Sex Toy Industry infographic by VisualApogee.

Call For Submissions The Flesh Made Word: Erotic Tales About WritingEdited by Bernie MojzesPublisher: Circlet PressDeadline: March 1, 2013Payment: $.01/word up to $25 In the age of communication where words are cheap, easy, and disposable its easy to forget the sheer physicality of the written word. The inscription, through will and intention, through the press and flow of pen and ink expressing what’s hidden within ourselves upon a surface that is transformed through the process: what is more intimate than that? The Flesh Made Word is an erotic anthology about the act of writing, and of being written upon. Old …

Daily Sex Discussion #79 What part of sex do you like more: the anticipation or the satisfaction? Reply with your response to #dailysexdiscussion

I have never really understood the appeal of “swallowing”…and I’ve been on both ends. Mine has been swallowed and not swallowed. I’ve both taken a load in my mouth and let it go elsewhere.I can’t say I enjoyed the taste…but I did enjoy the sensation. The texture though…that’s a whole other story. I have real issues with texture in my mouth, and cum is not one I wish to try again. Sorry. While I did like the warm and the impulse, the feeling was just too much.As for where my spunk ends up? I’m not really bothered. Maybe it is …