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Excellent reconsideration of the word ‘slut’ by the incomparable Melissa Gira Grant. When it comes down to it, epithets are rarely as simple as they seem. In the case of slut, Melissa breaks it down to be about much more than sex, and often, not really about sex at all. Give her work a good read, it is remarkable.

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Tracy Clark-Flory offers and excellent piece on the “schizophrenic” expectations of female sexuality in response to the story of the Magaluf girl. We’ve still got such a long way to go to put men’s and women’s sexuality on the same plane. For dude’s I’ve heard of best chest and ass contests…but not anything else. Whereas, as Tracy points out, there is a long traditional of bar contests for women to participate in for the male gaze. And she’s right, they are escalating because that male gaze needs to be fed more and more. I still need to reconcile the idea …

Female Sexuality: Put on a Show But No No No? Read More

Daily Sex Discussion #607 Do you currently have a crush on someone…and haven’t told them? Reply with your response to #DailySexDiscussion

Daily Sex Discussion #607: Current Crush? Read More

Ahhh, the big question. So you wanna be a sex blogger…do you use your real name? Erica Jagger of A Sexy Woman of a Certian Age tackles this difficult question head on because of unfortunate circumstances. On a base level, I find it rather odd that people would call Erica out for posting her blog anonymously. Never mind that it is smart, articulate, fun, informative and sexy. No…these creeps want to make sure we all know who she is too. Anonymity is a hallmark of writing and creation. Bloggers, writers, artists, musicians, storytellers…one and all are absolutely allowed the opportunity …

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Oh my… Which Gay Sex Position Are You? The Hang TenYou’re a SEXUAL-ALL-STAR You love sex and are great at it. Or maybe its because you’re that good at it it’s just become one of those passion projects in life you’ devote a serious amount of energy to. Sex is of course much like your favorite sport – sex is after all a sport right? And one that requires a hell of a lot of finesse, dedication, endurance, preparation and so much more. You couldn’t agree more, and that’s that makes you such a great team player – understanding that …

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Two basic truths in this story of a man callously insulting a woman’s body: Robin is a wonderfully strong person to take in these injurious words and still be able to feel love for herself. Really, she’s amazing. Dave is a dark, disturbing person. A complete ass. Honesty is one thing, I think this was more of a power play on his part. Nowhere does the world say that you have to be attracted to every single part of a partner’s body, spirt or mind. Nobody is perfect, but I truly believe you base a relationship on finding those parts …

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‘Pop Your Picnic Cherry!’ —Annual Customer Appreciation Picnic July 26, 2014 @ 11:00 am – July 27, 2014 @ 3:00 am Women $20, couples $80-picnic is free for all guests Join us at Cherry Beach on Saturday July 26th for ‘Pop Your Picnic Cherry’—our annual customer appreciation picnic. From 12:00pm-5:00pm, enjoy Naked Yoga, tarot card readings, a hula hoop demonstration and a BBQ. We welcome you to bare what you dare! Single men, women and couples are welcome to attend this event and it will be free of charge Any women/couples who pay the cost of admission to the club …

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Daily Sex Discussion #606 Have you ever participated in an orgy? Reply with your response to #DailySexDiscussion

Daily Sex Discussion #606: Orgy? Read More

These sexual discussion worksheets are brilliant! Created and presented in an honest, straightforward—but at the same time compassionate manner. I am sure many of us will benefit from the increased and improved sexual communication they will provide.

Opening Up Effective Sexual Discussion—With Worksheets! Read More