Sex Stories We Love: Misunderstandings about BDSM & Rough Sex

BDSM has a long-standing perception issue in the eyes of mainstream society. Recent events strained it even more. This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly looks at several misunderstandings about BDSM and rough sex. Check out stories on The Murder of Grace Millane, Irresponsible Journalism, Introducing BDSM, New Therapy, Recontextualizing Pain, and A Place to Play.

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Sex Stories We Love: Transitions to Happiness, Fucktastic First Dates, & You Are What You Eat

We’re going to roll back a few years to embrace the seminal phrase “You do you.” This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly makes the case for working out what is best for your own sex life! Check out stories on Transitions to Happiness, Fucktastic First Dates, Movement to Mindfulness, Seeking Sober Sex, Sex Work As Life Experience and You Are What You Eat.

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Sex Stories We Love: The Importance of Allies & Friendships

“Oh, I get by with a little help from my friendsMm, I get high with a little help from my friendsMm, gonna try with a little help from my friends” – The Beatles Everyone needs friends and allies to make change. This week’s Sex Stories We Love shows the importance of allies and friendships. Check out stories on A Better Connection than PB & J, Mastercard Move Trans Rights, Care Over Anger, Penis Transplant Success, Flipping Off Stigma, and Community As Ally.

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Sex Stories We Love: Art and Sex

Whether the stroke of a brush, the crash of a chisel or a capture on celluloid, the connection of art and sex is undeniable. This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly looks at the intersections and interdependencies of these two integral parts of our lives. Check out stories on Art as Revolution, Porn as Film as Porn?, Sexy Art Through the Ages, Celebrating Queer Sex Worker Art, Subverting Subversive Art and Righting a Wrong.

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Sex Stories We Love: Sexy, Scary, Spooky Halloween Edition

Trick or treat, smell my feetGive me something good to eat!If you don’t, I don’t careI’ll pull down your underwear! Now we’re not advocating non-consensual de-pantsing, but this little jingle might point to a foot fetish, oral sex, and domination and submission. This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly embraces the sexy, scary, and spooky of Halloween!

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Sex Toy Review: Tracy’s Dog Clitoral Sucking Vibrator

What a fantastic idea! Tracy’s Dog really hits all of the right spots with this amazing toy. By combining two incredible sensations, the Tracy’s Dog Clitoral Sucking Vibrator greatly ensures the likelihood of orgasm and feels great! The “sucking” type of clitoris stimulator has become very popular and Tracy’s Dog has developed one of the best. I’m very fond of the texture and quality of the silicone they use, it always feels silky and soft. Combine that with the 10 increasing speeds of sucking power, from low and gentle to strong and powerful, and this part of the toy alone …

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Sex Stories We Love: The Ups and Downs of Casual Sex

Casual sex is a tricky thing. At time, it’s glorious. At other times, it’s complicated. This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly looks at the ups and downs of spontaneous, occasional, extemporaneous, and impromptu connections. Check out stories on Navigating Casual Sex, Things Might Change…They Might Not, End the Stigma, Understanding Demisexuality, All Good Things…, and The How-to.

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Sex Toy Review: Tracy’s Dog G Spot Rabbit Vibrator

There are a lot of rabbit vibrators on the market, but you can stop your looking and pick up Tracy’s Dog G Spot Rabbit Vibrator. This is a top-of-the-line sex toy that offers something just a little bit different.  Most rabbit vibrators have two bunny ears for clitoral stimulation. This is a tried-and-true design that works for many, but isn’t the be-all-end-all of this type of product. By offering just one ear, Tracy’s Dog provides a different kind of sensation that, I was told by my partner, was new and exciting. Because there is only one vibrating ear, users will …

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The 5 Myths of Prostate Massage

Sex is full of opportunities to explore new and unknown pleasures. In fact, hot and sexy sensations are on offer all over our bodies – both inside and out. On of the hottest hot spots right now is the prostate. This walnut-sized gland nestled on the anterior wall of the rectal cavity offers significant potential for cock-popping pleasure. Unfortunately, there are many myths and stigmas associated with prostate play and anal exploration. Well, we’re here to bust these myths. Many of them stem from misinformation – and they could be holding you back from experiencing some pretty mind-blowing pleasure. Check out …

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Sex Stories We Love: Orgasm Awesomeness

We have so many different ways to describe orgasms: cumming, the big O, la petit mort, and so many others…but do we we really talk about orgasm as part of our sex lives enough? This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly is all about orgasms and what we’re still learning about this phenomenal phenomena. Check out stories on The Origins of Orgasm?, Cumming Soon on TV, Discovering Cervical Orgasms, Assgasm!, Not All Orgasms Are Good, Ready, Set, Cum!

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Sex Stories We Love: The State of Sex Ed Around the World

We’re keeping a keen eye on the state of sex education across the world. Sure, sex culture may be growing and may be turning into something more inclusive and understanding, but we have a long way to go. That direction will be determined by how we teach our kids. This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly is the latest round-up of sex ed news stories from around the world. Check out stories on The Pull-Out Method?, Considering Faith, LGBTQI+ Rights Are Human Rights, Lasting Impression, Could You Teach Your Kids Sex Ed?, and …The Darnedest Things!

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Demystifying Sex Dolls

I am consistently amazed by the advancements being made in the world of sex dolls. During my many years as a sex writer, I’ve seen sex dolls transform from cheesy blow-up novelties to legit, sexual products. Gone are the round, red mouths—they’ve been replaced by soft, sensual lips and the promise of so much more. To keep up with the changes in the sex toy industry, I keep tabs on numerous sites. I was just checking out https://www.jsdolls.com, one of the growing number of sex doll manufacturers. When I first started keeping tabs on sex products, I couldn’t even imagine …

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Sex Stories We Love: Why Aren’t We Having as Much Sex as Previous Generations

What is stopping us from having sex? There’s a lot of fear out there that our sexual culture is on the downward slope. Is our libido listing? Our desire decreasing? This week’s Sex Stories We Love looks at causes for why might not be having as much sex as generations past. Check out stories on Raunchy Recession?, Distracted from Desire, True Turn-Offs, Mara-Wanna-Fuck?, Getting Past Boring, and Cum On!

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Sex Toy Review: Male Prostate Massager Anal Butt Plug with Vibrating Remote Control

Definitely one of the most unique and versatile sex toys I’ve ever tried! And my partner loves how she can take control of me with Tracy’s Dog’s Male Prostate Massager Anal Butt Plug with Vibrating Remote Control! This sex toy takes anal pleasure to a whole new level! But be warned, you might need some practice before you try to get that high. Butt plugs and anus pleasure products have a long history of being pretty dull and boring. They have long been considered something to just stick in there for a specific pleasure. Not saying this doesn’t work and …

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Sex Toy Review: Tracy’s Dog Cordless Ultra Wand Massager

Finding an affordable, good quality, high-powered wand vibrator is really hard! I’m really glad we’ve come across Tracy’s Dog Cordless Ultra Wand Massager!  From the moment I opened the package, I knew we had found a good toy. When picking this wand massager, the key for us was that it is cordless. It is so gloriously freeing to have this kind of sexual power in your hand and not be constrained by being plugged into a wall. It takes a couple hours to charge this massager, but once it is fully charged, you can use it through numerous sessions with …

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Fantasy Fucking Escorts in Montreal

I’ve been thinking about Montreal a lot lately. One of my coworkers at the day job recently made the trip for the weekend and had a great time. Now I’m thinking that I’d love to get back to the city that has seen some of my most electric and erotic adventures. Despite this post’s title, my adventures have never involved actually fucking escorts. I used to go to Montreal every fall for the annual Expozine zine festival. Whether I was promoting TRADE: Queer Things, selling sexy pins, my own book or those of my friends, or my erotic adventure books …

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Sex Stories We Love: #MeToo Movement, Fat and Fucking Fantastic, & No Saving Sex Workers

Sex culture continually changes. We’ve made some great advances. Yet there are some issues which still require a resolution. You say you want a revolution? Check out some issues we really need to resolve as a society in this week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly. Check out stories on #MeToo Movement, Challenging Legal Changes in Indonesia, Fat and Fucking Fantastic, Sexy Seniors, No Saving Sex Workers and A Must Read.

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Sex Stories We Love: No Child Sex Dolls, Naughty Naming, & Bonfire of the Nasties

Hold my calls! Schedule a Meeting! Where are my briefs? This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly explores the big, bouncy business of sex. Check out stories on No Child Sex Dolls, Have a Seat, There Are Reasons, Naughty Naming, Bonfire of the Nasties, and Just Another Day at the Office.

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Sex Stories We Love: Cleansing Away Stigma, Finding an LGBTQ+ Doctor, & Pillow Talk

Are you a sex nerd with a healthy interest in sex? Or perhaps you have a sexy interest in health… This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly explores the links between our health and our sex lives. Check out stories on Pass the Soap, Cleansing Away Stigma, Finding an LGBTQ+ Doctor, Pump You Up, Pillow Talk and Sex and Aging.

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Sex Stories We Love: First Date Infrequency, Friends Without Benefits, & the Ahhhh of the Hurricane

Let’s talk about sex and relationships. Right from the outset, sex can be a significant factor in whether a connection will work or fail. It can be oh so glorious and also fraught with challenges. This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly looks at the different stages of sex in relationships. Check out stories on First Date Infrequency, Friends Without Benefits, Horny…How Often?, Dealing With a Dead Bedroom, Ahhhh of the Hurricane, and Sexy Sofa.

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