Sex Stories We Love: Kink on the Move, Slut, Yeah!, Ready for Robots? & More!

I like to think of the various stages we move through in our sex lives as a game of Twister. Sometimes folks are able to make transitions easily and without much discomfort. Other movements can be fraught with twists and turns that leave you tied in a knot! And the the thing is, we’re all different and all experience these challenges differently. This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly is all about the different things we learn about sex during different times in our lives. But remember, if there’s one aspect of this that rings true—always wear your sexiest …

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Sex Stories We Love: Bye Bye Backpage, Far Out Fetish, Urine for a Good Time & More!

There are a lot of sex stories in this big, beautiful world—and these are just a few. And to be precise, let’s take a moment to note how many are focused on North America and Europe, particularly when it comes to research. While these stories are great and worthy of sharing, I’d love to expand this reportage. If you ever come across studies, research and news about sex from other parts of the world, please drop a line! This week we’ve got some awesome stories to consider in this week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly! Check out missives on Stress …

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You Can Help Sequence the Porn Genome!

Porn is one of those things that many people think about, watch and wonder about. We fantasize about it, we wonder what it is like to create it and some of us even perform in it. So why has there been so little research into the nitty gritty of our sexy fun viewings? There are some aspects of porn that are considered, but what about the basics. The words we use for porn. What we search for. What we desire. Enter the people of Proctor and Lever (don’t worry, they use lots of lube). They are seizing the opportunity to …

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Sex Stories We Love: The Meaning of Sex Positive, Disabled Folks Have Sex Too & Coffee Cock

I am always deeply appreciative when change for the better happens in the sex world. Let’s keep it going! This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly offers up some perceptions, thoughts and actions that could do with a fresh coat of paint. Check out stories on Vulva, FFS!, What Does ‘Sex Positive’ Really Mean?, Recognizing Trauma, Disabled Folks Fuck Too, Family Is Key, and Coffee Cock.

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My next Sex City—JANUARY 17! Bed Post! Erotic Arts & Crafts Fair! Sapphic Aquatica!

On TUESDAY JANUARY 17, I’ve got some special guests visiting the SEX CITY studios to talk about sexy and fun upcoming events. Dial in at 11PM ET on 89.5FM in the Toronto area and CIUT.FM streaming live! Erin Pim tells us about Bed Post—Toronto’s sex/sexuality variety show featuring erotic readings, real life sex stories, ask a sexpert, raunchy comedy, and stripping! Jack Lamon of Come As You Are comes back to Sex City to tell us about the return of the Toronto Erotic Arts and Crafts Fair! Fatima Mechtab of Oasis Aqualounge also returns to share with us the excitement of the …

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Sex Stories We Love: Sexy Science, Bound for Play, Pushing Porn & More!

It is that time of year again—are you ready for more lists? Well, remember, if you’re hear then you know those lists have to be about sex! People are drawn to collections of data and opinion so this week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly is a gathering of sexy facts, figures, thoughts and desires. Check out features on Challenge to the Sex Industry, Neither Mountain Nor Molehill, Sexy Science, Bound for Play, Pushing Porn and Great Sex Work Writing.

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Sex Stories We Love: New Way to Pay for Porn, Reach Out & Virtually Touch Someone, Complex Sexual Identities & More!

As 2016 draws to a close, we can always hope for change. We can watch it, make it, wish for it and applaud it. Change in the sex world can always happen. Check out these Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly to discover more about change from this past year and, perhaps, get inspired for 2017. Take a read about New Way to Pay for Porn?, Bad for the Baculum?, New and…Improved?, Reach Out and Virtually Touch Someone, Complex Sexual Identities and Beyond the Scale.

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Sex Stories We Love: Accepting Advice, Reviewing Reviewers, Dildo Display & More!

Sex toys have become a part of our world. This is still a relatively new development. But given how many awesome products are now available, let’s live it up! This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly explores how sex toys can bring us great pleasure while still being confusing to some. Check out stories on A Change for the Better, Accepting Advice, Reviewing Reviewers, Working Hard, Dildo Display and What’s That In Your Utility Belt, Batman?

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Finding the Pulse of Penis Pleasure—My Latest on Future of Sex!

The world of sex toys is expanding—and improving—by the day! Innovation and advances are bringing new types of stimulation that are knocking our socks off. And sometimes, these products have the added body benefits. If you or someone you love has a penis, you have got to check out Hot Octopuss’ Pulse III. It is a revelation. Read all about it in Finding the Pulse of Penis Pleasure on Future of Sex!

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My Next Sex City—December 20! HUM! VejuVe! Porn Genome Project!

On TUESDAY DECEMBER 20, I’ve got some special guests visiting the SEX CITY studios at 11PM ET on 89.5FM in the Toronto area and CIUT.FM streaming live! Jonathan Driscoll has a PhD in Physics and is the visionary behind the revolutionary vibrator HUM Neil Maurette saw a need for for better couples’ sexual experiences, so he and his wife came up with the VejuVe Enhancer Have you ever wondered if porn can be broken down to its genetic core? Taylor Kohut of the Porn Genome Project is going to tell us what this could mean for our porn-watching habits. Tune in, 11pm …

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For Immediate Release: Toronto International Porn Festival April 2017

For Immediate Release: www.goodforher.com Media Contact: Carlyle Jansen     416-588-0900 xt6     carlyle@goodforher.com www.TorontoInternationalPornFestival.com Toronto, ON, December 16, 2016:   Good For Her, Toronto’s premiere sexuality store, launches the Toronto International Porn Festival, screening the most creative, expressive, diverse and erotic pornography the industry has to offer. As a response to the growth and popularity of independent and progressive erotic films, the former Feminist Porn Awards have now been rebranded to broaden the conversation about positive porn and reflect the diverse audience it attracts. These films are for people of all genders, sexualities, bodies and pleasures. SAME VALUES. NEW NAME. MORE PORN. The Toronto International …

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Sex Stories We Love: Conan Gets Caned, Public Display for Attention, Stocking Stuffer & More!

Sometimes we all need to step back, take a think and really put some thought into what we are reading and understanding when it comes to sex. Misconceptions happen! Misunderstandings aren’t unusual. And we all need to get this and be able to talk and move on. This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly explores some current confusions and preps us to be ready for more. Check out stories on Conan Gets Canned, Everybody’s Getting Good Vibrations, Public Display for Attention?, Bloody Hot Sex, Brexit Causes Sex Tech Suffering, and Stocking Stuffer.

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Sex Stories We Love: Racism V. Type, For the People, Robo-Love & More!

There are a number of conversational touchstones that can get a little too hot to handle. Politics, religion and, of course, sex! We are so divided in our beliefs and opinions of sex topics that arguments flair up all the time. This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly fans the flames by looking at stories that are embers ready to burst. Check out stories on Racism V. Type?, It Is Possible, A Snip Decision?, For The People, Robo-Love, and a Hairy Debate.

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Sex Stories We Love: Celebrating Porn Week!

That’s right folks! I’ve dubbed this Porn Week on Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly! We’ll be jumping all around the sweet, secretive, sexy, sticky, salacious, sweaty spectrum of sex cinema! Check out stories on Verisimilitude Reality, Banality in the UK, Beware the Whisperers, CNN Got HOT, Preferred But Not Necessary, and Porn, Firsthand.

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Porn, Photography and Craigslist on my latest Sex City!

I was delighted to welcome special guests to the Sex City studio to discuss porn, photography and Craigslist: Comedian Monica Hamburg discusses her upcoming show Craigslost, a hilarious adventure through some of the most bizarre Craigslist ads, which invariably means lots of odd sex Photographer Ricardo Scipio previews his upcoming latest book The Sex Goddess Project Sexuality and mental health expert Dr. David Ley shares thoughts on his upcoming new book Ethical Porn for Dicks: A Man’s Guide to Responsible Viewing Pleasure LISTEN

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Sex Stories We Love: Discovering Consent, Waiting or Wanting, Spoonful of Semen & More!

This is the awkward AF edition of Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly. Whether it be sex connection and communication between people, between communities or even on a personal level, sometimes sex is, challenging to negotiate. Check out stories on Softening on Someone Else, Helping, Hot Hands, Discovering Consent, There Goes the Neighbourhood?, Waiting or Wanting? and Spoonful of Semen.

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My next Sex City November 22! Monica Hamburg! Ricardo Scipio! Dr. David Ley!

On TUESDAY NOVEMBER 22, I’ve got some special guests SEX CITY studios at 11PM ET on 89.5FM in the Toronto area and CIUT.FM streaming live! Comedian Monica Hamburg discusses her upcoming show Craigslost, a hilarious adventure through some of the most bizarre Craigslist ads, which invariably means lots of odd sex Photographer Ricardo Scipio previews his upcoming latest book The Sex Goddess Project Sexuality and mental health expert Dr. David Ley shares thoughts on his upcoming new book Ethical Porn for Dicks: A Man’s Guide to Responsible Viewing Pleasure Tune in, 11pm – midnight on TUESDAY NOVEMBER 22 to CIUT 89.5FM in the Toronto …

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Sex Stories We Love: Paper Cut Porn, RIP Leonard Cohen, Peek-a-boo or Perv? & More!

“What turns us on?” This might be the most loaded question that sex community ever tries to answer. Who knows what turns anyone on, and can there ever be collective agreement? This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly explores the various things that turn us on. Check out stories on Motors Running, Lingerie is Revealing, Paper Cut Porn, Not a Solid Solution, RIP Leonard Cohen, and Peek-A-Boo or Perv?

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