Sex Stories We Love: A Bold Statement, Price of Beauty, Sounds of Pain & More!

There are lots of common sexual dilemmas that we deal with. And then there are the extraordinary situations! This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly looks at some aspects of the world of sex that not everybody will encounter…but maybe they will have some resonance with you. Check out stories on A Bold Statement, Prison Sex or Food, Price of Beauty, Too Much Time Spent on This, Hug a Therapist, Sounds of Pain.

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Sex Stories We Love: The New Submission, All Work & No Play, & Sex and Death

Sex is part of the world around us and the world within us. So many factors influence our ability to pursue and enjoy pleasure. Some we can control, some we cannot. This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly consider just some of these influences and how they might fit into your world. Check out stories in The New Submissions, More Than A Liplock, Reconciling Fantasy, All Work & No Play, Sex & Death, and Grey Matter.

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Sex City—March 14—Guest Host Tynan Rhea! With Tracy Tief, Tumaina, Isabel Nantaba

I’m taking this month of Sex City, but we have a fantastic guest host you’re quite familiar with—Tynan Rhea! On TUESDAY MARCH 14, Tynan welcomes some great guests to discuss holistic sexual health. Dial in at 11PM ET on 89.5FM in the Toronto area and CIUT.FM streaming live! Tynan will be joined by Tracey Tief of Anarres Apothecary to talk about holistic sexual health, Tumaina of Tuly Maimouna and Isabel Nantaba, the community health worker at Womens Health In Womens Hands to talk about holistic approaches to reducing STI STIGMA. Tune in, 11pm – midnight on TUESDAY MARCH 14 to CIUT 89.5FM in …

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Sex Stories We Love: Another Consent Collapse, Poly Mono Divide, Penis Party & More!

It is impossible to avoid awkward, uncomfortable and sometimes maddening situations when you’re dealing with sex. That is inevitable. However, how we and society-at-large deal with these situations is key. This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly explores some good ways…and some bad. Check out stories on Another Consent Collapse, What’s a Friend For, Poly Mono Divide, Just Like Any Other Illness, Penis Party, Footie Fun.

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Sex Stories We Love: Eye of the Beholder, Turnabout Is Fair Play, Ice Ice Baby & More!

Life is full of cautionary tales that we should all heed. Of course, sex is definitely included in that. This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly is all about taking what we can from the sex triumphs and travails of our friends and fellow sex explorers. Check out stories on Eye of the Beholder, Flared Base, Folks, No Vagina? Stop Inventing Products for Them, Turnabout is Fair Play, Music to Our Ears, and Ice Ice Baby?

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Opening the Floodgates: Now We Can Talk About Watersports

Sometimes taboo sexual subjects seep into the public realm and become acceptable slowly and carefully. And sometimes somebody turns on a garden hose and stands in the yard waving it around wildly. This is not to say that watersports are a wholly accepted part of everybody sexual repertoire, but when reports of Donald Trump’s supposed interest became international news, sexy pee play was certainly a topic open for discussion. With valuable input from my friend Luna Matatas, I explore the wet and wild potential of bringing piss play into your sex life in Opening the Floodgates: Now We Can Talk About Watersports—my …

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Sex Stories We Love: Rape Culture Persists, Hard Day’s Night, Magical Masturbation & More!

This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly can be best summarized by the phrase “don’t let your guard down.” For sure, there are lots of amazing things about meeting people and having sex, but there are also many cautionary tales to be told. Check out stories on Rape Culture Persists, Hard Day’s Night, Mama Said…, Dressed To Thrill, Thinking Straight on Sexuality, and Magical Masturbation.

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The Dreamy Desire Review: We-Vibe, Touch and More—My latest on Future of Sex!

Some sex product companies just get it. Ever since the first We-Vibe was introduced, Standard Innovation Corporation has continued to bring out high quality, easy to use sex toys that get the sexy job done! I reviewed their Dreamy Desire Collection for Future of Sex and it was definitely one of the easiest product round-ups I’ve ever done. And if you’re looking for a last minute Valentine’s Day gift, here’s a great one!

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My Next SEX CITY—FEB 14—Tynan Rhea! Kelsey Obsession! Alex S. Morgan!

On TUESDAY FEBRUARY 14, I’ve got some special guests visiting the SEX CITY studios to talk about sex and parenting, diverse porn and making room for sex. Dial in at 11PM ET on 89.5FM in the Toronto area and CIUT.FM streaming live! Tynan Rhea comes back to Sex City to share ideas around sex and pregnancy and parenthood Performer and sex educator Kelsey Obsession talks to us about the very diverse world of porn and her place in it Alex S. Morgan helps people explore and reclaim their sexuality and will share some thoughts on how we can prioritize sex in difficult times …

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Sex Stories We Love: 1 in 5, Pink Pill Faux Pas, Understanding Consent & More!

This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly features many discussions about women’s bodies. Why there are so many discussions about women’s bodies involving people who aren’t women, I don’t really know. I weigh in, but pleasure ensure you read the linked stories to hear from women themselves for a true understanding. Check out stories on 1 in 5, Pink Pill Faux Pas, Understanding Consent, The Other Women and Porn Debate, Take a Look Around, All in Favour.

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Sex Stories We Love: Kink on the Move, Slut, Yeah!, Ready for Robots? & More!

I like to think of the various stages we move through in our sex lives as a game of Twister. Sometimes folks are able to make transitions easily and without much discomfort. Other movements can be fraught with twists and turns that leave you tied in a knot! And the the thing is, we’re all different and all experience these challenges differently. This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly is all about the different things we learn about sex during different times in our lives. But remember, if there’s one aspect of this that rings true—always wear your sexiest …

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Sex Stories We Love: Bye Bye Backpage, Far Out Fetish, Urine for a Good Time & More!

There are a lot of sex stories in this big, beautiful world—and these are just a few. And to be precise, let’s take a moment to note how many are focused on North America and Europe, particularly when it comes to research. While these stories are great and worthy of sharing, I’d love to expand this reportage. If you ever come across studies, research and news about sex from other parts of the world, please drop a line! This week we’ve got some awesome stories to consider in this week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly! Check out missives on Stress …

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You Can Help Sequence the Porn Genome!

Porn is one of those things that many people think about, watch and wonder about. We fantasize about it, we wonder what it is like to create it and some of us even perform in it. So why has there been so little research into the nitty gritty of our sexy fun viewings? There are some aspects of porn that are considered, but what about the basics. The words we use for porn. What we search for. What we desire. Enter the people of Proctor and Lever (don’t worry, they use lots of lube). They are seizing the opportunity to …

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Sex Stories We Love: The Meaning of Sex Positive, Disabled Folks Have Sex Too & Coffee Cock

I am always deeply appreciative when change for the better happens in the sex world. Let’s keep it going! This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly offers up some perceptions, thoughts and actions that could do with a fresh coat of paint. Check out stories on Vulva, FFS!, What Does ‘Sex Positive’ Really Mean?, Recognizing Trauma, Disabled Folks Fuck Too, Family Is Key, and Coffee Cock.

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My next Sex City—JANUARY 17! Bed Post! Erotic Arts & Crafts Fair! Sapphic Aquatica!

On TUESDAY JANUARY 17, I’ve got some special guests visiting the SEX CITY studios to talk about sexy and fun upcoming events. Dial in at 11PM ET on 89.5FM in the Toronto area and CIUT.FM streaming live! Erin Pim tells us about Bed Post—Toronto’s sex/sexuality variety show featuring erotic readings, real life sex stories, ask a sexpert, raunchy comedy, and stripping! Jack Lamon of Come As You Are comes back to Sex City to tell us about the return of the Toronto Erotic Arts and Crafts Fair! Fatima Mechtab of Oasis Aqualounge also returns to share with us the excitement of the …

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Sex Stories We Love: Sexy Science, Bound for Play, Pushing Porn & More!

It is that time of year again—are you ready for more lists? Well, remember, if you’re hear then you know those lists have to be about sex! People are drawn to collections of data and opinion so this week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly is a gathering of sexy facts, figures, thoughts and desires. Check out features on Challenge to the Sex Industry, Neither Mountain Nor Molehill, Sexy Science, Bound for Play, Pushing Porn and Great Sex Work Writing.

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Sex Stories We Love: New Way to Pay for Porn, Reach Out & Virtually Touch Someone, Complex Sexual Identities & More!

As 2016 draws to a close, we can always hope for change. We can watch it, make it, wish for it and applaud it. Change in the sex world can always happen. Check out these Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly to discover more about change from this past year and, perhaps, get inspired for 2017. Take a read about New Way to Pay for Porn?, Bad for the Baculum?, New and…Improved?, Reach Out and Virtually Touch Someone, Complex Sexual Identities and Beyond the Scale.

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