Sex Stories We Love: Conan Gets Caned, Public Display for Attention, Stocking Stuffer & More!

Sometimes we all need to step back, take a think and really put some thought into what we are reading and understanding when it comes to sex. Misconceptions happen! Misunderstandings aren’t unusual. And we all need to get this and be able to talk and move on. This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly explores some current confusions and preps us to be ready for more. Check out stories on Conan Gets Canned, Everybody’s Getting Good Vibrations, Public Display for Attention?, Bloody Hot Sex, Brexit Causes Sex Tech Suffering, and Stocking Stuffer.

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Sex Stories We Love: Racism V. Type, For the People, Robo-Love & More!

There are a number of conversational touchstones that can get a little too hot to handle. Politics, religion and, of course, sex! We are so divided in our beliefs and opinions of sex topics that arguments flair up all the time. This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly fans the flames by looking at stories that are embers ready to burst. Check out stories on Racism V. Type?, It Is Possible, A Snip Decision?, For The People, Robo-Love, and a Hairy Debate.

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Sex Stories We Love: Celebrating Porn Week!

That’s right folks! I’ve dubbed this Porn Week on Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly! We’ll be jumping all around the sweet, secretive, sexy, sticky, salacious, sweaty spectrum of sex cinema! Check out stories on Verisimilitude Reality, Banality in the UK, Beware the Whisperers, CNN Got HOT, Preferred But Not Necessary, and Porn, Firsthand.

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Porn, Photography and Craigslist on my latest Sex City!

I was delighted to welcome special guests to the Sex City studio to discuss porn, photography and Craigslist: Comedian Monica Hamburg discusses her upcoming show Craigslost, a hilarious adventure through some of the most bizarre Craigslist ads, which invariably means lots of odd sex Photographer Ricardo Scipio previews his upcoming latest book The Sex Goddess Project Sexuality and mental health expert Dr. David Ley shares thoughts on his upcoming new book Ethical Porn for Dicks: A Man’s Guide to Responsible Viewing Pleasure LISTEN

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Sex Stories We Love: Discovering Consent, Waiting or Wanting, Spoonful of Semen & More!

This is the awkward AF edition of Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly. Whether it be sex connection and communication between people, between communities or even on a personal level, sometimes sex is, challenging to negotiate. Check out stories on Softening on Someone Else, Helping, Hot Hands, Discovering Consent, There Goes the Neighbourhood?, Waiting or Wanting? and Spoonful of Semen.

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My next Sex City November 22! Monica Hamburg! Ricardo Scipio! Dr. David Ley!

On TUESDAY NOVEMBER 22, I’ve got some special guests SEX CITY studios at 11PM ET on 89.5FM in the Toronto area and CIUT.FM streaming live! Comedian Monica Hamburg discusses her upcoming show Craigslost, a hilarious adventure through some of the most bizarre Craigslist ads, which invariably means lots of odd sex Photographer Ricardo Scipio previews his upcoming latest book The Sex Goddess Project Sexuality and mental health expert Dr. David Ley shares thoughts on his upcoming new book Ethical Porn for Dicks: A Man’s Guide to Responsible Viewing Pleasure Tune in, 11pm – midnight on TUESDAY NOVEMBER 22 to CIUT 89.5FM in the Toronto …

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Sex Stories We Love: Paper Cut Porn, RIP Leonard Cohen, Peek-a-boo or Perv? & More!

“What turns us on?” This might be the most loaded question that sex community ever tries to answer. Who knows what turns anyone on, and can there ever be collective agreement? This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly explores the various things that turn us on. Check out stories on Motors Running, Lingerie is Revealing, Paper Cut Porn, Not a Solid Solution, RIP Leonard Cohen, and Peek-A-Boo or Perv?

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9 Tips for Playing Along the Edge of Orgasm

Sometimes we want sex that is fast and fantastic that ends in an explosion of ecstasy. Other times we want to carry the awesome feelings for as long as possible. Get close and pull back. Get right to that delicious edge… Edging is a gaining in popularity and more and more people are learning all of its intricacies. To help folks to discover the joys of edging with 9 Tips for Playing Along the Edge of Orgasm on Kinkly!

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Sex Stories We Love: Sexual Assault in VR, Consent Done Right, No Big Deal? & More!

This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly is all about how we learn about sex. Not the birds and the bees kinda stuff (although that’s always useful!), but how we find the answers to questions. It might be from community, an individual, or even from within. Before we get into this week’s selections, one great way you can learn about sex is from the growing number of sex bloggers from around the world. And you can find a great round-up in Kinkly’s list of The Top 100 Sex Blogging Superheroes of 2016! Don’t forget to go beyond that list though. …

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Love Your Radio! Sex City supports CIUT!

Sex City is proud to support CIUT—our gracious hosts on community radio—in The Sound of Your City Membership Drive on TUESDAY NOVEMBER 15! We’ll be announcing some special guests who will be coming into the studio that night to tell you all about the worlds of sex, sexuality and gender and how we love sharing their stories on community radio. Become a member now! And remember, Sex City is not just about Toronto. Our “city” is the world! We feature guests from all over this sexy globe. Thank you for your support!

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7 Tips for Having Anal Sex That Doesn’t Hurt

One of the most common reasons people have for not trying anal sex is that they thing it will hurt. Worse yet, many people try anal sex and find out it does hurt. But it doesn’t have to. There are many ways to ease or entirely prevent the discomfort that can occur while pursuing anal pleasure. Check out these 7 Tips for Having Anal Sex That Doesn’t Hurt and see if any might work for you!

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Sex Stories We Love: Please Dump Trump, Sex Ed Sham, Fantasy Fallout & More!

You take the good, you take the bad, you take them both and there you have The facts of life, the facts of life. Most of the time here on Kinkly’s Sex Stories We Love we talk about people and events that are making a positive effect on our sex communities. But, we all know life isn’t always roses and orgasms. There are plenty of stories, people and situations we’re bound to get frustrated with. Check out stories on Please Dump Trump, Popping Prop 60, Sex Ed Sham, Uber-Awful, Needing Space and Fantasy Fallout.

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Buck Off: The First Mass-produced Sex Toy for Trans Men

It was my pleasure to learn about the world’s first mass-produced sex toy for trans men from the man who made this little dream machine come true—Buck Angel! And because he is the man behind this revolutionary sex product, it makes perfect sense for it to be called the Buck Off! Learn more about this exciting development is sex tech in my latest on Future of Sex— Buck Off: The First Mass-produced Sex Toy for Trans Men

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Awesome Sex City featuring Sasha Grey, Cleis Press and Jerome Stuart Nichols!

It was a great pleasure to welcome three amazing guests to my latest Sex City. And I got to talk about three of my favourite subjects: erotica, publishing and lube! Check out this edition of Sex City when I talked to: Sasha Grey was one of the most beloved porn performers in the world. Since moving on from the world in front of the cameras, she’s embarked on many projects, including her much-lauded erotica series The Juliette Society. She joins us to discuss the recently released second volume The Janus Chamber. Jarred Weisfeld is the president of Start Publishing and …

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Sex Stories We Love: Wake Me Up to Go-Go, Skirting Stereotypes, Traveling with Toys & More!

This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly is brought to you by the letter ‘V.’ Of course it stands for ‘Variety.’ What were you thinking? Lots of different stories came our way to create a wonderful stew of sex news! Check out stories on Wake Me Up to Go-Go, VR Future View, Who Am I?, The Trick is to Keep Breathing, Skirting Stereotypes and Traveling with Toys.

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Sex Stories We Love: Who Is a Sex Educator?, A Word to Live By, See Yourself & More!

As in any relationship, there is bound to be conflict. Regardless of whether we have a shared interest in sex and community, we remain individuals with ideas. This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly explores some of the current issues that are confronting the sex community—from within and without. Check out stories on Who is a Sex Educator?, Oh Snap!, Tick-eted Off, A Word to Live By, See Yourself and Remember―Life’s a Gas.

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My next Sex City—October 18—Sasha Grey! Jarred Weisfeld! Jerome Stuart Nichols!

On TUESDAY October 18, I’ve got some special guests SEX CITY studios at 11PM ET on 89.5FM in the Toronto area and CIUT.FM streaming live! Sasha Grey was one of the most beloved porn performers in the world. Since moving on from the world in front of the cameras, she’s embarked on many projects, including her much-lauded erotica series The Juliette Society. She joins us to discuss the recently released second volume The Janus Chamber. Jarred Weisfeld is the president of Start Publishing and Cleis Press. They have recently encountered issues with finding a company to print The Sex Toy Coloring Book. Jerome Stuart Nichols is well-known for …

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