Nov 14

9 Tips for Playing Along the Edge of Orgasm

Sometimes we want sex that is fast and fantastic that ends in an explosion of ecstasy. Other times we want to carry the awesome feelings for as long as possible. Get close and pull back. Get right to that delicious edge…

Edging is a gaining in popularity and more and more people are learning all of its intricacies. To help folks to discover the joys of edging with 9 Tips for Playing Along the Edge of Orgasm on Kinkly!

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Nov 12

The Future of Male Birth Control Is Near—My latest on Future of Sex!

There has been a lot of talk about the development of male contraceptives. And it has been quite a controversy. However, there are other research teams brewing up alternatives that might suggest a different path for this white whale of sexual health. And they might involve an unusual orifice.

Check out The Future of Male Birth Control Is Near on Future of Sex

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Nov 02

Sex Stories We Love: Sexual Assault in VR, Consent Done Right, No Big Deal? & More!

This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly is all about how we learn about sex. Not the birds and the bees kinda stuff (although that’s always useful!), but how we find the answers to questions. It might be from community, an individual, or even from within.

Before we get into this week’s selections, one great way you can learn about sex is from the growing number of sex bloggers from around the world. And you can find a great round-up in Kinkly’s list of The Top 100 Sex Blogging Superheroes of 2016! Don’t forget to go beyond that list though. Kinkly also maintains a directory of sex bloggers almost 400 deep. Always great reading!

And here’s this week’s list of Sex Stories We Love! Check out stories on  Sexual Assault in VR, The More You Know About More, An Important Journey, Consent Done Right, No Big Deal, Bachelor, Who?

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Oct 31

Love Your Radio! Sex City supports CIUT!

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Sex City is proud to support CIUT—our gracious hosts on community radio—in The Sound of Your City Membership Drive on TUESDAY NOVEMBER 15!

We’ll be announcing some special guests who will be coming into the studio that night to tell you all about the worlds of sex, sexuality and gender and how we love sharing their stories on community radio.

Become a member now! And remember, Sex City is not just about Toronto. Our “city” is the world! We feature guests from all over this sexy globe.

Thank you for your support!

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Oct 26

7 Tips for Having Anal Sex That Doesn’t Hurt

One of the most common reasons people have for not trying anal sex is that they thing it will hurt. Worse yet, many people try anal sex and find out it does hurt.

But it doesn’t have to. There are many ways to ease or entirely prevent the discomfort that can occur while pursuing anal pleasure.

Check out these 7 Tips for Having Anal Sex That Doesn’t Hurt and see if any might work for you!

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Oct 26

Sex Stories We Love: Please Dump Trump, Sex Ed Sham, Fantasy Fallout & More!

You take the good, you take the bad,
you take them both and there you have
The facts of life, the facts of life.

Most of the time here on Kinkly’s Sex Stories We Love we talk about people and events that are making a positive effect on our sex communities. But, we all know life isn’t always roses and orgasms. There are plenty of stories, people and situations we’re bound to get frustrated with.

Check out stories on Please Dump Trump, Popping Prop 60, Sex Ed Sham, Uber-Awful, Needing Space and Fantasy Fallout.

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Oct 20

Buck Off: The First Mass-produced Sex Toy for Trans Men

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It was my pleasure to learn about the world’s first mass-produced sex toy for trans men from the man who made this little dream machine come true—Buck Angel! And because he is the man behind this revolutionary sex product, it makes perfect sense for it to be called the Buck Off!

Learn more about this exciting development is sex tech in my latest on Future of Sex—
Buck Off: The First Mass-produced Sex Toy for Trans Men

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Oct 20

Awesome Sex City featuring Sasha Grey, Cleis Press and Jerome Stuart Nichols!

It was a great pleasure to welcome three amazing guests to my latest Sex City. And I got to talk about three of my favourite subjects: erotica, publishing and lube!

Check out this edition of Sex City when I talked to:

  • Sasha Grey was one of the most beloved porn performers in the world. Since moving on from the world in front of the cameras, she’s embarked on many projects, including her much-lauded erotica series The Juliette Society. She joins us to discuss the recently released second volume The Janus Chamber.
  • Jarred Weisfeld is the president of Start Publishing and Cleis Press. They have recently encountered issues with finding a company to printThe Sex Toy Coloring Book.
  • Jerome Stuart Nichols is well-known for is amazing blog LTASEX. He is now branching out to another realm of sex education by creating The Butters—a fantastic lubricating moisturizer!
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Oct 19

Sex Stories We Love: Wake Me Up to Go-Go, Skirting Stereotypes, Traveling with Toys & More!

This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly is brought to you by the letter ‘V.’ Of course it stands for ‘Variety.’ What were you thinking? Lots of different stories came our way to create a wonderful stew of sex news!

Check out stories on Wake Me Up to Go-Go, VR Future View, Who Am I?, The Trick is to Keep Breathing, Skirting Stereotypes and Traveling with Toys.

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Oct 12

Sex Stories We Love: Who Is a Sex Educator?, A Word to Live By, See Yourself & More!

As in any relationship, there is bound to be conflict. Regardless of whether we have a shared interest in sex and community, we remain individuals with ideas. This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly explores some of the current issues that are confronting the sex community—from within and without.

Check out stories on Who is a Sex Educator?, Oh Snap!, Tick-eted Off, A Word to Live By, See Yourself and Remember―Life’s a Gas.

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Oct 09

My next Sex City—October 18—Sasha Grey! Jarred Weisfeld! Jerome Stuart Nichols!

  • Sasha Grey was one of the most beloved porn performers in the world. Since moving on from the world in front of the cameras, she’s embarked on many projects, including her much-lauded erotica series The Juliette Society. She joins us to discuss the recently released second volume The Janus Chamber.
  • Jarred Weisfeld is the president of Start Publishing and Cleis Press. They have recently encountered issues with finding a company to print The Sex Toy Coloring Book.
  • Jerome Stuart Nichols is well-known for is amazing blog LTASEX. He is now branching out to another realm of sex education by creating The Butters—a fantastic lubricating moisturizer!

Tune in, 11pm – midnight on TUESDAY OCTOBER 18 to CIUT 89.5FM in the Toronto area or stream live online!

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Oct 05

Sex Stories We Love: Cougar Conundrum, If I Were Rich & Intergalactic Prophylactic

Is our sexual world getting a little more mature? I think so and was lucky to find a few examples for this week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly. However, I have to admit that the word “boning” shows up…so…there’s still room to grow.

Check out stories on Porn Growing Up, Cougar Conundrum, Spank State, Shifting Statutes, If I Were A Rich Fucker and Intergalactic Prophylactic.

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Sep 28

Sex Stories We Love: Watching and Wondering, Racial Equality in Porn, Creative Condoms & More!

I really wanted to make the intro to this week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly something along the lines of “Opinions are like assholes, everybody’s got one.” But, that seemed a wee bit crass.

To understand why, check out stories on: Watching and Wondering, Racial Equality in Porn, Breast Play 101, Creative Condoms, Porn Pay Fallacy and Game On.

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Sep 21

Fantastic Sex City with Nicole Prause, Phillip Coupal and Fatima from Oasis!

It was a pleasure to feature the following guests on my latest Sex City!

Check out this edition of Sex City and learn about sex research, sexual bodywork and the latest from Oasis Aqualounge!

  • Dr. Nicole Prause is a neuroscientist researching human sexual behaviour, addiction, and the physiology of sexual response and the founder of Liberos LLC, an independent research institute. She will talk to us about the difficulties sex researchers face.
  • Phillip Coupal is a traditional Counsellor in bodywork who helps individuals and couples at theAwaken Studio in Toronto.
  • Fatima Mechtab from Oasis Aqualounge joins us again to highlight the amazing event coming up at Oasis as we move into autumn.
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Sep 14

Sex Stories We Love: Trans Youth & Pregnancy, the Sweetest Candy, Sexy & Heart Smart & More!

There is so much opportunity out there to discover what sex is for different people, what it does for different people, what it means to different people…how we can learn from all of this.

In this week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly, check out stories on Trans Youth and Pregnancy, The Sweetest Candy, Written on the Body, Circumspect? and Sexy and Heart Smart.

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Sep 07

Sex Stories We Love: A Terrible Week, Dressing Up, Erotic Emoji & More!

Folks, there’s no way around it: Last week sucked in sex news. A whole bunch of shitty things happened and it was disheartening. However, out of that poop-pile of a week, more resistance, more backlash more desire to change was shown. And this proves were on the right path for sex.

This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly rounds up the bad but moves on to things that are good.

Check out stories on A Terrible Week, Dressing Up, Hump Day Bumps, Erotic Emojis, Name is Not a Game and Carnal Canvasses.

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Sep 05

My Next Sex City—Sept 20! With Nicole Prause! Phillip Coupal! Fatima Mechtab!

  • Dr. Nicole Prause is a neuroscientist researching human sexual behaviour, addiction, and the physiology of sexual response and the founder of Liberos LLC, an independent research institute. She will talk to us about the difficulties sex researchers face.
  • Phillip Coupal is a traditional Counsellor in bodywork who helps individuals and couples at the Awaken Studio in Toronto.
  • Fatima Mechtab from Oasis Aqualounge joins us again to highlight the amazing event coming up at Oasis as we move into autumn.

Tune in, 11pm – midnight on TUESDAY SEPTEMBER 20 to CIUT 89.5FM in the Toronto area or stream live online!

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