Sex Stories We Love: Hot and Not, STDiscussion, Man of Steel & More!

One of the most important factors that improves our understanding of sex, sexuality and gender is establishing visibility. It might be literal or figurative, but this week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly show that making issues known will always make forward movement possible. Check out stories on Hot and Not, Transition of Understanding, STDiscussion, Sex and Parenting 101, Man of Steel and Furry Fallout.

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Toronto International Porn Festival this week!

Toronto International Porn Festival—this week! From April 20 to 23, 2017, this 4-day festival dedicated to adult film will empower, celebrate, and offer a platform for people of all genders, sexualities, bodies and pleasures to discover progressive and positive erotic films.   The Best of the Last Decade: Toronto International P*rn Festival Review. Thursday April 20 9:30pm at the Hot Docs Ted Rogers Cinema 506 Bloor St W. Toronto The finest films from the first ten years of the Feminist P*rn Awards. A specially curated selection of our favorite films submitted to the FPAs from 2006-2015. Public.Provocative.P*rn. Friday April 21 …

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My Next Sex City—April 11—Sexy Archives! Carolyn Yates! Kevin Moroso!

This month on Sex City, we explore the many words of sex! On TUESDAY APRIL 11, we explore sex through the written word, how it is conveyed and who keeps track of our valuable resources. Dial in at 11PM ET on 89.5FM in the Toronto area and CIUT.FM streaming live! I will be joined by Richard Provencher, Head, Media Relations, Communications Branch of Library and Archives Canada to discuss their vast collection of sex-related publications Carolyn Yates, NSFW and Literary Editor at Autostraddle as well as a freelance writer who recently published the very interesting essay “Being Kinky Doesn’t Make You Queer” …

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Sex Stories We Love: Beware – Con Condoms, Reinventing Sex Ed, Freeing Pleasure & More!

This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly focuses on sex ed. Again. Why? But it really needs to improve and I’m going to write on it frequently until it does! Part of this sex ed focus is going to be contributing to STD Awareness Month throughout April. It would be great if there were no more stigma about STDs and STIs, and that is only going to come with better sex ed. Check out stories on Beware – Con Condoms!, Learning New Language, Reinventing Sex Ed, Freeing Pleasure, Never Stop Learning, and Icon Lives On.

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Sex Stories We Love: A Bold Statement, Price of Beauty, Sounds of Pain & More!

There are lots of common sexual dilemmas that we deal with. And then there are the extraordinary situations! This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly looks at some aspects of the world of sex that not everybody will encounter…but maybe they will have some resonance with you. Check out stories on A Bold Statement, Prison Sex or Food, Price of Beauty, Too Much Time Spent on This, Hug a Therapist, Sounds of Pain.

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Sex Stories We Love: The New Submission, All Work & No Play, & Sex and Death

Sex is part of the world around us and the world within us. So many factors influence our ability to pursue and enjoy pleasure. Some we can control, some we cannot. This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly consider just some of these influences and how they might fit into your world. Check out stories in The New Submissions, More Than A Liplock, Reconciling Fantasy, All Work & No Play, Sex & Death, and Grey Matter.

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Sex City—March 14—Guest Host Tynan Rhea! With Tracy Tief, Tumaina, Isabel Nantaba

I’m taking this month of Sex City, but we have a fantastic guest host you’re quite familiar with—Tynan Rhea! On TUESDAY MARCH 14, Tynan welcomes some great guests to discuss holistic sexual health. Dial in at 11PM ET on 89.5FM in the Toronto area and CIUT.FM streaming live! Tynan will be joined by Tracey Tief of Anarres Apothecary to talk about holistic sexual health, Tumaina of Tuly Maimouna and Isabel Nantaba, the community health worker at Womens Health In Womens Hands to talk about holistic approaches to reducing STI STIGMA. Tune in, 11pm – midnight on TUESDAY MARCH 14 to CIUT 89.5FM in …

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Sex Stories We Love: Another Consent Collapse, Poly Mono Divide, Penis Party & More!

It is impossible to avoid awkward, uncomfortable and sometimes maddening situations when you’re dealing with sex. That is inevitable. However, how we and society-at-large deal with these situations is key. This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly explores some good ways…and some bad. Check out stories on Another Consent Collapse, What’s a Friend For, Poly Mono Divide, Just Like Any Other Illness, Penis Party, Footie Fun.

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Sex Stories We Love: Eye of the Beholder, Turnabout Is Fair Play, Ice Ice Baby & More!

Life is full of cautionary tales that we should all heed. Of course, sex is definitely included in that. This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly is all about taking what we can from the sex triumphs and travails of our friends and fellow sex explorers. Check out stories on Eye of the Beholder, Flared Base, Folks, No Vagina? Stop Inventing Products for Them, Turnabout is Fair Play, Music to Our Ears, and Ice Ice Baby?

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Opening the Floodgates: Now We Can Talk About Watersports

Sometimes taboo sexual subjects seep into the public realm and become acceptable slowly and carefully. And sometimes somebody turns on a garden hose and stands in the yard waving it around wildly. This is not to say that watersports are a wholly accepted part of everybody sexual repertoire, but when reports of Donald Trump’s supposed interest became international news, sexy pee play was certainly a topic open for discussion. With valuable input from my friend Luna Matatas, I explore the wet and wild potential of bringing piss play into your sex life in Opening the Floodgates: Now We Can Talk About Watersports—my …

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Sex Stories We Love: Rape Culture Persists, Hard Day’s Night, Magical Masturbation & More!

This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly can be best summarized by the phrase “don’t let your guard down.” For sure, there are lots of amazing things about meeting people and having sex, but there are also many cautionary tales to be told. Check out stories on Rape Culture Persists, Hard Day’s Night, Mama Said…, Dressed To Thrill, Thinking Straight on Sexuality, and Magical Masturbation.

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The Dreamy Desire Review: We-Vibe, Touch and More—My latest on Future of Sex!

Some sex product companies just get it. Ever since the first We-Vibe was introduced, Standard Innovation Corporation has continued to bring out high quality, easy to use sex toys that get the sexy job done! I reviewed their Dreamy Desire Collection for Future of Sex and it was definitely one of the easiest product round-ups I’ve ever done. And if you’re looking for a last minute Valentine’s Day gift, here’s a great one!

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My Next SEX CITY—FEB 14—Tynan Rhea! Kelsey Obsession! Alex S. Morgan!

On TUESDAY FEBRUARY 14, I’ve got some special guests visiting the SEX CITY studios to talk about sex and parenting, diverse porn and making room for sex. Dial in at 11PM ET on 89.5FM in the Toronto area and CIUT.FM streaming live! Tynan Rhea comes back to Sex City to share ideas around sex and pregnancy and parenthood Performer and sex educator Kelsey Obsession talks to us about the very diverse world of porn and her place in it Alex S. Morgan helps people explore and reclaim their sexuality and will share some thoughts on how we can prioritize sex in difficult times …

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Sex Stories We Love: 1 in 5, Pink Pill Faux Pas, Understanding Consent & More!

This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly features many discussions about women’s bodies. Why there are so many discussions about women’s bodies involving people who aren’t women, I don’t really know. I weigh in, but pleasure ensure you read the linked stories to hear from women themselves for a true understanding. Check out stories on 1 in 5, Pink Pill Faux Pas, Understanding Consent, The Other Women and Porn Debate, Take a Look Around, All in Favour.

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