All Hail, The Magic Wand!

The following statement may be debatable, but I’m going to say it anyway: The Hitachi Magic Wand is the most iconic sex toy—ever. And that is saying a lot because we’ve seen some pretty damn spectacular sex toys come and go and make us come again.  All around the world, this simple neck massager has eventually made its way south. People heard about this magnificent toy and had to have it. Because it is a plug-in product, this hasn’t always been easy. Different voltage has made it challenging to get the Hitachi Magic Wand in the UK and other places. …

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Sex Stories We Love: COVID-19 and Sex, Sexual Health on Campus, & Phallic Fitness

Health and illness is something everyone talks about these days. So it is only natural that this week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly looks at the different ways sex intersects with our bodies and wellness. Check out stories on COVID-19 and Sex, Sexual Health on Campus, Sex and Anxiety, More Research Needed, Opening Up about FSD, and Phallic Fitness.

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Sex Stories We Love: From Awful to Awesome, Sexy Cinema Enigma, & Finding Fetish

Sex blogs rock my whole damn world. I happened on a few great posts and knew this week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly had to focus on the fine folks who bring us the best blogs. Make sure you’re clicking and supporting your favourite sex blogs, because they’re certainly putting out for everyone of us (put maybe, definitely intended)! Check out stories on From Awful to Awesome, Sexy Cinema Enigma, Let’s Get Real…istic, Pleasure Through Denial, Straight-up Sex Talk and Finding Fetish.

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Sex Stories We Love: With a Little Help from My Friends, Honour for All, & Be Good to Yourself

It is too easy to hear and see and read stories that portray sex negatively. Let’s look at the good instead! Sex can be such a great thing, but the horror stories always seem to get more play. We’ve been drowning in dissonance for too long. This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly is bursting at the seams with sex tales to warm the cockles of our hearts. Check out stories on With a Little Help from My Friends, Reconnect and Reignite, Honour for All, The Value of Mentorship, Be Good to Yourself, and Changing Priorities of Sex.

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My First Sex Toy: Reflections from the Sex Community

Do you remember your first sex toy? Do you remember how you acquired it? How was the experience—both buying and later playing? We asked folks from the sex community to share the stories of their first sex toy. Their memories are both cautionary tales and inspiring. We can learn so much from their experiences that will hopefully inform your sex toy purchases. Check out My First Sex Toy: Reflections from the Sex Community on Kinkly!

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What Makes a Good Couples’ Sex Toy?

What is your first thought of “a sex toy in use?” Did you immediately picture a hot, solo session? In reality, sex toys don’t have to just be solo-specific—they can be a tremendous addition to many couples’ sexy-times! Check out these five factors that make your couple’s toy experiences great! Check out What Makes a Good Couples’ Sex Toy? on Kinkly!

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Finding Your Favourite Sex Shops

Sex shops are some of my favourite places. I mean, that might be completely obvious, given the nature of my writing, but there’s more to it than that. Sex shops are a true reflection on where and how sex fits into our current culture.  These days, we’re lucky. Sex shops have established themselves as an integral part of our sex lives. People are seeking out where to buy their sexytime toys and supplies and have come to trust the knowledge of staff and quality of products that great sex stores carry. Sure, you could buy online for the convenience, but …

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Sex Stories We Love: You Are What You Eat, Doubling Up, & Complexities of Public Sex

Sex is the great spice rack of life. So many flavours…so many combinations! This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly explores some different desires, from fantasy to fetish, and offers a little taste of our complex sexual world. Check out stories on Mapping Fetish, You Are What You Eat, Turned on By Twins?, Doubling Up, Complexities of Public Sex, and Lights On or Off?

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Sex Stories We Love: The Struggles Surrounding Sex & Disabilities

For far too long, folks with disabilities have been left out of the wide, amazing world of sex. This has got to change. This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly looks at some of the struggles sexy people with disabilities contend with and some of the actions needed to move forward. Check out stories on Carnal Closed Captions, Recommended Sex Toys, Sharing Voices, Sex Ed Equality, Sex and Mental Health and Isaac’s Importance.

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Sex Stories We Love: As the Dating World Turns

Ahhhh, dating. That time-honoured tradition of puttin’ on a brand new shirt, shining up those old brown shoes in the hopes of finding sex, a relationship, or possibly both. This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly looks at the constantly changing world of dating. Check out stories on Language of Dating, Fuck You, Clippy!, Try Being Honest, Opening Up, Dating in Later Life, and Drop These Moves.

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Sex Stories We Love: Cringe Worthy Sex Stories

Sometimes ya gotta laugh…or grimace…or frown. Sex can definitely be cringe worthy. This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly offers up some of the more cringe-worthy stories out there…because it happen to all of us at some point. Check out stories on Smells Like…, Home Remedies No-No…NO, Pronouns Matter, Broken Records…Broken Beds?, Hold On Tight and Hairy Situation.

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Sex Stories We Love: All Fired Up, Freedom of Speech Challenges, & But…Does It Rhyme?

There has never been a time in history when we can all be so easily connected. Different forms of media can offer so much, particularly when it comes to sex. This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly checks on how sex is being offered by different media forms. Check out stories on All Fired Up, Too Casual with Language?, Freedom of Speech Challenges, Experience Through the Lens, Making Quite a Scene, and But…Does it Rhyme?

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Sex Toy Review: G Spot Clitoral Sucking Vibrator

Another winner from Tracy’s Dog! The G Spot Clitoral Sucking Vibrator with 10 Suction & Vibration Patterns, Rechargeable Clit Stimulator with 10 Pulsating Modes, Silicone Sex Toys for Women and Couples is a fantastic combination vibrator, wand vibrator, clitoral sucker and G-spot stimulator all in one! This toy gives you so many options for pleasure, offering different sensations to suit your mood. Variety is the sexy spice of life! By bringing together so many different options for stimulation, this toy can really offer something to most everyone. Both ends, the G-spot vibrator and the want head, vibrator and feature their …

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Sex Stories We Love: 2019 Goes Out with a Bang!

We’re finally at the end of 2019 and for some, it has been a good for. For others, not so much. This last edition of Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly winds down the year that was and sets us on a path into 2020, a new year and a new decade! Check out stories on 2019 Goes Out With a Bang, Delightful Diaries, Squishy and Sexy, Now That’s a Workout!, Helping and Hurting Trans People, and New Year, New Listens.

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Sex Stories We Love: Sex Etiquette Advice

Now, now, we must mind our sex manners…or you might just get a spanking! Okay, okay…maybe you’ll get something you don’t want! This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly offers some friendly advice on sex etiquette. Check out stories on Sock on the Door, Titillating Travel, Have Towel, Will Travel, After Sex Consideration, Say What?!?, and Cleanliness is Next To Sexiness.

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Sex Stories We Love: Sexy and in Shape, Sensual Surprises, & Plugged In

Our bodies can move and twist and bend and contort into so many amazing shapes when we’re motivated by the delicious desires of sex. This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly pulls you into every which way and up with a deep dive into sex positions. Check out stories on Sexy and in Shape, Does 69 Add Up?, Sensual Surprises, Period Pleasure Potential?, Grab What You Can!, and Plugged In.

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Sex Stories We Love: Doctor’s Orders, Sex Shops Ain’t Sleazy, & Pets on the Naughty List

It’s been a spell since the Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly space was devoted to sex toys. There’s so much to catch up on! Check out stories on Significance of Sex Toys, Doctor’s Orders!, Sex Shops Ain’t Sleazy, Osé Unleased, Remembering Sex is Funny!, and Pets on the Naughty List.

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