Earning Your Red Wings: Period Sex

It is really great to see such an enthusiastic article on the topic of period sex. It is one of those things that never really gets talked about, or if it is mentioned, it is immediately negative and stigmatized. But really, what does period sex come down to: yes or no. And that yes or no comes from the woman who is menstruating. If she is into it, why not? If you get into it too, then all the better. Personally speaking, it is neither a significant turn-on nor a turn-off. To me it is still just sex. We just …

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Visiting a Sexological Bodyworker

I love Krissy Eliot’s account of visiting a sexological bodyworker! In this case, it is one of my heroes, Dr. Charlie Glickman, and a topic close to my heart—anal sex. I recently contributed a chapter about anal sex to a soon-to-be released book called Secrets of the Sex Masters. In it, my editors and I spent a lot of time considering the idea that anal can be painful, and that is likely due to inexperience and ineptness on the part of the person touching your ass. And this is where sexological bodyworkers can help. Not just with anal sex, but with …

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The Hook-up: Mr. Will’s House of Thrills

Introducing Mr. Will’s House of Thrills I was already familiar with Will’s truly thrilling (web) house when I requested his help with an article on male sex bloggers. His insights were invaluable—just as his perspective on his site is. I greatly appreciate his presence in the world of sex blogging. How did you get into sex blogging? One hundred percent honest here? I wanted a Fleshlight, and I saw a link on Tumblr talking about a program with Eden Fantasys that gave toys to reviewers. I started with a few reviews, and before long I was getting positive attention. A …

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Time To Soften Laws on Public Sex

I grew up in a time that included numerous high-profile busts of men cruising. Many men were arrested and outed in Niagara for engaging in sex in two malls, news that, allegedly, made it all the way to The Tonight Show. This was so unnecessarily damaging. I still do think that some discretion of time and place needs to be considered, but I think it is key to a positive movement forward for sexuality to come to understand that some people need to have sex in public spaces and some people just want to.

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Call for Entries INTERNATIONAL SEX POSITIVE PORN COMPETITION

SEND US YOUR PORN! INTERNATIONAL SEX POSITIVE PORN COMPETITION Call for Entries ENGLISH La Fête du Slip as a festival celebrating diversity in bodies, genders, and sexualities wishes to promote and reward the best of the burgeoning sex positive porn scene internationally. We believe in the words of Annie Sprinkle: “The answer to bad porn isn’t no porn…it’s to try and make better porn!” And we want to contribute to celebrating the most creative, innovative and subversive porn out there. La Fête du Slip is proud to announce we are launching our very own INTERNATIONAL SEX POSITIVE PORN COMPETITION, as a …

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Elust #62: The Best from Sex Bloggers

Photo courtesy of Bawdy Bloke Welcome to Elust #62 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #63? Start with the rules, come back October1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Sex Blogger Life: Real Talk Selfies, Shame and Safety ‘Dress me like a slut and punish my cock’ ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) …

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Fetish Friday, Arabian Nights belly dancing and workshop, and FUNday Sunday

Fetish Friday, Arabian Nights belly dancing and workshop, and FUNday Sunday Action Packed Autumn This Week’s Hot & Heavy Events Plan Your Visit: For couples & women only: Thursday September 18 – First Taste Friday September 19 – Fetish Friday Saturday September 20 – Arabian Nights Cafe Desire Takeover Sunday September 21 – Staycation Sundays (Daytime) For single men, couples & women: Tuesday’s Hot Ticket : September 16 – Daytime Fun & CFNM (Clothed Female Naked Male) Wednesday September 17 – Hot Springs Featuring Oasis Calendar Teaser & Sybian Night Sunday September 21 – Genesis Fetish Party (Evening) Monday September 22 – …

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The Hook-up: Of Sex and Love

Introducing Of Sex and Love I love how Adriana qualifies her blog as being “of sex and love…but mostly sex.” She opens up about her own life while at the same time providing writing great reviews and articles. No qualifiers there! How did you get into sex blogging?I specifically wanted to get into trying more sex toys and reviewing, and there was a few programs that popped up with a simple Google search. It was a no-brainer to set up my own blog—I have plenty of other ones—and new projects are super exciting. At the time, sex positivity wasn’t something …

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