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I am still thinking about bullying because of that brilliant video. But my thoughts have moved on to the idea of sexual bullying. To be clear, I am not referring to sexual abuse or coercion here—those are two other real and tragic issues. Instead I am thinking about reactions to sexual otherness. Being a sexual other means to be someone who has sex differently from standard heterosexual sex. Which, depending who you talk, to could be anything from oral sex to puppy play. Because there is so much variation in sexual taste and acceptance, and it is fluid, sexual bully …

Please watch this. It is astonishing, brilliant, beautiful and tearjerking.

I had no idea who Herbie Mann was when Jeanette showed me the cover of his seminal work. And I’m not about to say I’m a fan of his music now (jazz flute just isn’t my thing), but I do find the cover of that 1972 album to be utterly fascinating.So do others. Check out this great post about the Push Push cover. I was lucky to participate in it.And just look at it! What does it say to you? What reaction do you have?

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Now, this study is comprehensive. Kudos to Jon Millward for the amount of research put in.I’m still working through it all.

This is great and rather appropriate given my other posts today.I like Girls. Well, I sort of like Girls. What Lena Dunham is pretty fantastic and I commend her, but I sometimes have a hard time watching the show because I find most of the characters entirely unlikable. But I digress. That there would be debate over the potential of a Dunham/Wilson hook-up should look no further than another popular show: Modern Family. The pairing of Ed O’Neill and Sophia Vergera is questioned, but only mildly. Why? Because less conventionally attractive men are coupled with bombshells all the time in …

Daily Sex Discussion #101 Are you a romantic? Reply with your response to #dailysexdiscussion

Might intimacy be the true Holy Grail of human relations? Is it our destiny to be forever chasing something to elusive?Okay, it isn’t that dramatic. Many lucky folks have found lasting and loving connections…so why hasn’t everyone else? I really like this basic understanding of different needs when it comes to intimacy. I do feel it is a little too gendered though. I’ll put it out there that a man breaking down and crying could actually be more significant a step for a couple given the mentioned reticence toward visible emotional displays by guyd. That is, of course, highly situational.

I can be pretty damn cavalier when it comes to giving advice about body issue, especially considering the privilege of my male body. I am a moderately short, moderately pudgy, formerly pierced and mohawked punk. Because of all of this I am just one big FUCK YOU to anyone who doesn’t approve of how I look.I wish everyone could be like that…but I do recognize our different needs. However, ladies, if the person you’re fucking can’t handle some flab and some boob sag, then you shouldn’t try to hide it, you should question why it is you’re fucking that unappreciative …

I really want to enjoy this piece by Lori Day. She makes compelling and relevant points about the state of attraction, in this instance, via online dating sites. Indeed, I fully agree with her that if the majority of men on these sites are seeking only much younger women, then, societally, we have an issue. And I also agree that the reverse—Cougarism—is still deeply frowned upon and mocked. A double-standard wrapped in a grossness tied up in a knot of patriarchy.However, she loses me by not recognizing that taste and preference need to be acknowledged.What lead to this piece being …

Daily Sex Discussion #100Are you into rimming—giving or receiving?Reply with your response to #dailysexdiscussion

Call for Submissions Love, Lust and ZombiesEditor: Mitzi SzeretoPublisher: Cleis PressDeadline: Feb 10, 2013 May 1, 2014Payment: In the range of USD $50-70 (payable on publication) and 2 copies of the anthology A trade paperback to be published by Cleis Press, USAPublication date: Autumn 2014 Let’s face it: zombies are hot, and baby, they’re getting hotter. Although not the most traditional of sex symbols, zombies are truly coming into their own, even landing on the silver screen in romantic roles, not to mention ambling and shambling across the pages of novels and television screens. Gone are those one-dimensional gut-munching characters …

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Daily Sex Discussion #99 Have you ever had sexual thoughts about your current best friend?  Reply with your response to #dailysexdiscussion

Call for Submissions The Darker Edge of DesireEditor: Mitzi SzeretoPublisher: Cleis PressDeadline: March 15, 2013 April 1, 2013Payment: In the range of USD $50-70 (payable on publication) and 2 copies of the anthology A trade paperback to be published by Cleis Press, USAPublication date: Spring 2014 Gothic literature has always possessed a dark attraction ripe with the promise of the forbidden and the sensual. This theme has been successfully explored in my anthology Red Velvet and Absinthe, but with a far gentler touch. In The Darker Edge of Desire, I will take the sexualized Gothic and ratchet it up a …

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Daily Sex Discussion #98 Do you like to watch sexual partners masturbate? Reply with your response to #dailysexdiscussion