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James Brown sang about a sex machine and it was commonly assumed that was a person. Right now, after many goes with the Vorze Cyclone…I think James was predicting the future. THIS is the sex machine for people with penises. Get on the scene with this sex machine! Check out all of my thoughts on the Vorze Cyclone in my latest review for Future of Sex!

Sex Writing

Seven Deadly Sex Sins: Envy

May 30, 2016

The craving for more and better is pretty ingrained in our world—even our sex lives. This month’s addition to the Seven Deadly Sex Sins series on Cara Sutra explores sexual envy. Do you crave the people you see other folks having fun with? Does the thought of your lover’s past partners drive you to distraction? Check out Is the Ass Greener on the Other Side? Past posts in the series Greed: All the Want, All the Time Sloth: Have Great Sex…When You Get Around To It Gluttony: Is Your Bed Too Big? LUST: Between a Crotch and a Hard Place

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Sex News! I love it! May 29, 2016

May 29, 2016

Five Knuckles, Shuffled Sex Stories We Love: Never Too Late, Helping Statements, & Something New 5 Things To Know About Porn For Women Women like to have sex too, so deal with it Media Coverage Of Sex Workers Erases Our Voices Study: Best of your sex life begins at 40! 3 Reasons Why Passions Fades & What We Can Do About It, According To Science — VIDEO The Aggressively Erotic Art of Apollonia Saintclair How Will Millennials Pay for Sex? THE RISE OF THE CANNASEXUAL IN AMERICA Sex Toys For Men That Don’t Suck This New App Makes Sex Ed …

Sex Writing

Five Knuckles, Shuffled—My latest on Kinkly for #MasturbationMonth

May 26, 2016

I’m not going to say this is a big problem, but it certainly posed a challenge! What do you do when technology changes a fundamental pattern of routine? What do you do when you don’t know what hand to masturbate with? Check out my latest, Five Knuckles, Shuffled—a self-love dilemma—on Kinkly in celebration of Masturbation Month!

Sex Stories We Love

Sex Stories We Love: Never Too Late, Helping Statements, & Something New

May 25, 2016

One last tug at Masturbation Month with this week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly! My fingers have been happily flying across the keyboard throughout May looking for stories to share about self-pleasure, and it was nice to see there were so many! Great job folks! Let’s keep it up all through the year! Check out this week’s stories on Survey Says…, Language, Please!, Never Too Late, Helping Statements, and Something New.

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Sex News! I love it! May 22, 2016

May 22, 2016May 22, 2016

Sex Stories We Love: Recognizing Magic, Own Your Own, & Masturbation Menage The fascinating history of how courtship became ‘dating’ A Recipe For Better Sex Inside the Greatest X-Rated Animated Film You’ve Never Heard Of The Jar of Melted Sex Toys – Where Are They Now? 5 Tips for Reaching Orgasm 10 Fascinating Movies About The Porn Industry Man Receives First Penis Transplant in the United States EXPLORING BDSM THROUGH EROTICA How Do People’s Beliefs About Average Penis Size Match Up With Reality? Is This Porn? 5 Realities Inside A Strange New Artform Pineapple! The Top 15 Safe Words In …

Sex Education

Introduction to Sex Toys

May 19, 2016

Hi, I wrote the following for a client, but it was ultimately rejected. The client and I both made mistakes and misunderstood things. That I can accept. I cannot accept insults. So, I’m putting this here because I want it published. Somewhere. Today. Who says we should grow out of playing with toys? Why would we want to when playthings just get better and better as we grow up! Sex toys have become a great way for everybody to truly realize their sexual potential and experience all of the amazing feelings and sensations our bodies are capable of. One of …

Sex Community

Sex Stories We Love: #MasturbationMonth Marathon! Recognizing Magic, Own Your Own, Masturbation Menage & More!

May 18, 2016

Can you tell yet that I love Masturbation Month? I’m so happy to share as many stories and stats and articles as I can get my hand on. And this week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly focuses on the different devices we use for digital delight. Check out stories on Recognizing Magic, Necessity is the…, Own your Own, Sex or Stroke? and Masturbation Menage.

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Sex News! I love it! May 15, 2016

May 15, 2016May 14, 2016

The Rise of Penis Pleasure Devices Sex Stories We Love: Touching on So Much, at Any Age, & End Shame for Girls Do gay guys still cruise for public sex? How The Shape Of Your Vagina Affects Your Orgasm Age verification: Privacy, surveillance and freedom of speech Why (most) guys fail when they try to hook up with a pervy girl Loretta Lynch Just Became the World’s Most Powerful Advocate for Trans Rights My wife prefers masturbation to having sex with me The Unintended Consequences of Purity Pledges Japan court: It’s OK to make art shaped like your vagina, just …

Sex Stories We Love

Sex Stories We Love: #MasturbationMonth Continues! Touching on So Much, at Any Age, End Shame for Girls & More!

May 11, 2016

May is one of my favourite times of the year for sex writing—because masturbation is one of my favourite topics! This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly is again dedicated to the many ways self-pleasure touches our lives. Check out stories on Touching on So Much, At Any Age, A How-to?, Uh, Everyone?, End Shame for Girls and Is That Your Longsword?.

Sex Stuff

The Rise of Penis Pleasure Devices—My Latest on Kinkly!

May 10, 2016

Masturbation Month is in full swing! With The Rise of Penis Pleasure Devices I delve into the growing market of sex toys and aids that are designed for dick desire. I’ve been lucky enough to test and review many and, oh boy, they are gettin’ good! Check it out!

Sex Community

Sex News! I love it! May 8, 2016

May 8, 2016

Sex Stories We Love: Highway to Hell, Solo for Science, & Self Service Your Hands-On Guide to Solo Sex 7 ways to bring your sex life into the 21st century, from digital sex toys to VR porn SHIBARI AND CULTURAL APPROPRIATION Why 69 Is the Most Garbage Sex Position Ever Victorian Vibrators The doctor will please you now. Frozen 2: People are campaigning to make Elsa the first LGBT princess in Disney’s history Why Laws That Criminalize Buyers of Sex Only Make Sex Work More Dangerous Identity 2016: What’s it like to date someone who’s asexual? We Tend To Select Romantic …

Sex Stories We Love

Sex Stories We Love: Masturbation Month! Highway to Hell, Solo for Science, Self Service & More!

May 4, 2016

This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly kicks off Masturbation Month in style with a full complement of self-love goodness. Check out stories on Highway to Hell?, Solo for Science, Rubber Duckie, You’re the One, Self Service!, Tried It, Loved It! and Presidential Material.

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Sex News! I love it! May 1, 2016

May 1, 2016

The Seven Deadly Sex Sins: Greed Sex Stories We Love: Shame and Stigma Suck, Lewinsky Carries On, & Artistic Impressions NSFW – Solosexual: Portrait of a Masturbator 23 THINGS I LEARNED ABOUT SEX & RELATIONSHIPS AT AGE 23 Is Polyamory Right for You? 8 Questions to Help You Decide Single Life, Sexuality & Dating: An Introduction Grinding: Biohacking and the Future of Sex Pot users twice as likely to report multiple orgasms, Match.com finds With court ruling, sodomy law doesn’t apply to cases with unconscious victims HAMLET WAS A BRO WHO DIDN’T EVEN LIKE SEX Alabama preacher says sex is the …

Sex City

My Next Sex City—May 3—Nadine Thornhill! Killing Kittens! Womanizer!

April 28, 2016

I am really looking forward to my next Sex City, featuring a great sex educator, a world-wide phenomenon in sex parties and a revolutionary sex toy! On TUESDAY May 3, I will welcome some awesome folks to the Sex City studios at 11PM ET on 89.5FM in the Toronto area and CIUT.FM streaming live! Nadine Thornhill is “your friendly neighbourhood sex educator” who will be speaking to us about talking with sex with youths Killing Kittens will tell us more about their sex parties for the world’s sexual elite The Womanizer is a revolutionary clitoral toy that is definitely making …

Sex Writing

The Seven Deadly Sex Sins: Greed

April 27, 2016

Check out this month’s installment of The Seven Deadly Sex Sins on Cara Sutra! This month we explore the concepts of being the one who takes and takes without giving in bed, as well as exploring what is or isn’t greedy in different relationship dynamics. Greed: All the Want, All the Time

Sex Stories We Love

Sex Stories We Love: Shame and Stigma Suck, Lewinsky Carries On, & Artistic Impressions

April 27, 2016

Let’s talk about sex—it is that simple. We talk, we learn. We make mistakes along the way…but we still learn. This idea, which Salt n’ Pepa totally understood back in 1991 is this theme of this week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly! Check out stories on Shame and Stigma Suck, Lewinsky Carries On, Forum Fail, Rendezvous Roughness, Tie One On?, and Artistic Impressions.

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Sex News! I love it! April 24, 2016

April 24, 2016April 23, 2016

Sex Stories We Love: Dick Pic Display, Pro Photos, & Conjugal Sex Work This kids’ book about a gay prince and his farm boy crush is beyond cute. Monica Lewinsky: ‘The shame sticks to you like tar’ I Expected the BDSM Community to Be Progressively Sex Positive, But I Was Quickly Proven Wrong Voyeur’s Motel a peek at journalism’s dirty laundry: Menon This Man Wants to Implant a Vibrator into His Pubic Fat Rise & Shine: Top Morning Sex Positions Dissatisfied With Your Sex Life? A New Study Has The Answer To Getting It Right 9 Steps for Coming Out …

Sex Stories We Love

Sex Stories We Love: Dick Pic Display, Pro Photos, Conjugal Sex Work & More!

April 20, 2016

Welcome to the facts of life edition of Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly! This week we’re considering the good and bad of particular themes that are dominating sex news and media. Check out stories on Dick Pic Display, Pro Photos, Conjugal Sex Work, Ass-Backwards Britons, Pussy Probiotics? and One-Way Train?.

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New Review! The Womanizer!

April 19, 2016

This is the sex toy that has the world buzzing. Well, not really buzzing, because that is not what the Womanizer is about. Learn more about the Womanizer when I interview a rep from the company Tuesday May 3 on Sex City! When you spend a lot of time with sex toys and products, it is easy to expect certain standards. The creme de la creme of the sex toy industry tend to be sleek with minimal design, meet body safe requirements, feature sturdy construction and boast a distinct name. These are the hallmarks that often signify the arrival of a …