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All Hail, The Magic Wand!

March 8, 2020March 8, 2020

The following statement may be debatable, but I’m going to say it anyway: The Hitachi Magic Wand is the most iconic sex toy—ever. And that is saying a lot because we’ve seen some pretty damn spectacular sex toys come and go and make us come again. All around the world, this simple neck massager has eventually made its way south. People heard about this magnificent toy and had to have it. Because it is a plug-in product, this hasn’t always been easy. Different voltage has made it challenging to get the Hitachi Magic Wand in the UK and other places. …

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Sex Stories We Love: COVID-19 and Sex, Sexual Health on Campus, & Phallic Fitness

March 4, 2020March 4, 2020

Health and illness is something everyone talks about these days. So it is only natural that this week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly looks at the different ways sex intersects with our bodies and wellness. Check out stories on COVID-19 and Sex, Sexual Health on Campus, Sex and Anxiety, More Research Needed, Opening Up about FSD, and Phallic Fitness.

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Sex Stories We Love: From Awful to Awesome, Sexy Cinema Enigma, & Finding Fetish

February 26, 2020February 25, 2020

Sex blogs rock my whole damn world. I happened on a few great posts and knew this week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly had to focus on the fine folks who bring us the best blogs. Make sure you’re clicking and supporting your favourite sex blogs, because they’re certainly putting out for everyone of us (put maybe, definitely intended)! Check out stories on From Awful to Awesome, Sexy Cinema Enigma, Let’s Get Real…istic, Pleasure Through Denial, Straight-up Sex Talk and Finding Fetish.

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Sex Stories We Love: With a Little Help from My Friends, Honour for All, & Be Good to Yourself

February 19, 2020February 18, 2020

It is too easy to hear and see and read stories that portray sex negatively. Let’s look at the good instead! Sex can be such a great thing, but the horror stories always seem to get more play. We’ve been drowning in dissonance for too long. This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly is bursting at the seams with sex tales to warm the cockles of our hearts. Check out stories on With a Little Help from My Friends, Reconnect and Reignite, Honour for All, The Value of Mentorship, Be Good to Yourself, and Changing Priorities of Sex.

Sex Community / Sex Research / Sex Stuff

My First Sex Toy: Reflections from the Sex Community

February 18, 2020February 17, 2020

Do you remember your first sex toy? Do you remember how you acquired it? How was the experience—both buying and later playing? We asked folks from the sex community to share the stories of their first sex toy. Their memories are both cautionary tales and inspiring. We can learn so much from their experiences that will hopefully inform your sex toy purchases. Check out My First Sex Toy: Reflections from the Sex Community on Kinkly!

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Sex Stories We Love: Mythical Extreme Rabbit Hole, Take Me to Your Hotties, & Dressed to Thrill…and Teach

February 12, 2020February 12, 2020

Lights! Camera! Lots and lots of hot, sexy action! This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly checks in on the always fast-paced and fascinating news in the world of porn.

Sex Education / Sex Stuff

What Makes a Good Couples’ Sex Toy?

February 11, 2020February 11, 2020

What is your first thought of “a sex toy in use?” Did you immediately picture a hot, solo session? In reality, sex toys don’t have to just be solo-specific—they can be a tremendous addition to many couples’ sexy-times! Check out these five factors that make your couple’s toy experiences great! Check out What Makes a Good Couples’ Sex Toy? on Kinkly!

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Finding Your Favourite Sex Shops

February 9, 2020February 10, 2020

Sex shops are some of my favourite places. I mean, that might be completely obvious, given the nature of my writing, but there’s more to it than that. Sex shops are a true reflection on where and how sex fits into our current culture. These days, we’re lucky. Sex shops have established themselves as an integral part of our sex lives. People are seeking out where to buy their sexytime toys and supplies and have come to trust the knowledge of staff and quality of products that great sex stores carry. Sure, you could buy online for the convenience, but …

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Sex Stories We Love: You Are What You Eat, Doubling Up, & Complexities of Public Sex

February 5, 2020February 5, 2020

Sex is the great spice rack of life. So many flavours…so many combinations! This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly explores some different desires, from fantasy to fetish, and offers a little taste of our complex sexual world. Check out stories on Mapping Fetish, You Are What You Eat, Turned on By Twins?, Doubling Up, Complexities of Public Sex, and Lights On or Off?

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Sex Stories We Love: The Struggles Surrounding Sex & Disabilities

January 29, 2020January 28, 2020

For far too long, folks with disabilities have been left out of the wide, amazing world of sex. This has got to change. This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly looks at some of the struggles sexy people with disabilities contend with and some of the actions needed to move forward. Check out stories on Carnal Closed Captions, Recommended Sex Toys, Sharing Voices, Sex Ed Equality, Sex and Mental Health and Isaac’s Importance.