Apr 19

Sex Stories We Love: Hot and Not, STDiscussion, Man of Steel & More!

One of the most important factors that improves our understanding of sex, sexuality and gender is establishing visibility. It might be literal or figurative, but this week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly show that making issues known will always make forward movement possible.

Check out stories on Hot and Not, Transition of Understanding, STDiscussion, Sex and Parenting 101, Man of Steel and Furry Fallout.

Apr 18

Toronto International Porn Festival this week!

Toronto International Porn Festival—this week!

From April 20 to 23, 2017, this 4-day festival dedicated to adult film will empower, celebrate, and offer a platform for people of all genders, sexualities, bodies and pleasures to discover progressive and positive erotic films.

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The Best of the Last Decade: Toronto International P*rn Festival Review.
Thursday April 20 9:30pm at the Hot Docs Ted Rogers Cinema 506 Bloor St W. Toronto
The finest films from the first ten years of the Feminist P*rn Awards. A specially curated selection of our favorite films submitted to the FPAs from 2006-2015.
Friday April 21 7pm at the Hot Docs Ted Rogers Cinema 506 Bloor St W. Toronto
Sex is almost always unpredictable. This curated selection of films submitted for 2017 peers into alternative surprising narratives of sex and lust.

The Kinkier Side of Lust
Friday April 21 9:30pm at the Hot Docs Ted Rogers Cinema 506 Bloor St W. Toronto
These films illustrate the unconventional side of lust, pleasure, and sex. We witness how, with courage, our true selves can emerge into public spaces.

Digital Play X – VR p*rn gallery
Saturday April 22 1-8pm at the Super Wonder Gallery   584 College St
An immersive virtual reality p*rn experience surrounded by a diversity of classic shorts from the Toronto International P*rn Festival.

VR: Erotic films by Lightsouthern and FiveStar  1-8pm

Panel:  Class In Session: Are sex workers and adult film producers the new educators?  Many people learn about sex from adult films.  Performers and producers have acknowledged this fact, actively taking on the role as sex educators and feminist, gender and body awareness advocates. Sex workers and producers  will illuminate how adult content as education can be empowering or problematic.  2pm

Panel:  Sex Workers and Performers Speak For Themselves:  Many academics and activists speak about the destructiveness of sex work and performing on camera without hearing from and valuing the experiences of the workers. This panel will unpack the myths and assumptions about sex work. Hear diverse stories from folks in the industry and learn what draws them to the profession, what keeps them, and how you can be an ally. Collaboration with SlutWalk.  3:30pm

Toronto International P*rn Festival Awards Gala
Sunday April 23 7pm at the Great Hall 1087 Queen St W, Toronto
Mingle with your favorite performers and directors as they vie for awards at the historic Great Hall. With short clips of the year’s most impressive films and stimulating live entertainment, the festival finishes in style with a sexy gala like no other.


Hope to see you there,

Toronto International P*rn Festival & Good For Her

​​Generously sponsored by NJOY, LELO, Aslan Leather and more!

Apr 10

My Next Sex City—April 11—Sexy Archives! Carolyn Yates! Kevin Moroso!

Tune in, 11pm – midnight on TUESDAY APRIL 11 to CIUT 89.5FM in the Toronto area or stream live online!

Apr 05

Sex Stories We Love: Beware – Con Condoms, Reinventing Sex Ed, Freeing Pleasure & More!

This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly focuses on sex ed. Again. Why? But it really needs to improve and I’m going to write on it frequently until it does! Part of this sex ed focus is going to be contributing to STD Awareness Month throughout April. It would be great if there were no more stigma about STDs and STIs, and that is only going to come with better sex ed.

Check out stories on Beware – Con Condoms!, Learning New Language, Reinventing Sex Ed, Freeing Pleasure, Never Stop Learning, and Icon Lives On.

Mar 29

Sex Stories We Love: Super Secret Sex, Have a Seat, Some Privacy Please & More!

Do we keep sex too secret? Are we not secretive enough? What’s the big secret anyway? This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly explores the theme of our quiet and sometimes not-so-quiet treatment of all things sexual.

Check out stories on Super Secret Sex, Walkin’, Talkin’. Comin’, Have a Seat, Some Privacy Please, Get the Glow and No Hiding Our Bodies.

Mar 25

The Technology of the Long-distance Kiss—My latest on Future of Sex!

A kiss is such an intimate, loving and sexual expression. What would you do if the person you really want to lay lips on was far away?

Would you use a device that transmits your lip lock to your partner?

People have been working on long-distance kissing appliances for a while now. Check out the progress in The Technology of the Long-distance Kiss—my latest on Future of Sex!

Mar 22

Sex Stories We Love: A Bold Statement, Price of Beauty, Sounds of Pain & More!

There are lots of common sexual dilemmas that we deal with. And then there are the extraordinary situations! This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly looks at some aspects of the world of sex that not everybody will encounter…but maybe they will have some resonance with you.

Check out stories on A Bold Statement, Prison Sex or Food, Price of Beauty, Too Much Time Spent on This, Hug a Therapist, Sounds of Pain.

Mar 15

Sex Stories We Love: The New Submission, All Work & No Play, & Sex and Death

Sex is part of the world around us and the world within us. So many factors influence our ability to pursue and enjoy pleasure. Some we can control, some we cannot. This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly consider just some of these influences and how they might fit into your world.

Check out stories in The New Submissions, More Than A Liplock, Reconciling Fantasy, All Work & No Play, Sex & Death, and Grey Matter.

Mar 12

Sex City—March 14—Guest Host Tynan Rhea! With Tracy Tief, Tumaina, Isabel Nantaba

Tune in, 11pm – midnight on TUESDAY MARCH 14 to CIUT 89.5FM in the Toronto area or stream live online!

Mar 08

Sex Stories We Love: Another Consent Collapse, Poly Mono Divide, Penis Party & More!

It is impossible to avoid awkward, uncomfortable and sometimes maddening situations when you’re dealing with sex. That is inevitable. However, how we and society-at-large deal with these situations is key. This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly explores some good ways…and some bad.

Check out stories on Another Consent Collapse, What’s a Friend For, Poly Mono Divide, Just Like Any Other Illness, Penis Party, Footie Fun.

Mar 01

Sex Stories We Love: Eye of the Beholder, Turnabout Is Fair Play, Ice Ice Baby & More!

Life is full of cautionary tales that we should all heed. Of course, sex is definitely included in that. This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly is all about taking what we can from the sex triumphs and travails of our friends and fellow sex explorers.

Check out stories on Eye of the Beholder, Flared Base, Folks, No Vagina? Stop Inventing Products for Them, Turnabout is Fair Play, Music to Our Ears, and Ice Ice Baby?

Feb 22

Opening the Floodgates: Now We Can Talk About Watersports

Sometimes taboo sexual subjects seep into the public realm and become acceptable slowly and carefully. And sometimes somebody turns on a garden hose and stands in the yard waving it around wildly.

This is not to say that watersports are a wholly accepted part of everybody sexual repertoire, but when reports of Donald Trump’s supposed interest became international news, sexy pee play was certainly a topic open for discussion.

With valuable input from my friend Luna Matatas, I explore the wet and wild potential of bringing piss play into your sex life in Opening the Floodgates: Now We Can Talk About Watersports—my latest on Kinkly!

And if you are really interested in learning more, get in touch with Luna! She’s offering Intro to Pee Play workshops in Montreal and Toronto this week!

Feb 15

Sex Stories We Love: Rape Culture Persists, Hard Day’s Night, Magical Masturbation & More!

This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly can be best summarized by the phrase “don’t let your guard down.” For sure, there are lots of amazing things about meeting people and having sex, but there are also many cautionary tales to be told.

Check out stories on Rape Culture Persists, Hard Day’s Night, Mama Said…, Dressed To Thrill, Thinking Straight on Sexuality, and Magical Masturbation.

Feb 12

The Dreamy Desire Review: We-Vibe, Touch and More—My latest on Future of Sex!

Some sex product companies just get it. Ever since the first We-Vibe was introduced, Standard Innovation Corporation has continued to bring out high quality, easy to use sex toys that get the sexy job done!

I reviewed their Dreamy Desire Collection for Future of Sex and it was definitely one of the easiest product round-ups I’ve ever done.

And if you’re looking for a last minute Valentine’s Day gift, here’s a great one!

Feb 09

My Next SEX CITY—FEB 14—Tynan Rhea! Kelsey Obsession! Alex S. Morgan!

Tune in, 11pm – midnight on TUESDAY FEBRUARY 14 to CIUT 89.5FM in the Toronto area or stream live online!

Feb 08

Sex Stories We Love: 1 in 5, Pink Pill Faux Pas, Understanding Consent & More!

This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly features many discussions about women’s bodies. Why there are so many discussions about women’s bodies involving people who aren’t women, I don’t really know. I weigh in, but pleasure ensure you read the linked stories to hear from women themselves for a true understanding.

Check out stories on 1 in 5, Pink Pill Faux Pas, Understanding Consent, The Other Women and Porn Debate, Take a Look Around, All in Favour.

Feb 01

Sex Stories We Love: Fetlife Fail, Excited and Intersex, No Penal Pleasure? & More!

This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly is all about how we should have discerning eyes about the talk and advice we’re given about sex. There are lots of ideas out there, folks. Talk them in and make your decisions.

Check out stories on Fetlife Fail, What? Where?, Excited and Intersex,  No Penal Pleasure?, Loaded Loads?, and Grab Hold!.