Sex Toy Review: The Handy

The Handy is a toy I really want to like…I just don’t like it yet. As the market fills in with more and more mechanical penis masturbators, we’re seeing a gradual evolution in innovation and quality. This is great news for pleasure! However, in the meantime, products are being released that have some good features, but other aspects that definitely need further work. SweetTech AS, the company that created The Handy (check out their video) is definitely on the right track and I really appreciate their customer service and efforts. They reached out and offered me the device in exchange …

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Sex Stories We Love: ADHD & Sex, Throw a Curve, & DIY Dungeon

Couldn’t we all use a bit more understanding right about now? This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly explores ways we can learn and grow and know more about each other—and ourselves. Check out stories on Understanding Transitions, 1, 2, 4 or More?, ADHD and Sex, Throw a Curve, Moving from Sexual Misconceptions, and DIY Dungeon.

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Sex Stories We Love: The Potential of Outdoor Sex

These past few months have been tough as people spent so much time quarantined indoors. For many, the desire to get outside is primal and strong. And that often includes the desire for some strong, primal outdoor lovin’. This week’s Sex Stories We Love explores the potential of outdoor sex. Check out stories on Exhibitionism and Consent, Cruising Conundrum, Distance Dating, Motors Runnin’, Outdoor Positions and Sandy Bottoms.

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Sex Stories We Love: Dialed In, Intellectual Rights, & Winner!

Sex and language are continually evolving. How we put sex into words necessarily changes as we understand ourselves and each other. This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly strings together many words to sort out three. Check out stories on What is a Mask? Dialed In, What’s In A Name?, Intellectual Rights, The Use of Euphemism, and Winner!

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Sex Stories We Love: Look Out Below & the Bold and the Blow Up

Don’t we all need a break? A lot is going on this year. I know…that’s a huge understatement. So, this week, kick back and enjoy some of the lighter side of sex in this week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly. Check out stories on Look Out Below, Anticipation vs Actuality, Reel Too Real, Better Coverage Needed, Laugh and Learn, and Bold and the Blow-up.

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Sex Stories We Love: Equal Rights Is Right & the Art of Pride

Happy Pride Month! Alright, this ain’t our average Pride. Things are different this year, but they’re also revolutionary and glamorous! This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly is all about how we can still make this month, and LGBTQ+ life in general, fabulous all the time! Check out stories on Equal Rights Is Right, Online Pride, Listen and Learn, The Art of Pride, The Value of Connection, and Maybe a March Down Sesame Street?

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Sex Stories We Love: Sex Worker Struggles Amid COVID-19

The global coronavirus pandemic has been devastating for many different people. One group who has been significantly impacted is sex workers. Around the world, sex workers have struggled to make “the new normal” work for them. This week’s Sex Stories We Love travels around the globe to shed light on this hardship and challenges faced by sex workers. Check out stories on Trans Sex Worker Struggles in Rio, Dangerous Times for Sex Workers, Community Is Key, Go-Go No Go?, Undocumented and Denied, and The Swiss Model?

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Sex Stories We Love: Sex Ed for POC, Homeschooling Opportunity, & Senior Sexuality

Welcome to #AdultSexEdMonth! More often than not, talk of sex education revolves around young people. Of course, this is crucial. Yet so many of us did not grow up with sex ed, and we still need this information. The month of June is all about sex ed for adults. This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly offers up a few choice learning nuggets. Check out stories on Sex Ed for POC, Homeschooling Opportunity, All in the Eyes?, Senior Sexuality, This Might Blow You Away, and Working in Sex.

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Sex Stories We Love: Sex Ed Online, Web Cam Wanks, & Finding Friends

Sex and digital content are like that couple you know are perfect for each other…but who also have some of the weirdest arguments of all time. They should get along, but can’t stop fighting! This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly explores a few of the ways our sex lives are playing out digitally. Check out stories on UpUpDownDown and All Around, Club Penguin Shenanigans, OnlyFans Might Lose Lots of Fans, Sex Ed Online, Webcam Wanks, and Finding Friends?

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Sex Stories We Love: G-OH-OH-OH-A-L, Spanking the House Market, & Autofellation Achievement

Sometimes we just have to take our masks off (at home) and have a big, ol’ belly laugh when it comes to sex. It is a wild world out there and this week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly is dedicated to some of the sillier stories you’re going to come across this week. Check out stories on G-OH-OH-OH-A-L!, Unusual Inspiration for Erotica, Spanking the Housing Market, Exhibitionism Gone Too Far?, Investigative Journalism, and Autofellation Achievement?

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Sex Stories We Love: Heroes and Inspirations

The sex community is full of heroes and inspiration. From folks who are on the front lines teaching, entertaining, writing, and honouring sex to folks who shy away from the spotlight, we’re in a much better place as a sexual community because of the work they do. This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly puts a spotlight on some great folks and thanks them for the contributions they are making. Check out stories on Thanks for the A-bop-bop-a-loom-op-alop-bop-boom!, Masturbation Martyr, Shutting Down Women of SexTech?, Fantasy Is Real, Loving the Laughs, and Helping Is Sexy.

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Sex Stories We Love: The Sacred Days of Solo Sex (Masturbation Month!)

The sacred days of solo sex is upon us! Raise your hands if you’ve been enjoying Masturbation Month so far! Okay, just nod and smile if you don’t have any hands free at the moment. When you need a break, check out these onanistic offerings in this week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly! Check out #masturbationmonth stories on Celebrate Good Times…C’mon!, Speaking Self-Love and Self-Care, Manifest with Masturbation?, Hands-free Happiness, Ode to the Showerhead and Mark Your Calendar.

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Sex Stories We Love: Making Kink Inclusive, Kink Is Valid, & Tiger King Dong

Mentioning the word “kink” is the easiest way to make someone’s eyebrow involuntarily raise. Now, did this reflex happen because of piqued curiosity or distaste? This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly looks at some of the different reactions to kink. Check out stories on Kink Is Here to Stay, Making Kink Inclusive, Kink Is Valid, Some Heroes Share Scrubs, In Praise of Praise, and Tiger King Dong.

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Sex Stories We Love: Stay-at-Home Sexual Adventure

Staying home right now is the best thing we can do. Let’s not lose sight of this, even as we get a little stir crazy and thirsty. Remember, we’ve got the big sexy world at our fingertips (one hand, at least). This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly offers up some suggestions for stay-at-home sexual adventure. Check out stories on Cinematic Carnality, Quarantine Quills, The Voices of Women, The Games We Play, Lusty Lockdown Looks, and Titillating Tipples.

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Sex Stories We Love: Lovers In a Dangerous Time, Q & A, & Loving and Losing

Okay, it may be an odd time to discuss the potential of open, non-monogamous or polyamorous relationships when we’re supposed to be isolating, but let’s open up some very relevant discussions in this week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly. Check out stories on Lovers in a Dangerous Time, The Time Is Not Right, Q & A, Loving and Losing, and Recommended Reading.

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Sex Stories We Love: Nooner Advice, Sex Drive and Fibromyalgia, & Not on the Same Page

What gear is your sex drive in these days? How much folks do or do not want sex will always vary, pandemic or not. This week’s Sex Stories We Love looks at the different factors that can seem like nitrous or a parking brake on our sex lives. Check out stories on Sex Overdrive? Nooner Advice, A Big, Thirsty Gulp, Sex Drive and Fibromyalgia, Not on the Same Page, and Care for a Poke?

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Sex Stories We Love: How COVID-19 Is Affecting Our Sex Lives

Well, there’s only one topic on our collective minds right now: COVID-19 (also known as coronavirus). And the situation has grown exponentially more worrisome. We’re seeing the spread affect many different parts of our lives. And that, inevitably affects sex. So, while we self-isolate to flatten the curve, take a read of how this week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly is affecting different parts of the sex industry. Check out stories on Struggle for Sex Workers, Letting Your Fingers Do the Talking, Cam Connection, Sex Toy Surge, Wrapping Up Production, and Step Up, Pornhub?

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Sex Stories We Love: Identity Revolution, Dating Daunting Demisexuals, and the Case for Sluts

We all have identities, and most likely, more than one. Not everybody wears their sexual identity on their sleeve, but we all have one. This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly looks at just a few of the many sexual identities that are now becoming known and embraced. Check out stories on Identity Revolution, Daunting Dating Demisexuals?, Finding Sexual Happiness, The Case for Sluts, Writing About Sex, and Cock and/or Roll(ing).

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