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Daily Sex Discussion #62 Do you have a sexual bucketlist? If so, what is #1 on it?Reply with your response to #dailysexdiscussion

The busier I get, the more exhaustsed I get, the worse my sleep is. This has never made sense to me. I long for a night of 6 solid, uninterrupted hours of sleep.Instead, I wake up am average of 5-10 times/night. During those 6 hours I am in bed.Going to bed earlier doesn’t help, I just wake up earlier. Can’t sleep in to save my life. The commute does”t help and bipolar is surely a factor.And now it is affecting my sex life.Thankfully my libido is still strong, but it is very frustrating when my body just chooses to go …

I had no idea, but this important day is tomorrow, Saturday January 12! The amazing Derek Forgie, who I’ve been lucky enough to interview on Sex City, started this day in 2009 after the infamous “Kick A Ginger” bit on South Park. I am lucky enough to kiss a ginger very day. More here And gratuitous hot Gingers!  

LOVE this from Nerve (found on their Facebook). Apparently part of a Grade 12er’s art project.

The Bears of WinterEditor: Jerry L. WheelerPublisher: Bear Bones Books imprint of Lethe PressDeadline: September 1, 2013Payment: Three cents a word. The Bears of Winter will be available in ebook and print form. Lethe Press takes world rights (same as First North American Serial rights, only it’s expanded to boundaries other than North America) Bears don’t just hibernate in winter anymore. You’ll still find them in caves, but now they’re surrounded by big screen plasma TVs, iPads, and the latest in technology. Even so, they venture out in the cold and ice for food, fun, and romance. I’m looking for …

Daily Sex Discussion #61 Have you ever had sex in water?Reply with your response to #dailysexdiscussion

I just came across Cory Silverberg’s Sexual Losses 2012 post on his about.com Sexuality page.  Cory is one of the best in the field of sex education and sexuality discussion and I am so grateful he put this list together (and has been doing so for a few years now). These people have all made a difference and it is important to recognize and continue their work. I wasn’t even aware that some of these wonderful folks had passed. 

Hahahahahahahahaha! Sex toys ad mailed by mistake: Canada Post But seriously, why can’t ads like that be sent in the mail? I don’t want to receive 95% of the junk mail I receive. I live in suburbia, I get so many flyers and ads in my mailbox, for so many products I’m not at all interested in. So, I recycle them! If people receive an ad for something from Adam & Eve and Bree Olson, well, chuck it if you don’t want to partake in that offer! Enough of segregating sex from the public Canada Post!

I have been a member of Fetlife since its early days. I think the membership was still in the low-hundreds. Love the site, always have.However, I have frequently gone long stretches of not using the site…at all.I recently wandered back to increase awareness of this blog and have been back daily for a while. But every time I log in I log at a profile photo that isn’t me.Okay, yes it is me, but it doesn’t feel like me these days. When people talk about change and evolution, I am completely on board. Particularly when it comes to sex. I …

I Do…Unless I Don’t—Loose ID Steam Heat: Erotic Tales of Steampunk Adventures—editor Debra Hyde—Ravenous Romance

Daily Sex Discussion #60 If you are, or aspire to be in a monogamous relationship, would you make an agreement with your partner that allows a once-per-year, no-strings-attached one night stand with another person?Reply with your response to #dailysexdiscussion

The Kinsey Institute is accepting submissions of sex / gender / sexuality / eroticism / reproduction / romantic relationships / the politics of sex and gender / the human figure More here

This article from Amanda Chatel in The Gloss posits a very good question: Do you travel with sex toys? A bunch of years ago, my now ex and I were flying down to New Orleans from Buffalo. She decided to pack her little vibe, but thought it smart to try and conceal within the legs of a tripod, up near the top. Now, we’d decided to take the bus from Toronto to Buffalo because it is so much cheaper to fly within the US, so we got border searched at one of the bridges. Sure enough, her bag got ripped apart and her …

Here’s a very intriguing article by Dr. Justin J. Lehmiller, Sex Degrees of Separation: How Many Indirect Sexual Partners Have You Had? that asks us to reconsider the idea of what our “number” is. Traditionally, that has referred to how many sex partners you have had. But a British pharmacy has produced a calculator (of varying accuracy, the link is in the original article) that will tell you the number of indirect—people your sex partners have slept with—sexual partners you have had.  While the number that comes back can be huge and seem a bit ludicrous, there are some significant factors …

I hate to give out a link to a website as awful as this, but I think it is necessary.I came across Potential Prostitutes and I am really struggling with words to contain my rage.Here’s the scam:Anyone can submit information, including name, phone number, location and photo of anyone else as a “potential prostitute.” Submitters do this anonymously. And then that information is stored in their database, which is optimized for search engines.So, you piss someone off, you could get listed.And if you want that profile removed, YOU HAVE TO PAY A FEE!So, hold on here. First we have the issue of people …

The following projects are all open calls from Riptide Publishing. Check them out in detail here. Remaking the World: 1939 to 1945—Editor: Aleksandr Voinov Training Time—Editor: Sarah Frantz License to Thrill—Editor: Aleksandr Voinov Regency Romance—Editor: Sarah Frantz Laying Down (with) the Law—Editor: Sarah Frantz College Discovery—Editor: Sarah Frantz

Daily Sex Discussion #59 Are there any historical figures you want to go back in time and fuck? Reply with your response to #dailysexdiscussion

Everybody is always talking about big dicks! Okay, well, at least this time, Claudia Maittlen-Harris of The Frisky has got the real goods on the age-old debate of whether bigger is better.  Girl Talk: Why We Should Be Talking About Penis Size She is spot-on by pointing out that it is dude’s who are generally obsessed with the size of our cocks. I’ll admit to being at least a bit curious about whether I measure up to others. But I have been fortunate enough to be friends with many women over the years, beyond my sexual partners, who have all spoken …