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This is a really interesting study. I’ve long been fascinated by the potential differences between men and women when it comes to visual imagery.The long-held belief is that men, generally, are stimulated visually while women are stimulated by aural or written erotica. It is also generally considered that men like the hardcore and women want the softcore.Surely all rules are made to be broken and Ashley Thompson’s study seems to indicate as such.Who’d have thought men would be into romance?Not current society. Not our cultural assumptions.I know I’m all romantic and I’m definitely all about falling in love. But I …

Daily Sex Discussion #78 Do you like to perform orally? Reply with your response to #dailysexdiscussion

Call For SubmissionsComing Together: Girl on GirlEditor: Leigh EllwoodPublisher: Coming TogetherDeadline: April 15, 2013Payment: Proceeds from the sale of Coming Together will be donated to the National Center for Lesbian Rights I am pleased to announce that I will be editing an anthology of lesbian erotica and erotic romance for Coming Together! Coming Together: Girl on Girl will benefit the National Center for Lesbian Rights and feature stories from today’s hottest writers of erotica and romance. That’s the plan, anyway. I welcome anybody with a sexy F/F short to submit to this work. While Girl on Girl is not the …

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Daily Sex Discussion #77 Have you ever sent intimate items through the post? Reply with your response to #dailysexdiscussion

Torquere Press—Monthly Special Calls APRIL – TORQUED TALESOnce upon a time? The fox and the grapes, Snow White or the Little Match Girl as a man, the wolf in sheep’s clothing… We all love to take a fairy tale or fable and flip it on its ear. Be creative and send us a Sip on the twisted fairy tale theme. Lengths from 3000-8000 words (firm) will be considered. Our standard royalty rates apply, but collected themes may be negotiated at a different rate. Send your submissions tosubmissions@torquerepress.com with Torquere Tales in the subject field. Please see our general submissions guidelines …

Check out this exciting annual show! I interviewed curator Phil Anderson before last year’s show on Sex City. The Sex Show New Exhibitions Feb. 6-17, 2013Gallery 13131313 Queen St. West 416-536-6778 www.g1313.orgReception Thursday Feb. 7 th 7-10pm Main , Process & Cell Galleries : THE SEX SHOW is an annual curated exhibition thatIncludes a variety of interpretations of what different artists view as sexual .The definition of sex and sexuality has and always will be open to interpretation. Each individual has his/ her own definition of what is considered sexual. What factors are recognized in the process defining something as …

Daily Sex Discussion #76 Would you rather have sex on a trampoline or a waterslide? Reply with your response to #dailysexdiscussion

Due March 1st Publisher: Secret Cravings Publishing Depending on how many stories I accept, this anthology may come out in volumes, as many as needed to get the smutty, romantic goodness to the masses. Here’s what I want: BDSM stories of any flavor from uber-kink (keeping the rules of publisher in mind regarding scat, rape, etc) to light vanilla, first-time play. Anywhere from your most Dom males to femdom to menage to an orgy, if you can pull it off and are so inclined. Even bondage out of this world on some foreign planet. Or a world of your own …

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Daily Sex Discussion #75 Do you think sex work will ever be accepted in society? Reply with your response to #dailysexdiscussion

Call For SubmissionsMammoth Book of Best New Erotica 12Editor: Maxim JakubowskiPublisher: Running Press in USA, Robinson in UK.Deadline: March 31st, 2013Payment: £75 per story, which at current exchange rate is approx $118. Rights sought: non exclusive world English language anthology rights This is the longest-running best short stories of the year anthology. I am seeking submissions of stories previously published, whether in print, digitally or online, during the second half of 2011 AND throughout 2012. Any length up to 8,000 words. although am NOT into ‘quickies’ (ie under 2000 words or so) unless they are truly exceptional. As to what …

This is so true and so needed! Thanks Cynthia! So many people are afraid to engage in dirty talk for fear of sounding stupid. It ain’t easy, but once you get into it, it’ll get easier and easier. Talk sexy (without sounding stupid) What are your favourite sexy talk words?

Daily Sex Discussion #74 Are you a fan of strip clubs? Reply with your response to #dailysexdiscussion

Men on the Make: True Gay Erotic StoriesEditor: Shane AllisonPublisher: Cleis PressDeadline: April 1, 2013Payment: $50/2 copies of the anthology on publication. Contract is for one-time rights. Editor Shane Allison is looking for (nonfiction) true gay erotic stories about your most powerful sexual experiences. The book will feature a wide range of scenarios, settings, writing styles, ages, and races. I’m mainly looking for extremely personal, one of a kind non-fiction stories focused around compelling sexual events in your life. I’m looking for your hottest sex, the kinkiest, the most unexpected. Sex in public? Sex with someone other than your partner? …

I regret to inform that tonight’s Meetup is cancelled. I am just too sick to make it down to Tequila. Sorry for the inconvenience this may cause.

Frequent (and beloved) Sex In Words commenter AndeeSC2 took to her own blog to fiercely react to people who are not fans of the term “MILF.” Seems a cookbook has come out called The MILF Diet: Let the Power of Whole Foods Transform Your Body, Mind and Spirit Deliciously which has, as Andee notes, gained more notoriety for it’s name than recipes. Check out Andee’s editorial Some of Us Enjoy Being Called a MILF and chime in with your thoughts?  Do you think MILF is a negative term? 

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