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This is brilliant.Society has made the male lust-lust into such an overpowering beast that it is really hard to be taken seriously if you’re not a walkin’, talkin’ boner machine.Now, I am not about to suggest that these creatures don’t exist. Far too many men take up the challenge that society lays down and become sex-obsessed assholes. That happens. Hopefully if society changes, more guys won’t turn out like this. But the brunt of the burden does fall at men’s feet. Dudes gotta reign in the fuck-at-all costs mentality.  Resist the ideas that society thros at you and talk to …

You’d think so, given the hate this demi-holiday day receives. I’m not saying the vitriol is without cause. Personally, I’m ambivalent to it. I celebrate it with the kids and some of my exes have been more into it, so I get into it. Yes, it is consumerism run rampant. Yes, it has a dubious past. Yes, some people, who aren’t currently partnered, are excluded. Yes, we are inundated with commercials, propaganda and red nonsense. Yes, the messaging is almost exclusively heterosexist. But I just can’t get into a snit when it is a day that is just supposed to …

One of the questions I’ve wanted to ask in my #dailysexdiscussion is “Have you ever been a cheater?” I haven’t asked because I’m not confident of getting many honest responses. Cheating happens for a variety of reasons, each of which is then specific to the individual situation. As Denise Charles notes here, there are people who cheat for revenge, variety and emotional need.I’d like to suggest another type of cheater. The “holy shit it just happened” cheater…because that’s what I almost was.Without going into specific detail, I was once engaged and I almost had sex with another person. We were …

Call For Submissions The Women Who Love to Love Gay RomanceEditor: Ryan FieldPublisher: Ryan Field Press Deadline: May 1, 2013Payment & Rights: One time flat fee of $25.00. Rights sought are non exclusive one-time anthology rights It’s no secret there are more than a few straight women who love to read gay romances, and the audience seems to be growing. I’m looking for the most heartfelt stories about the women who love to love, and read, gay romance on the planet. The call is open to everyone, men and women, straight and gay. New writers are encouraged to submit, and …

Daily Sex Discussion #94 Have you ever tried a sex act and realized “nope, never again.” Reply with your response to #dailysexdiscussion

I’ve had porn on the brain lately–much moreso than usual even. We’re in the midst of viewing submissions for The Feminist Porn Awards so most spare minutes I have at home are spent with some skin cavorting across screens.Porn has changed a lot over the years and so have attitudes around discussing and even watching it. Couples are into dirty movies and many more are thinking about it and wondering how to address it to their partner. Here’s how. Dr. Kat covers the basics about discussing, asking and enjoying, but her two strongest points are to laugh at porn (but …

Call For Submissions Harlequin Intrigue Noir We are looking for a darker, sexier, unbound counterpart to the Harlequin Intrigue romance series. At Harlequin Intrigue Noir we want authors to push the boundaries of the traditional romance with gritty stories of contemporary romantic suspense. Hard-boiled crime and dangerous situations are foreplay for your hot, hot heroes and sophisticated heroines. Here there are no restrictions to their steamy and risky encounters. Revamped, revved up and replete with graphic details—that’s the Harlequin Intrigue Noir crime story that we want. More or less than 70,000 words. High sensuality Movie Examples: Out of Sight, Haywire, …

Daily Sex Discussion #93 Have you ever invented a new sex act? Reply with your response to #dailysexdiscussion

What is your feeling? Should explicit erotic works be available in libraries? Would they need to be restricted? Check out this great article Full-Frontal Shelving I would love there to be erotica in libraries, but honestly, I wonder if there should be an age restriction. By that, I mean something like 14? Thoughts?

Daily Sex Discussion #92 Have you ever begged a sex partner for a specific sex act you really, really, REALLY wanted? Reply with your response to #dailysexdiscussion

Take a listen to some of the podcasts from Erotica World! They are hot! I found this by following Lacy on Twitter. —- Erotica Writers needed! I am always looking for selections to read on the show. Please send them to lacynetfux@gmail.com. THE RULES::::::1. Mind your tenses PLEASE. It’s tough to read when it changes from past to present. 2. READ YOUR PIECES FIRST. Are there pieces missing? Does it make sense? I have had some really great stories i couldn’t read because the middle paragraph made no sense.3. When you email the story. PLEASE send me: +++Your writing name +++how …

CHECK BACK HERE AT 5PM FOR POSSIBLE CANCELLATION DUE TO VERY UNSEXY WEATHER! The Toronto Erotica Writer and Readers Meetup returns Wednesday February 27! 7-10pmTequila Bookworm512 Queen St. West, Toronto$5 cover Join us for a great, sexy and saucy evening of smutty words and wicked writing! We’re going to focus more on writing and reading and fun! My apologies for cancelling the January event, I was sick—and not just in the head! I’ll bring a wide array of sexy images for us to use as inspiration and I hope some of you will bring not only your own work, but …

This is a brilliant, 4-part discussion of erotic comics that Francis Foster presented at the Toronto Erotica Writers and Readers Meetup last fall. It is awesome. I loved seeing it then, and I love having it online to read over and over. http://sexy-musings.com/post/42801264982/in-favor-of-erotic-comics-part-1 http://sexy-musings.com/post/42801314332/in-favor-of-erotic-comics-part-2 http://sexy-musings.com/post/42801353588/in-favor-of-erotic-comics-part-3 http://sexy-musings.com/post/42801373605/in-favor-of-erotic-comics-part-4

How’s this for a good way to start a Sunday morning.Been up since 7:30am, finishing my viewing of Feminist Porn Award submissions while at the same time completing the migration of the Sex City archive page (to be released soon). Plus a bit of blogging and tweeting and such.The rest of the day will be decidedly less sexy, so I think someone will be getting woken up soon and after that we’ll get into the boring business, with more shenanigans later.

Amelia Bryant has produced an Erotica Readers Survey.Here’s why. Take part!

Call For Submissions Dirty Little NumbersEditor: Lana FoxPublisher: Go Deeper PressDeadline: May 30th, 2013Payment & rights: 1 cent per word; first worldwide digital rights The Editors of Go Deeper Press are looking for original, erotic stories of less than 500 words. These microfictions need to rev our sexual motors swiftly and profoundly. Stories in which characters climax are particularly welcomed (but by no means mandatory) and we’re also seeking characters of all different sexual and gender identities. We’re interested in dark takes as well as light. And of course, we love deep, in every sense of the word. Authors will …

Daily Sex Discussion #91Have you ever watched a terrible tv show or movie just because the someone in the cast is hot?Reply with your response to #dailysexdiscussion

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