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Daily Sex Discussion #566 Can you manage to have sex when you are very angry about something else? Reply with your response to #DailySexDiscussion

Daily Sex Discussion #566: Angry? Read More

Fantastic interview! I’m A Person Who Shoots Porn

Nica Noelle Interviews Dana Vespoli! Read More

This is an excellent essay on rape culture by Zaron Burnett III. As a male writer myself, I recognize my privilege and my responsibility to not perpetuate rape culture. But that recognition is an ongoing process because so much of rape culture is ingrained our out societal constructs of gender. So, I don’t write that much on rape culture, but I do read many articles and blog posts. I want to deconstruct what has been instilled in me from birth. I want to ensure the the messages I pass to my daughter are clear. But it is hard. Because, just …

GREAT READ: A Gentleman’s Guide to Rape Culture Read More

I took this survey. I remember it being skewed towards the Nordic model. While still early, at the last some of the comments show that people question the validity of this choice. Personally, I’m not taking this survey’s numbers as particularly valid.

Does Canada Want a Nordic Model? Read More

And here is a good background piece on the movement to bring respect and justice to sex workers.

June 2 is International Whore’s Day Read More

Something as simple as learning a new word can bring us newfounf insight and knowledge. Throughout this year’s #AdultSexEdMonth, I will offer up new terms, words and phrase’s from Inkhorn’s Erotonomicon to expand our sexy conversations. Today’s word is: Kolpocingulaphoria: the sensation of having the penis squeezed during penetration. Jimmy was amazed at the kolpocingulaphoric skills of Tara’s pussy.

#AdultSexEdMonth Word of the Day: kolpocingulaphoria Read More

Call For Submissions Sex Toy Erotica, A Frisky Feminist AnthologyEditor: Lauren Marie Fleming Publisher: Frisky FeministDeadline: July 6, 2014 Payment: If your story is selected to be in the anthology, you will be paid $25 (or $40 towards a product on Frisky Feminist Press if you prefer that) and coupons for three free digital copies that you can disperse how you wish. Additionally — because Frisky Feminist Press believes in the power of profit-sharing — each author will receive 5% of the profits over $500 that the book makes in the first year (to be paid out at the end …

Call For Submissions: Sex Toy Erotica, A Frisky Feminist Anthology Read More

Daily Sex Discussion #565 How do you prefer to learn a new sex technique: from a partner, by taking a workshop or by learning from porn? Reply with your response to #DailySexDiscussion

Daily Sex Discussion #565: Preferred Sex Learning? Read More

NEW YORK FETISH FILM FESTIVAL June 6 – 8, 2014Producer’s Club Manhattan, 358 West 44th Street New York, NY 10036 32 new and rare filmsabout Bondage, Dominance, Submission, Masochism, roleplay and erotic fetishes will be presented at the new festival,including documentary “Folsom Forever” directed by Mike Skiffand “24/7 The Passion of Life” by Roland Reber! Kinky filmmakers appreciate the NEW YORK FETISH FILM FESTIVAL very muchand support this important subcultural event in every way.These New York based directors show their works: Stefan Blomquist (“Miss D” about a transvestite), Mrs G aka Hydromadam (“Alice’s Adventures In Fetishland”, “Love Hugs Kisses Sissy …

NEW YORK FETISH FILM FESTIVAL Read More

Yet another reason why I fucking love my publisher, Cleis Press. In celebration of Pride month, we’re kicking off a brand new project we’re calling Out Writers. Join us—and a tide of queer voices—in celebrating the importance of LGBTQ writing. Want to get invovled? Please take a moment share a sentence or two about why queer writers are important, and/or what it means to you to write as LGBTQ author, and use the hashtag #OutWriters.

Cleis Press Launches #Outwriters-A Celebration of Queer Writers! Read More