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I am definitely a little late in reading Chester Brown’s fantastic graphic novel about being a john Paying For It. It is a frank and honest discussion on paying for sex and romantic relationships that is rareky considered.I don’t necessarily agree with all of his thoughts on love and I think some of his opinions on sex workers are a bit naive and heroic, Brown’ arguments for decriminalizing sex work are.spot on. Chexk out a great interview my collegue, Louise Bak, on Sex City did with Chester.

Must Read: Chester Brown’s “Paying For It” Read More

I’m well aware that there are many, many reviews out there for Fleshlight products. In fact, I didn’t really intend to do a write up of the product, I just requested it as research for my upcoming Sex Toys for Savvy Boys workshop. Really, I knew I couldn’t do a talk about sex toys for men without including the wildly successful Fleshlight. So it made perfect sense to give it a whirl.Now, I will readily admit that I’ve mocked this toy since I heard of it. And pretty much all “fakies.” No disrespect to those who use and enjoy them, …

How the Fleshlight Surprised Me: A Review Read More

I’m very happy to be hosting a new workshop at Come As You Are! SEX TOYS FOR SAVVY BOYSDiscerning dudes and clever chaps will want to come out for this fun and informative look at the ever-growing range of sex toys and devices that are now offered for a fellow’s fun! Focussing on hot, good times and positive sexual health, we’ll explore toys and products that stimulate the penis, anal area, nipples and many other parts of the body. Whether you plan to play alone or with others, this sexy selection of toys for savvy boys will surely stimulate you! …

TOMORROW—Sex Toys for Savvy Boys workshop at Come As You Are Read More

When I first started reading Dr. Teesha Morgan’s article about a service for ending relationships (kinda like a dump-o-gram?), I was mildly amused. Truth time: I broke off a long-term relationship via Instant Messenger. Now, most of our relationship was via chat because of circumstances, but still, it was a cheap way to end things. I should have done better.However, getting dumped over the phone is not as distasteful as sending an anonymous e-card to inform a past sexual partner that you have tested positive for an STI and that person should get tested. That just seems a mark of …

New ways to dump and inform people about STI’s? Read More

Daily Sex Discussion #54 Have you ever participated in gender role play during sex? Reply with your response to #dailysexdiscussion

Daily Sex Discussion #54: Gender Roleplay? Read More

There is very little I can say about this. I got nothin’. Other than WOW. Joseph Sciambra, Self-Described ‘Ex-Gay Porn Star,’ Claims Gay Men Anally Give Birth to the Devil (VIDEO) Oh wait, I can also say WTF????

Ex-Gay Porn Star denounces Anal…because of Satan! Read More

If you’ve ever wondered or been confused about the organic nature of our language of sex, sexuality and gender, here is a fantastic guide by Sonya JF Barnett. SexPlusLexicon: Getting it Right

Language of Sex, Sexuality & Gender Read More

Daily Sex Discussion #53 Do you consider yourself any of a voyeur, an exhibitionist, both or neither? Reply with your response to #dailysexdiscussion

Daily Sex Discussion #53: Voyeur? Exhibitionist? Both? Neither? Read More

Calling all Toronto (and area) Sex Bloggers! Come out for casual chat and drinks! Monday January 7 7pm O’Grady’s518 Church StreetToronto #TOsexbloggers

Toronto Sex Bloggers! Come chat, January 7! Read More