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Sexual fantasy is concept I have always found quite fascinating. Particularly because I have known people who (and I do believe them) are highly sexual but who do not fantasize. That sounds incongruous to me, but this is what they say.At the same time? I’ve also known people whose whole sex life is based on fantasy, with a distinct lack of required reality. The article, Top Nine Female Sexual Fantasies, raises some great points about fantasy in general. Mainly, I appreciate how people are dissuaded from expressing their fantasies—to friends, partners, for fear of being thought of badly.Whether you choose …

I’d love to hear from anyone who attended! From the sounds of it, it was a casual affair, checking out the facilities and some workshops. Here’s some local media on the event. Student sex party draws hundreds Forget the debate club, U of T students hit sex club U of T student sex party draws hundreds

Daily Sex Discussion #73 Do you consider your body sexually attractive, to yourself and/or others? Reply with your response to #dailysexdiscussion

Before and Beyond Fifty Shades of Grey: New Approaches to Erotic Romance FictionDeadline: February 1, 2013 Since the 1970s, both the content and the institutional practices surrounding erotic romance fiction have been transformed. The remarkable popularity of E. L. James’s Fifty Shades of Grey trilogy has brought a number those transformations to light, not just in terms of the novels’ BDSM-inflected sexual content (old news in the romance world) but also in their publishing history, moving from online Twilight fan-fiction to e-book format to paperback bestsellers. Yet the world of erotic romance fiction extends far beyond Fifty Shades—not just historically …

Daily Sex Discussion #72What is the one thing that can turn you on instantly, even if you aren’t even thinking about sex?Reply with your response to #dailysexdiscussion

Call for Submissions for “Wild Shifters” anthology.Pink Petal Books, a high-quality boutique publisher, is actively searching for erotic short stories between 7k-15k words for an anthology to be released in September 2013. At this time, we are looking for four to six tales for a 50k-word finished electronic and print book. Both published and unpublished authors are welcome.Theme: Wild ShiftersSmokin’ hot pumas, Native American bears, or classic werewolves—we want your shifter romance! Whatever you can dream up, we’re on board as long as you convince us!If you have or are currently working on a story that might be suitable, please …

I’m not gonna lie, I’m about to have the last birthday before my 40th. And again, truth be told, I am a bit distressed about my own libido. I’m busy, I’m tired, I’m sore…and so on. These are all thoughts that are happening more often than not. And this is distressing to me! Which is why I like this article Why Men Lose Their Sexual Libido by Dr. Pamela Spurr. I ain’t givin’ up on this! Sex is far to important to me! Some of the ideas here might seem basic, but they’re good to be reminded of. All too …

…is the people I have to talk to about the books.I was at a party the other night, and whenever it comes up that I write/organize around/enjoy erotica, the topic necessarily turns to THE BOOKS. Of course it does. 50 Shades of Grey was once of those once-in-a-lifetime pop culture moments that will long be remembered/referenced/spoofed/derided.Long-time readers (or listeners of Sex City) will know that I don’t have issue with the books, as most “serious” erotica writers/readers do. They are poorly written (many manuscripts are until after editors get a hold of them) and the link between past trauma and …

Call for Submissions for “Hot Rods Hot Bods” anthology.Pink Petal Books, a high-quality boutique publisher, is actively searching for erotic short stories between 7k-15k words for an anthology to be released in July 2013. At this time, we are looking for four to six tales for a 50k-word finished electronic and print book. Both published and unpublished authors are welcome.Theme: Hot Rods Hot BodsDo you have a story about a sexy motorhead and their romantic interest? Is your ripped hero a Nascar driver? Or is your smoldering heroine a title-holding drag racer? We want your story!If you have or are …

Y’all ready for the red season? Hearts and cupids and chocolate? The most romantic day of the whole damn year? Well, I had the chance to chat with Katrina McKay, Owner & Director, Products of Ohhh Canada who is keen to make sure you have romantic and sextacular days all year long! And she’s putting on a fun and fantastic event, Rx for Romance that you are invited to! Draw a heart around February 8th on your calendar then register for free guest list online at www.OhhhRx.eventbrite.com now to attend Rx for Romance at The Spoke Club on Friday, February 8th from 7 PM …

Daily Sex Discussion #71Have you ever lived the cliche of making love on a bearskin rug in front of a roaring fireplace?Reply with your response to #dailysexdiscussion

I still find it remarkable that such a bit deal has been made of this situation. University students are adults, in my opinion, and are going to explore sexuality in many ways.The CBC even picked it up, including a comment of mine.

Tales of the Black GuardEditor: Nobilis ReedPublisher: Nobilis Erotica podcastPayment: $25 for audio rightsDeadline: Ongoing Nobilis Reed is now accepting submissions for an audio (and possibly ebook) anthology titled “Tales of the Black Guard.” The basic idea for these stories is laid out in the foundation story, “The Lady in Black,” which is episode 259 of the Nobilis Erotica podcast. These are erotic BDSM stories set in a space opera setting. If you have not listened to that episode, please do not submit your story. If your story is not erotic, do not submit your story. If your story does …

Daily Sex Discussion #70Have you ever used your singing skills to woo someone into bed?Reply with your response to #dailysexdiscussion

Many thanks to Venus Envy for having Patrick Califia on board as an advice columnist with Love Taps. He’s definitely one of the best around. Cornered Into the Big Girls

Best of 2012! Camille Crimson’s Top 10 Places to Give a Blowjob (NSFW)The End of Courtship?Sex shop decision will ‘open the floodgates to illegal trade’Last Tango in Paris: 40 years later, sexual controversy isn’t so controversial any moreThe Facts About Women and OrgasmAfternoon DelightTalk to Your Partner About Sex…and Reap the BenefitsCondoms in Porn? Just Another Day at Wicked PicturesThe Newest Sex Toys Make Pleasure Serious BusinessOKCupid releases ‘Crazy Blind Dates’ appErotic Webcomics 101Seniors online datingCleis Press and Viva Editions Announces Release of E-Treats: E-Book OriginalsSex Without Borders: Public ResponseSundance 2013: Let’s talk about sexSweden: Mandatory Sterilization of Transgender People …

James Deen is quite the character.I was introduced to his blog while back, and I find it so contradictory. It annoys me that he can’t use capital letters, isn’t keen on grammar and frequently starts his posts with something about fucking a porn star.But then, he’ll mix some incredible insight into the industry, or personalities or life in general in there, on both the blog and in other interviews.If we were to meet, I think I’d be both bothered by him and entirely enamoured of him.Funny, I also am not sure if I’ve ever seen his work. Probably, but I’m …

Best Gay Erotica 2014Editor: Larry DuplechanCleis Press