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Yup, Josh Bowman pretty much nails it with this list of the stages we go through after a break-up. I’ve got to add this one in there too: 4a. The Gossip: Getting the word out there that YOU were wronged, YOU did nothing wrong, and that the other is entirely to blame for the failed relationship. Of course, none of us will want to admit to doing this…but everyone does…

I wish I could go! But, here’s the info if you’re on the fence. Looks like a fantastic weekend. Check out the amazing line-up of speakers!

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Daily Sex Discussion #97 What is the longest-lasting sexual relationship you have had? Reply with your response to #dailysexdiscussion

Are you just out of a relationship? I’ve heard a good many end right around Valentine’s Day. If you are single and ready to mingle, take a read of Jen Kirsh’s advice to getting back into the game. I guess I hear what she’s saying, even though I can’t say I ever been on a real date. I am serious. I have somehow gotten to be almost 40, into my 4th significant relationship and I’ve been on what most people would consider a date. In one instance, we knew each for sometime and then just got together. In two others, …

I am definitely going to use Dr. Trina Read’s “frozen muffin” analogy. In relation to sex and life in general. But I need to add something to it: don’t always be the one who thaws the muffins. Trina noted how the hug she gave helped to abate the situation. However, all too often one person in a relationship takes on that role. And the other, sometimes ignorantly, sometimes deliberately, embraces the role of never having to ‘break.’ This can be just as bad, if not worse than just having it out once in a while. Anger and resentment will fester …

Check out the amazing line-up for The Feminist Porn Conference! We are so thrilled to announce that the following presenters have been confirmed for The Feminist Porn Conference at University of Toronto on April 6, 2013 as part of the 2013 Feminist Porn Awards festivities. Registration is open now. Special Programs Include: “Lesbo Retro: A Dyke Porn Retrospective” and Q&A with groundbreaking lesbian pornographers Nan Kinney of Fatale Media and Shar Rednour of S.I.R. Video Productions Special Documentary Screening and Q&A with Shine Louise Houston, head of Pink + White Productions, Heavenly Spire, and Pink Label VOD Keynote Luncheon featuring …

In a long-term relationship? Want to be? Watch this. Watch it over and over.

Very interesting street-side interviews with a bunch of different guys. Particularly the sections about porn and whether men talk to their friends about sex. I’m not sure if it was because this is shoot in Toronto and features stereotypical Toronto politeness or that they just managed to find a very progressive cross-section of men to talk to. Maybe a bit of both?This snippet of survery is part of a book project by Elana Millman called Man on Top on the broader subject of manliness. I’m curious to read more. The idea of what is “manly” is certainly up for debate …

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It is refreshing to see a significant and even-handed article about BDSM and the legalities of pro domme work. Right down to how reporter Wendy Gillis came across Miss Barbie Bitch. She was walking her dog, you know, just how anyone else would.Overall the article is a fair and non-sensationalized depiction of Miss Barbie. She’s a woman who lives in a condo. She has two grown children. She is a pro domme.While it could use further elavoration, the overview of the legalites of BDSM work and play is appreciated. If you’re going to get into these activities, you should know …

The Why of Power Workshop at Come As You Are february 27, 2013 With JP Robichaud Power and influence can take many forms in modern society, especially in BDSM relationships. While the give and take of power exchange can be thrilling and rewarding, it also comes with certain dangers, not to mention some potentially unhealthy cultural and historical baggage. The lure of power can be confusing, or disturbing, or even frightening, and we have so few narratives about how to engage with it with care, consideration and respect. In many ways, the question to ask is not how to play …

Daily Sex Discussion #96 What facial feature do you think says the most about a person’s sex personality? Reply with your response to #dailysexdiscussion

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Need to give your sex life a little boost? A kickstart? A kick in the boost?Check out this upcoming workshop by Ohhh Canada’s Katrina McKay! Save my Sex Workshop: Fun & Spicy Ways to Get Out of a Sexual RutHave you fallen into a boring routine, and now want to re-inject some excitement back into your sex life? Or just not having enough sex for your liking? Join Katrina McKay, owner of Ohhh Canada in a playful and thoughtful interactive (but not TOO interactive – don’t worry) workshop on how put to the “zing” back into your bedroom play. Get …

Upcoming Calls For Submission from Silver Publishing Bearly Possible Theme: Bears, Bulls, and Cubs, oh my! Everyone knows the stereotype of a gay man; the designer clothes wearing, musical loving, trimmed, tweak and buffed, body-conscious, svelte image of today’s popular cultural outlets. But we know that’s not the whole story because gay or not everyone is individual in their tastes, desires and appearance. We are looking for stories that express the tastes of those in the bear subculture.This subcultural has grown by astronomical proportion and while the terms are many, BEAR seems to sum it up best. Bears, muscle-bears, leather-bears, …

Daily Sex Discussion #95 Do you have a favourite lube? Reply with your response to #dailysexdiscussion