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The busier I get, the more exhaustsed I get, the worse my sleep is. This has never made sense to me. I long for a night of 6 solid, uninterrupted hours of sleep.Instead, I wake up am average of 5-10 times/night. During those 6 hours I am in bed.Going to bed earlier doesn’t help, I just wake up earlier. Can’t sleep in to save my life. The commute does”t help and bipolar is surely a factor.And now it is affecting my sex life.Thankfully my libido is still strong, but it is very frustrating when my body just chooses to go …

Sleep Issues & Sex: How To Balance? Read More

I had no idea, but this important day is tomorrow, Saturday January 12! The amazing Derek Forgie, who I’ve been lucky enough to interview on Sex City, started this day in 2009 after the infamous “Kick A Ginger” bit on South Park. I am lucky enough to kiss a ginger very day. More here And gratuitous hot Gingers!  

National Kiss A Ginger Day! Jan 12! Read More

LOVE this from Nerve (found on their Facebook). Apparently part of a Grade 12er’s art project.

Brilliant image from Nerve.com Read More

The Bears of WinterEditor: Jerry L. WheelerPublisher: Bear Bones Books imprint of Lethe PressDeadline: September 1, 2013Payment: Three cents a word. The Bears of Winter will be available in ebook and print form. Lethe Press takes world rights (same as First North American Serial rights, only it’s expanded to boundaries other than North America) Bears don’t just hibernate in winter anymore. You’ll still find them in caves, but now they’re surrounded by big screen plasma TVs, iPads, and the latest in technology. Even so, they venture out in the cold and ice for food, fun, and romance. I’m looking for …

Call for Submissions: The Bears of Winter Read More

Daily Sex Discussion #61 Have you ever had sex in water?Reply with your response to #dailysexdiscussion

Daily Sex Discussion #61: Water Sex? Read More

I just came across Cory Silverberg’s Sexual Losses 2012 post on his about.com Sexuality page.  Cory is one of the best in the field of sex education and sexuality discussion and I am so grateful he put this list together (and has been doing so for a few years now). These people have all made a difference and it is important to recognize and continue their work. I wasn’t even aware that some of these wonderful folks had passed. 

Sexual Losses 2012 Read More

Hahahahahahahahaha! Sex toys ad mailed by mistake: Canada Post But seriously, why can’t ads like that be sent in the mail? I don’t want to receive 95% of the junk mail I receive. I live in suburbia, I get so many flyers and ads in my mailbox, for so many products I’m not at all interested in. So, I recycle them! If people receive an ad for something from Adam & Eve and Bree Olson, well, chuck it if you don’t want to partake in that offer! Enough of segregating sex from the public Canada Post!

Oh my! Look at that package! Canada Post and Porn Read More

I have been a member of Fetlife since its early days. I think the membership was still in the low-hundreds. Love the site, always have.However, I have frequently gone long stretches of not using the site…at all.I recently wandered back to increase awareness of this blog and have been back daily for a while. But every time I log in I log at a profile photo that isn’t me.Okay, yes it is me, but it doesn’t feel like me these days. When people talk about change and evolution, I am completely on board. Particularly when it comes to sex. I …

On Profile Accuracy and Community Sexual Relations Read More