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Daily Sex Discussion #646 What sex activity that you haven’t tried would you most like to try? Reply with your response to #DailySexDiscussion

Daily Sex Discussion #646: Really Wanna Try? Read More

I’ve been tossing this fascinating article on kink as a sexual orientation around in my noodle for a few days now. Frankly, I see valid points from both the kink and queer communities. But that isn’t what I’ve been thinking about. Admittedly, I’ve gotten sidetracked here, but what I am having trouble with is the author’s use of the term ‘kink’ to mean ‘BDSM’ and vice versa. This is something, usually quite subtle, that I’ve noticed over the years. And I don’t think it is accurate—fundamentally or practically. The general definition of kink is simply one’s sexual taste or preference. …

BDSM Is Not (the only) Kink Read More

Apparently, lesbians have the most orgasms among women. Gay and straight dudes come in about the same. Nice to see that bi folk were considered.

Lesbians and Orgasms Read More

Although my experience was brief and mostly limited to the amateur situations I performed in, I can readily concur with Chauntelle Tibbals experience observing a dude perform on a porn set. I definitely think more could be written and discussed when it comes to equality in porn production.

Men in Porn Production? Read More

Daily Sex Discussion #645 What one work would you use to describe your sexual mood RIGHT NOW? Reply with your response to #DailySexDiscussion

Daily Sex Discussion #645: Right Now Sex Mood? Read More

SUBSPACE HALLOWEEN FETISH BALL 2014 Friday, October 31at 10:00pm – 3:00am The Opera House735 Queen Street East, Toronto HALLOWEEN!!!!!!!!!!! October 31st! Yes on actual Halloween night!! As if that’s not cool enough check this out…. From Miranda Tempest, JD Spark and Poisonne of Illumianir Entertainment comes act sure to appeal to your most twisted sensibilities..A world premiere of a new circus act that has to be seen to be believed. Daring aerial work combined with explosive fire effects and suspension bondage combine to create an act that will make Halloween 2014 the most memorable Subspace Halloween Ball yet! Joshua Mayhem …

SUBSPACE HALLOWEEN FETISH BALL 2014 Read More

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Sheri Winston’s Succulent Sexcraft—Super Sexy Sale EXTENDED! Read More

Great to have all these collected on one page!

The Best Sex-related Ted Talks Read More

I included the Gay Men Draw Vaginas link in a recent edition of Sex News! I love it! but I will admit I was uncomfortable with it. Thing is, I often include news items I am uncomfortable with because the post is supposed to promote conversation. So I am quite happy to read Eva Gantz’s tremendous reconsideration of Gay Men Draw Vaginas. She touches on much of what made me queasy, including proper terminology, vagina as monster and trans exclusion. A must read!

Reconsidering Gay Men Draw Vaginas Read More

It is very important to start discussion about sex for older folks. Some have never had the opportunity to speak openly about sex. Now there is a significant opportunity to bring that conversation forward, particularly issues regarding sexual health.

Older People Talking About Sex Read More