I’ve loved receiving anal pleasure for a long, long time. There are many things I could write about it, and I surely will write more over time. But I do have a tip that I want to share:
If you play with a man’s ass, externally or internally, be prepared to watch his cock shrink and become flaccid.
Now, this might seem completely contradictory or that I am suggesting men don’t like ass play. No, no, no! Many men absolutely love bum fun and that is the point. It feels so good, so good, that the brain and body concentrate on that wonderful sensation happening around the back door.
As a result, the penis gives way, says, “Hey, you go and lap that up!” The blood leaves the cock and it goes limp. However, not every man’s penis reacts this way, this is not a strict rule of cock/ass relations.
When this happens, I can understand the mixed visual message. I’ve had partners question whether I was liking what they were doing. I reacted with significant shock, until I made the connection. Now I readily put it out there before we even get going. I am always appreciative of people providing me pleasure and I don’t want anyone to have a negative association with our play.
At the same time, guys, don’t be confused about your reaction. If you’re loving it back there, just relax and take it in. Don’t worry if you’re not “presenting” your pleasure. There are lots of other ways to show that you are loving it.
