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This Wednesday we will welcome, via Skype award-winning author Desiree Holt, a 76 year old grandmother who puts E. L. James to shame. Holt writes for Ellora’s Cave, the premier publisher of erotic romance, which combines the conventions of traditional romance with more frequent sex scenes and common vernacular in place of outdated euphemisms. Holt has more than 130 titles under her belt. Toronto Erotica Writers and Readers Wednesday November 287-10pmTequila Bookworm512 Queen St. West, Toronto$5 cover The Toronto Erotica Writer and Readers Meetup returns Wednesday November 28! Join us for a great, sexy and saucy evening of smutty words and …

The latest edition of Corset Magazine has just been released! And I am delighted that my story “Rip” is included in the The Kink & BDSM Issue There’s a special deal, if you subscribe now, you’ll get this new issue FREE!

Daily Sex Discussion #15: Given the growth of awareness of safer sex in society over the last 30 years, did you use a condom your first time you had sex (however you’d like to define that)? Reply at #dailysexdiscussion

Daily Sex Discussion #14: Do you take it, or give it, up the ass? Reply at #dailysexdiscussion

Check out my round-up of sex news every Sunday morning! People Happier With Sex and Alcohol Than Kids and Faith: Study Sex Toy Sales Up In Canada Due To NHL Lockout, Retailers Say When Bi Celebrities Get Married SexPlusCinema: Darryl’s Hard Liquor and Porn Festival The shock of the (male) nude XO Video: Anal Play The Evolutionary Mystery of Homosexuality Anti-prostitution link brings people to porn site Kickin’ it way too old-school To shave or not to shave. If you want to get laid, that’s the question! How to Talk Sexy (and Not Sound Stupid) Backstage Pass: Sex, samosas and …

Daily Sex Discussion #13 Did your parents or guardians give you the “sex talk” when you were growing up? Post your answers to #dailysexdiscussion

Many thanks to Lover for helping to get the word out! Prostate Passion Workshop – For fun and for a good cause!

Daily Sex Discussion #12: Have you ever tried sex with more than one person at once (threesome, foursome, moresome)? Reply at hashtag #dailysexdiscussion

Daily Sex Discussion #11: Do you identify as a Dominant, submissive, Switch or none of the above? Reply with the hashtag #dailysexdiscussion

Daily Sex Discussion #10: If you had to choose between the two, would you rather have a really good meal or really good sex? Reply to the hashtag #dailysexdiscussion

Toronto – This Movember, Come As You Are, Toronto’s premier sex toy boutique and co-operative is hosting their popular Prostate Pleasure workshop, while raising funds for prostate cancer and male mental health initiatives. Each ticket purchased will see five dollars contributed to the 2012 campaign. To date, $42 million has been raised for Movember’s men’s health partner, Prostate Cancer Canada and 246,946 Canadians have participated – this is their sixth annual campaign. Prostate Pleasure WorkshopProstate massage has been much lauded for its noted health benefits. This workshop covers anatomy, techniques, and health benefits—while at the same time showcasing the incredible …

On the way home from Montreal on the weekend, the tool lady and I got into a long, long conversation about D/s relationships, and whether we’d possibly want to explore that. We talked about the intricacies, the psychology, the activities, her past, my past. It was quite a talk! We came up with some definite boundaries (this will be a sex thing, not a daily life/24/7 thing), there are some boundaries that are flexible, and there are some that will definitely be pushed.Personally, I’ve flirted around D/s activities and interest for years. This is fairly new for her. It will, …

Daily Sex Discussion #9 Do you have a fetish that is strong enough that it is involved in most or all of your sexual activity?

Daily Sex Discussion #8: Have you ever considered purchasing the services of a sex worker? Reply on Twitter with #dailysexdiscussion

Toronto Erotica Writers and Readers Wednesday November 287-10pmTequila Bookworm512 Queen St. West, Toronto$5 cover The Toronto Erotica Writer and Readers Meetup returns Wednesday November 28! Join us for a great, sexy and saucy evening of smutty words and wicked writing!7:30pm – Discussion: TBD 8:15pm – Pervert’s Practice writing exercise9:00pm – ORAL: Adventures in Erotica Open Mic Be sure to check here and the Facebook group for breaking details.

Daily Sex Discussion #7 Do you regularly include food in your sexual activities?

This is my weekly round-up of sex and sex-related news pieces I’ve come across. It is always a blend of news that will surprise, sensationalize and hopefully destigmatize.  ‘The moment I realised I was asexual’ Lessons Learned at Playground Six Creepy Assumptions In “Five Things Men Do To Ruin Their Own Sex Lives” ‘Female Viagra’ may help women reach orgasm Empowering to the Women on Screen Dominatrix for a day ‘I Know You Better Than You Know Yourself:’ Why Men Cheat With Their Biographers Male sex workers’ support program stronger than ever Video: The XXXmas Gift Guide Seeing Red: Does …

Daily Sex Discussion #6 Did you wake beside someone new this morning?

Tonight! So looking forward to this! It has been a while since I’ve had a night on the town. And that that town is going to be Montreal makes it even better! Fifty shades of Candyass A deliteful tasty mix of artists to stir the senses and the loins on a cold November night with sexy sensual performances . Introducing MC Sonia Kawasaki and Velma Candyass Wear your favorite shade of grey ! Ever so pleased to have on board: The sublime Diane Labelle baladi dancer Drag King extraordinaire Nat King Pole The magical Mexican Mime Millie the puppet and …

Daily Sex Discussion #5: We all know that communication is key for sexual compatibility. But have you ever expressed a desire to a partner and then been denied that fantasy? How did you react?