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On the way home from Montreal on the weekend, the tool lady and I got into a long, long conversation about D/s relationships, and whether we’d possibly want to explore that. We talked about the intricacies, the psychology, the activities, her past, my past. It was quite a talk! We came up with some definite boundaries (this will be a sex thing, not a daily life/24/7 thing), there are some boundaries that are flexible, and there are some that will definitely be pushed.Personally, I’ve flirted around D/s activities and interest for years. This is fairly new for her. It will, …

Long car rides, long talks, new beginnings Read More

Daily Sex Discussion #9 Do you have a fetish that is strong enough that it is involved in most or all of your sexual activity?

Daily Sex Discussion #9: Fetish Read More

Daily Sex Discussion #8: Have you ever considered purchasing the services of a sex worker? Reply on Twitter with #dailysexdiscussion

Daily Sex Discussion #8: Paying for it? Read More

Toronto Erotica Writers and Readers Wednesday November 287-10pmTequila Bookworm512 Queen St. West, Toronto$5 cover The Toronto Erotica Writer and Readers Meetup returns Wednesday November 28! Join us for a great, sexy and saucy evening of smutty words and wicked writing!7:30pm – Discussion: TBD 8:15pm – Pervert’s Practice writing exercise9:00pm – ORAL: Adventures in Erotica Open Mic Be sure to check here and the Facebook group for breaking details.

Toronto Erotica Writers and Readers Meetup—November 28! Read More

Daily Sex Discussion #7 Do you regularly include food in your sexual activities?

Daily Sex Discussion #7: Tasty Treats? Read More

This is my weekly round-up of sex and sex-related news pieces I’ve come across. It is always a blend of news that will surprise, sensationalize and hopefully destigmatize.  ‘The moment I realised I was asexual’ Lessons Learned at Playground Six Creepy Assumptions In “Five Things Men Do To Ruin Their Own Sex Lives” ‘Female Viagra’ may help women reach orgasm Empowering to the Women on Screen Dominatrix for a day ‘I Know You Better Than You Know Yourself:’ Why Men Cheat With Their Biographers Male sex workers’ support program stronger than ever Video: The XXXmas Gift Guide Seeing Red: Does …

Sex News! I love it! Read More

Daily Sex Discussion #6 Did you wake beside someone new this morning?

Daily Sex Discussion #6: Good Morning! Read More

Tonight! So looking forward to this! It has been a while since I’ve had a night on the town. And that that town is going to be Montreal makes it even better! Fifty shades of Candyass A deliteful tasty mix of artists to stir the senses and the loins on a cold November night with sexy sensual performances . Introducing MC Sonia Kawasaki and Velma Candyass Wear your favorite shade of grey ! Ever so pleased to have on board: The sublime Diane Labelle baladi dancer Drag King extraordinaire Nat King Pole The magical Mexican Mime Millie the puppet and …

Fifty Shades of Candyass! Read More

Daily Sex Discussion #5: We all know that communication is key for sexual compatibility. But have you ever expressed a desire to a partner and then been denied that fantasy? How did you react?

Daily Sex Discussion #5: Access Denied! Read More

I’ll be at Montreal’s Expozine this coming Saturday selling my Choose Your Own Sex Adventure books and sexy pins, including the Hanky Code pins! Expozine is one of my favourite events of the year! Check it out!

Sexing up Expozine this weekend! Read More