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Check out this very intriguing and telling rumination on cheating by the excellent Claire Litton-Cohn. Some will say we’re hard-wired for monogamy and others will argue the opposite. Some will say that cheating is damaging to relationships, others will call it finding a different type of fulfilment. Some consider flirting cheating, some establish long-lasting loving relationships that involve plenty of outside booty. So many different people, so many different personalities, so many different needs, so many different expectation.

Infidelity, By Any Other Name… Read More

Yup, that happened.  When did speedos become too provocative? I’m not about to get into any kind of body-shaming, but I have never heard of anyone taking issue with men’s swimwear of any sort. Well, not since the 1920 or so. Women have been unduly critiqued for what they might wear in to a beach or water park for as long as there have been beaches and water parks. Is a Speedo not family-friendly? Does that mean Olympic athletes will be forced to wear full-length coverings from now on or risk an R-rating on TV?

Porn Star Kicked Out Of Water Park For Wearing A Speedo Read More

I can’t wait to get a hold of this collection from the Center for Sex and Culture! Watch the video and read the description—there is a fantastic array of writers in this book. Consider funding Sex Still Spoken Here: The Erotic Reading Circle Anthology!

Sex Still Spoken Here: The Erotic Reading Circle Anthology Fundraising Read More

This is a stunning story of pushing yourself and your partner sexually. It shows the importance of having and using a safeword…but there is something beyond that. I relate to Cara Sutra here—and not just because I’ve tried a similar experience with being fisted myself. I wanted so much to see how far I could take my body, how much I could endure. Desperately. That desire might have actually transcended the actual act. It was quite a remarkable experience.

Pushing Yourself Sexually. Read More

This sounds like an AMAZING project!  Consider funding Sheona McDonald and Candida Royalle as they bring you Candida/Candice’s remarkable story.

WHILE YOU WERE GONE The Untold Story of Candida Royalle Kickstarter! Read More

Daily Sex Discussion #603 Do you think glasses are an addition or detriment to someone’s attractiveness? Reply with your response to #DailySexDiscussion

Daily Sex Discussion #603: Glasses? Read More

Check out this excellent piece by Kirsten Koza on the need for sex education reform. I am glad there are Canadians out there trying to make a difference.  I love this statement: “Kids need to be empowered with knowledge about their own sexuality. Making it all negative is more likely going to screw up their future relationships and attitudes about something which is one of the best parts of being human — having a great big fabulous orgasm with another person.

Time to Reform Sex Ed in Schools Read More

You mean sex would be full of whiners, overrated and boring as all hell?

If Sex Were Like the World Cup… Read More

This is a very intriguing piece comparing the current governmental assault on sex work to past social deviances—masturbation and homosexuality. Where will this end? What else is a deviance? And most importantly…why aren’t we allowed to deviate from someone else’s morality?

Latest Deviance Target: Sex Work Read More

I am so glad someone has stood up to a foolish Canadian school board about ridiculous sex ed in their high school. More and more and more of this please!

True, Responsible Sex Ed Please! Read More