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What is male chastity?
The basic concept is focused around using a device to limit or prevent a man from achieving orgasm easily. It is often used for training, to maintain control or as a form or dominance. Sometimes it may even be all three. This is a fun kink that is quite simple to carry out and can be a lot of fun and very exciting for all parties. Chastity can be a lifestyle for some couples or even poly-groups and can even be practiced solo. It may be something you want to try once, a constant fantasy to be played out or part of a D/s relationship. However your chastity dynamic plays out, there are a few things that are important to figure out right at the start.
The feelings attached
Step one is consent.
If you are playing with someone else, no matter the dynamic, both people and groups of people need to be fully aware of all the risks involved and any limits that are being imposed. There should always be a safe word for use in emergencies. You need to be able to trust the person you are playing with. This goes for both sides, the person in Chastity and the one holding the key. The discussion needs to be held right at the start before any play begins. The reasons behind chastity play are many but the ultimate goal for most is pleasure. The pleasure could be from the control and submission, from making your partner happy without the option of taking care of your own sexual needs or the enjoyment of intense orgasm after a period of denial. Offering someone else control over your genitals and your pleasure can be an extremely powerful thing. There is actual scientific fact behind the benefits of chastity such as prolonged, stronger orgasms and a feeling of well being that can last for days afterwards.
Picking a device
Make sure you have picked out a suitable device once all the conversations required have been had and you are ready to go ahead with chastity.
Choose a device that is body safe and customizable to make sure you get a good fit. Groom well before fitting and use plenty lube to get in to the device. Don’t wear it for long the first time. Spend a few weeks slowly increasing your time in the device including sleeping in it until you are used to the feeling and can wear it for up to a week at a time. It is important to remove it at least once a week for a good clean for both yourself and the chastity device. Make sure you read up on hygiene, bathroom use and so forth so that you stay healthy and clean while wearing your chastity device.
How to play
Some play ideas can include tease and denial where your partner gets you worked up but does not allow for orgasm. Or you could be released from your cage, brought to the edge of orgasm and then locked up without being allowed to climax. Your partner may choose to use a device to milk your prostrate instead of letting you have a full blown orgasm.
Chastity can be used to reduce the amount of time you spend on your own sexual fulfillment and channel it in to pleasing your partner instead. There are many fun games that can be played while in chastity including humiliation, exhibitionism, masochism and even feminization. It is up to your imagination and of course your partners if you are not enjoying solo chastity. The main thing is, have fun and play safe!
