I was completely turned off by the title of this piece (a clever trick by Thomas Fiffer!) and almost didn’t read it, but I am glad I did! These three things that men want in bed is personally relatable and, I think, relevant to a lot of other blokes out there. Why are these three things not discussed by men? Because they move into levels of intimacy men think they can’t/shouldn’t experience and their partners think the same way. Intimacy can be a great connection…which can equal better sex for all.