Whatchya, Whatchya, Whatchya Want—In Bed!

Great article!
We are so conditioned to not talk about sex that when it comes time to actually express our desires and ask for what we want, many people find themselves unable or unskilled. As Danielle and Celeste note in their great example of ‘Sean and Carmen,’ guilt over a “tit for tat” type of arrangement can happen. Other issues can come into play, including fear of judgement and insecurity. The key to working these out is through clear, open communication with your partner of your needs and desires. Be sure to also check out the great video by Dr. Logan Levkoff and Dr. Ian Kerne.