In the very little porn I’ve done, when I was the male participant for a featured female performer, I was fine with the idea of being the prop or stunt cock. There was no focus on me because she was the, rightful, focus.
However, this line of thinking can diminish the role of male performers in porn. While you may be a prop, one shouldn’t be thought of as a prop.
Rightly so, more has been said and written of the treatment of and culture of women in porn, but this list provides a bit of information into the world of porn from the perspective of male performers.