The Great Thing About Fantasies

I greatly appreciate the advice Dr. Kristen Mark offers here about the role and potential for fantasies. The belief that, if we are monogamous, we must only think of our partner for the rest of our lives is very disconcerting. But it gained so much traction through years of sexual repression.
Now we are starting to understand that fantasizing about others is not only natural but also positively stimulating. We all want to feel sexy, and to feel sexy we try to think sexy thoughts. Varying up those thoughts, in actions or people, will create the thrill of variety without involving infidelity.