This is the straight up deal folks. The great big “circle of relationship” life.
Personally, I love the risk-taking part—something I was never, ever good at. I have, on occasion, thought about all of the potential that I missed along the way. People I might have had a good connection with, adventures I might have had…all because I was too damn shy. Or afraid. Or just plain not noticing obvious signals and flirting (seriously, it is a wonder I’ve ever gotten laid, I have so little ability to see these things).
Fortunately, it all worked out for me and I am wickedly happy. Hopefully Dan’s guide can work for you!