I like the idea of communicating “what are you into?” and I like how Dan presents the idea. Some of the assumptions and stereotypes about straight sex are troubling though. Yes, I am sure he sees a lot of reader letters that are troubling, but there is far too much painting with the same brush here. End rant.
Instead, I do hope we can all focus on this idea of What Are You Into? It is a great concept. Even if you’re in a long-term relationship, ask your partner that simple question the next time you’re having sex. It is so simple and direct, he or she just might surprise you.
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