Sounding is a rarely referenced practice that just doesn’t come up much in casual conversation. Good friend of this blog and editor of xoxoamore, Erika Szabo is leading a workshop on this curious and delightful sexual adventure at Come As You Are. Today she gives us some basics.
What is sounding?
Sounding refers to urethral sounding, a medical use where a probe is inserted into the urethra. Although it’s generally done for medical reasons, it’s also becoming a popular form of medical play, commonly called urethral play. I know the thought of putting something up your peehole (piss slit, whatever you like) can seem a little cringe-worthy but the sensation is actually quite amazing!
Sounding refers to urethral sounding, a medical use where a probe is inserted into the urethra. Although it’s generally done for medical reasons, it’s also becoming a popular form of medical play, commonly called urethral play. I know the thought of putting something up your peehole (piss slit, whatever you like) can seem a little cringe-worthy but the sensation is actually quite amazing!
What types of instruments should be used?
You would typically use a stainless steel or silicone sounding rod or penis plug, something non-porous is a must. There are many styles and sizes out there (i.e. Hegar, Pratt, Van Buren, Rosebud), it’s just a matter of finding what’s best for you. Remember, start small and work your way up to a size and style that makes you comfortable.
What sensations does it produce?
Oh wow, that’s a tricky one. Because there are so many nerve endings in the urethral sponge, the sensation can be pretty intense to the point where it feels almost tingly. For women, the area known commonly as the “G-Spot” is actually part of the urethral sponge so just imagine that sensation—but all around. It’s something all its own, and a sensation more people need to experience.
Oh wow, that’s a tricky one. Because there are so many nerve endings in the urethral sponge, the sensation can be pretty intense to the point where it feels almost tingly. For women, the area known commonly as the “G-Spot” is actually part of the urethral sponge so just imagine that sensation—but all around. It’s something all its own, and a sensation more people need to experience.
Are there any dangers?
Yes, UTIs and urethral tearing are some dangers, but as long as you practice urethral play with care it’s very easy to avoid. Clean your rods carefully, use plenty of water-based lubes without preservatives, urinate before and after play and, for good measure, wear latex or vegan latex gloves.
How were you introduced to sounding?
Last spring I spoke to a friend of mine about sounding and was immediately interested, even if a little reluctant and squeemish. Those feelings quickly turned into a deep curiousity and, luckily, my boyfriend Brad was just as interested as I was! Not long after, he bought me a double sided Hegar for my birthday and I was amazed by the sensation. It’s a passion, a fetish and something I’m a strong advocate for. I really hope that I can help open up others to it as well!
Last spring I spoke to a friend of mine about sounding and was immediately interested, even if a little reluctant and squeemish. Those feelings quickly turned into a deep curiousity and, luckily, my boyfriend Brad was just as interested as I was! Not long after, he bought me a double sided Hegar for my birthday and I was amazed by the sensation. It’s a passion, a fetish and something I’m a strong advocate for. I really hope that I can help open up others to it as well!
For the Love of Sounding takes place Sunday June 9, 5:30–7:30pm at Come As You Are (493 Queen St. W., Toronto). Registration is $25.
