What a great video from one of my fav sex talkers Cynthia Loyst.
Why do we put such an emphasis, in society, on losing virginity? I have always wondered about this.
And I can’t help bit think that if the messaging were toned down, then more people would have positive first experiences because they have made a better decision. Maybe, instead of waiting until marriage, he has a one night stand. Or instead of fucking at some bush party, she opts for a threesome.
Sexuality is becoming more and more open, possibly making the choice to not have sex, or to only have specific kinds of sex more contentious. From both the mainstream and sex-positive camps. Quite perplexing!
