I can be pretty damn cavalier when it comes to giving advice about body issue, especially considering the privilege of my male body. I am a moderately short, moderately pudgy, formerly pierced and mohawked punk. Because of all of this I am just one big FUCK YOU to anyone who doesn’t approve of how I look.
I wish everyone could be like that…but I do recognize our different needs.
However, ladies, if the person you’re fucking can’t handle some flab and some boob sag, then you shouldn’t try to hide it, you should question why it is you’re fucking that unappreciative ingrate at all! I just can’t get into this modify/change/cover yourself for fear of turning someone else off.
Now, if the issue is your own dislike of said flab and sag then that is something for you to work on. And surely that is a difficult issue. In which case, Dr. Spurr is absolutely correct to remind us that guys don’t care. Really, it is true. Don’t bother trying to hide anything because we definitely want to see it all.
