Sexual fantasy is concept I have always found quite fascinating. Particularly because I have known people who (and I do believe them) are highly sexual but who do not fantasize. That sounds incongruous to me, but this is what they say.
At the same time? I’ve also known people whose whole sex life is based on fantasy, with a distinct lack of required reality.
The article, Top Nine Female Sexual Fantasies, raises some great points about fantasy in general. Mainly, I appreciate how people are dissuaded from expressing their fantasies—to friends, partners, for fear of being thought of badly.Whether you choose to discuss what you want in your sex life if, obviously a personal decision, but if you fear being able to discuss these thoughts and feelings, especially with a partner, then you need to think long and hard about what you have with that person. Perhaps it is something they are doing, such as making you feel unwelcome in sharing. Perhaps you have trust issues.
