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Daily Sex Discussion #31 Have you, or do you currently, use online hook-up sites for sexual encounters? Reply with your response to #dailysexdiscussion

Daily Sex Discussion #30 Do you still get turned on and into sex—even if you’re under the weather? Reply with your answer to #dailysexdiscussion

Daily Sex Discussion #29 Have you ever stolen away from a work or family gathering for a bathroom quickie? Reply with your answer to #dailysexdiscussion

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Daily Sex Discussion #28 Do you cuddle after sex? Reply with your thoughts to #dailysexdiscussion

Check out my weekly round-up of sex news, every Sunday! The Utility of Rape Porn Women & HIV The Date Whisperer New Love: A Short Shelf Life Episode 10 – Sex With No Regrets I Never Want to Have Sex Again Why Do Geeks Like Kinky Sex? Naked Bondage Sex Game Mistaken For Kidnapping: Stephanie Pelzner, Nikolas Harbar Arrested Men with erection problems are 3 times more likely to have inflamed gums Sex sells: is it empowering that marketers are now selling sex to women? Friends with benefits have healthier, safer sex Florida woman Gretchen Molannen afflicted with rare sexual …

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I’m going back to my roots, folks.Back when I worked on the site-that-will-not-be-named, I had a lot of success with interviewing people. From my years on Sex City and that work, I think I, humbly, think I am pretty decent at it. So, I’m going to start featuring the people I love to read these days: sex & erotica bloggers. After moderating the panel on sex bloggers at Playground in November, and becoming friends with those on the panel, I really started to expand the roster of who I read. And I have found some fantastic bloggers out there who …

Daily Sex Discussion #27 Do you give names to your sex toys? Reply with your thoughts to #dailysexdiscussion

My fellow sex writers: Are you able to write about sex when you’re stressed about other things in your life?I think I’d be more able to do it if I were under a paying deadline, but right now I’ve got all of these ideas…but other matters are taking my mind away from them.In the past I’ve been able to write on other topics or subjects even when I’ve been busy or preoccupied.Not right now though.I’m hoping it’ll pass soon. I’m hoping it’ll pass today.In the meantime, send me links to hot erotic photos. I’d like some inspiration to write a …

Daily Sex Discussion #26: Do you fantasize about any of your coworkers? Reply with your answer to #dailysexdiscussion

Today we remember the victims of the December 6, 1989 Montreal Massacre: Michele Richard 21Helene Colgan 23Nathalie Croteau 23Maryse Leclair 23 Sonia Pelletier 28 Annie Turcotte 21Maryse Laganiere 25Barbara Daigneault 22 Anne-Marie Lemay 22 Anne-Marie Edward 21Maud Haviernick 29Annie St. Arneault 23Genevieve Bergeron 21Barbara Marie Klueznick 31 More than twenty years later, gender-based violence is still an issue. Marc Lepine’s brutal, misogynistic assault on the École Polytechnique may have opened the discussion of men’s violence against women, but so much still needs to be talked about, considered and most importantly, acted upon.  I have a teenage daughter and a preteen …

Daily Sex Discussion #25 Do you read sexual or sexually explicit books or magazine in public spaces? Reply with your answer to #dailysexdiscussion

I am currently in my second stint as a commuter. These days I split my time between driving from Pickering into Toronto with my partner and taking the GO Train (southern Ontario’s commuter rail network). My former commute, at the beginning of my career, was a mix of driving, buses, and trains. At worst it was 3 hours each way, which I needed to do to get my foot in the door of the publishing industry.I’ve never really minded the travel. The ride in these days is fun, chatting, listening to the radio and drinking tea. On the train I …

Daily Sex Discussion #24: Do you still keep in touch with the first person you had sex with? Reply with your answer to #dailysexdiscussion

Today’s #dailysexdiscussion, and some subsequent chat with Andee Charm got me thinking about my own relationship with fetish, specifically my own. The question was “Do you have a secret fetish, one that you don’t tell anyone about?” And I guess my answer is “yes”…well…”sort of.” My own fetish isn’t entirely secret because my partner is aware of it and we do engage in it.  But I’ve not discussed it with anyone else. I have, surreptitiously, displayed my own predilection by wearing one of my own Hanky Pins. But it isn’t an obvious flag, so no one figured it out. One …