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Sex Stories We Love: Watching and Wondering, Racial Equality in Porn, Creative Condoms & More!

I really wanted to make the intro to this week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly something along the lines of “Opinions are like assholes, everybody’s got one.” But, that seemed a wee bit crass. To understand why, check out stories on: Watching and Wondering, Racial Equality in Porn, Breast Play 101, Creative Condoms, Porn Pay Fallacy and Game On.

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Fantastic Sex City with Nicole Prause, Phillip Coupal and Fatima from Oasis!

It was a pleasure to feature the following guests on my latest Sex City! Check out this edition of Sex City and learn about sex research, sexual bodywork and the latest from Oasis Aqualounge! Dr. Nicole Prause is a neuroscientist researching human sexual behaviour, addiction, and the physiology of sexual response and the founder of Liberos LLC, an independent research institute. She will talk to us about the difficulties sex researchers face. Phillip Coupal is a traditional Counsellor in bodywork who helps individuals and couples at theAwaken Studio in Toronto. Fatima Mechtab from Oasis Aqualounge joins us again to highlight the …

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Sex Stories We Love: Trans Youth & Pregnancy, the Sweetest Candy, Sexy & Heart Smart & More!

There is so much opportunity out there to discover what sex is for different people, what it does for different people, what it means to different people…how we can learn from all of this. In this week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly, check out stories on Trans Youth and Pregnancy, The Sweetest Candy, Written on the Body, Circumspect? and Sexy and Heart Smart.

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Sex Stories We Love: A Terrible Week, Dressing Up, Erotic Emoji & More!

Folks, there’s no way around it: Last week sucked in sex news. A whole bunch of shitty things happened and it was disheartening. However, out of that poop-pile of a week, more resistance, more backlash more desire to change was shown. And this proves were on the right path for sex. This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly rounds up the bad but moves on to things that are good. Check out stories on A Terrible Week, Dressing Up, Hump Day Bumps, Erotic Emojis, Name is Not a Game and Carnal Canvasses.

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My Next Sex City—Sept 20! With Nicole Prause! Phillip Coupal! Fatima Mechtab!

On TUESDAY September 20, I will welcome some awesome folks to the SEX CITY studios at 11PM ET on 89.5FM in the Toronto area and CIUT.FM streaming live! Dr. Nicole Prause is a neuroscientist researching human sexual behaviour, addiction, and the physiology of sexual response and the founder of Liberos LLC, an independent research institute. She will talk to us about the difficulties sex researchers face. Phillip Coupal is a traditional Counsellor in bodywork who helps individuals and couples at the Awaken Studio in Toronto. Fatima Mechtab from Oasis Aqualounge joins us again to highlight the amazing event coming up at Oasis as we move into autumn. …

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My latest Sex City with Vanessa dr Largie, Luna Matatas & Jerry Barnett!

My latest Sex City was a lot of fun, with some pretty serious talk mixed in. Thank you to my guests for some great talk! Vanessa de Largie is an Australian sex writer and columnist whose work focuses on feminism, fierce female sexuality and women’s issues Luna Matatas told about her sex education work, with a particular focus on CBT (Cock and Ball Torture) Jerry Barnett discussed the controversial state of porn in the UK by telling us about his book Porn Panic! Sex and Censorship in the UK Check out my latest edition of Sex City HERE

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Sex Stories We Love

Sex Stories We Love: Buck-off and Enjoy Yourself, DIY Orgasm Fun, & Accepting Anal

It is always fun to capture all that is changing in the world of sex through Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly. I am constantly amazed by the developments and the headway we, as a collective group of sexy, super people are making. Check out stories on Buck-off and Enjoy Yourself, Pornography and Poor Health?, DIY Orgasm Fun, Oh La La! France Maps the Clit!, Sex Ed: Not Just in School and Home and Accepting Anal.

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Sex Community

Sex Stories We Love: Redefining Relations, Adding Up to Anal, & Future of Sex Ed

This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly we remember that the road to positive change in the world of sex isn’t necessarily coated with lube. There might be some friction along the way. Check out stories on Redefining Relations?, Who Are You In Bed With?, Good Head(line), Adding Up To Anal, Future of Sex Ed and Rest in Power.

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Sex Stories We Love: Sex Product Policing, Required Research, Score! & More!

This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly explores the many intersections that sex has, not only with the world in general, but also with the different parts of itself! Check out stories on Sex Product Policing, Required Research, A Food & Sex Sandwich, Score!, Copyroom Canoodling and Fiddling Freedom.

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My next Sex City—August 23! Vanessa de Largie! Jerry Barnett! Luna Matatas!

On TUESDAY AUGUST 23, I will welcome some awesome folks to the SEX CITY studios at 11PM ET on 89.5FM in the Toronto area and CIUT.FM streaming live! Vanessa de Largie is an Australian sex writer and columnist whose work focuses on feminism, fierce female sexuality and women’s issues Luna Matatas will tell us about her sex education work, with a particular focus on CBT (Cock and Ball Torture) Jerry Barnett will delve into the controversial state of porn in the UK by telling us about his book Porn Panic! Sex and Censorship in the UK Tune in, 11pm – midnight on TUESDAY AUGUST …

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Sex Stories We Love: Orgy Offerings, Hysterical Sex History Lessons, Poke-Me-Mon? & More!

This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly is a trip through the past, present and even a bit of a peek into the present of our great, big, wide world of sex. Check out stories on Orgy Offerings, Hysterical Sex History Lessons, Words of Wisdom, Sex Positive Progress, Good News for Sex Creators and Poke-Me-Mon?.

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Sex Writing

Can Brave New World’s Sensual Cinema Turn Us on Today? My latest on Future of Sex!

It was a lot of fun to revisit one of my favourite books—through a different lens for Future of Sex! When I read Brave New World in high school, I do not recall sex being such a significant focus of our studies. This isn’t really surprising, we delved much more into the ideas around soma than we did The Feelies. However, the thought of a moviegoing experience that included physical sensation seems particularly prescient considering our current more to 4D, VR and beyond. Check out Can Brave New World’s Sensual Cinema Turn Us on Today?

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Listen to my latest Sex City with Andre Shakti, Asa Akira and Kay Brandt!

I was delighted to welcome three guests to Sex City who you might know better for their work in the porn industry, but who are venturing out with other projects! Asa Akira is a multi-award winning porn star who is releasing her second book Dirty Thirty Kay Brandt returns to the show to tell us about her new food and porn cooking show Forked Andre Shakti is expanding her writing career by seeking a space for her poly advice column and contributing to Cosmopolitan.com LISTEN HERE!

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Sex Health

Seven Deadly Sex Sins: Pride

We all want to think positively of ourselves and we all want to be acknowledged for our abilities. And that is great! Self-confidence and pride is a valuable and important thing. But it is key to not let it all go too far to your head so that you stop listening to your partner or lover—especially in bed. Thank you for reading this series of the 7 Deadly Sex Sins and many thanks to Cara Sutra for running these posts on her site! Check out Pride – Swallow It & Listen Past posts in the series: Envy: Is the Ass Greener …

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